The Lost Girls (Part 1)

April 21st, 2010 | 8 comments


Reading the first few pages of The Lost Girls by, well, The Lost Girls, was a little eerie. The book is about the adventures of three friends, Jennifer, Holly and Amanda, and their “unconventional detour around the world” but it was a little haunting how parallel their lives were to mine before they became The Lost Girls.

It was as if I had written the book, or at least the first few pages, and had no recollection of it. The Lost Girls worked in same city, the same industry and even with the same clients as I did. They asked the same questions I’ve asked myself a thousand times.

“Is this it? Is this life? Is life working a 9-7, getting married, buying a house with a white picket fence and having 2.5 kids? Is this the norm? Should I follow the norm? Why should I follow the norm?”

These girls took this journey to gain perspective and to find the answers to questions they never even asked. In the beginning pages of their book, I see myself as the younger version of them. I haven’t read past the prologue yet (the NY Times crossword took precedence) but I’m curious to see if my around-the-world adventure will be anything like theirs.

Stay tuned as I share my thoughts and bits and pieces of the book, The Lost Girls. If you’d like to get your own copy, please visit www.thelostgirlsworld.com for more information.

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I received a free copy of The Lost Girls but this is not a sponsored post. These thoughts are strictly and subjectively my own. No compensation of any form is going toward my grad school tuition.

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  • http://www.beatravelbee.com Joya

    Hi Monica, I'm excited to read this book too because I took a trip with my two best friends as well. I am actually getting a copy soon to review for my travel book blog on Wanderlust and Lipstick.

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Cannot wait to read this!!!!!!

  • http://www.vagabondquest.com/ Dina VagabondQuest

    Hi Monica, I love this line:
    “Is this the norm? Should I follow the norm? Why should I follow the norm?”

    I'm happy I'm not sacrificing my life for the norms anymore, even though many of my family and friends as if demanding me to do so.
    To graduate, buy a house, settle down, have kids, and the list go on.
    Some people even throw pity at me of not having the “normal life”, they keep asking me how jealous I am to their babies and house. I'm not quite sure how to response to these things.

    Do you sometimes feel like that too?

  • monica530

    Oh! I can't wait to read your review. It's always interesting to see what other people's perspectives are and how differently and/or similar they are to your own.

  • monica530

    It is REALLY good, especially the girls' anecdotes about the people and culture. I've cried so many times on the train already. It's a little ridiculous.

  • monica530

    Thanks! That's really what I sound like in my head, except it's much faster.

    I don't have many friends who are old enough to have kids and a mortgage but I wouldn't know how to respond if my friends assumed I was jealous I didn't have their lifestyle. To be quite honest, many people who live in developed countries live the same exact lifestyle. It's nothing different.

    I would just tell them “No, I am not jealous at all. I feel free and very fulfilled living the way I do. I am blessed to be able to live life this way.”

    I'm glad that you don't feel like you have to sacrifice your life for everyone else's expectations. Brava!

  • http://www.vagabondquest.com/ Dina VagabondQuest

    That's a great answer and representing my feeling as well. I'll try that next time I'm speechless!

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Awww, I can't wait to read it then!!! Travelogues usually make me cry
    too, because I feel the immense passion behind them.

    In a message dated 4/28/2010 9:29:22 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
    writes:

    monica530 wrote, in response to GlobalButterfly:

    It is REALLY good, especially the girls' anecdotes about the people and
    culture. I've cried so many times on the train already. It's a little
    ridiculous.

    Link to comment:
    http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2010/04/

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