Nine Rules To Follow When Traveling The World

August 4th, 2010 | 40 comments


bargain like a local

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1. Stop speaking English

English is not a universal language. Yelling a phrase louder and slower doesn’t make your vocal chords magically turn it into Spanish or Chinese or German or any other language besides English. If you’re traveling to a foreign country, don’t expect, or hope, that the people you interact with can speak English. According to National Geographic, “In the mid-20th century, nearly 9 percent of the world’s population grew up speaking English as their first language. In 2050, the number is expected to be 5 percent.” It’s good to be bi-lingual.

2. Bargain like a local

Don’t be an idiot like me and bargain in USD just because your brain is fried from the sweltering 102 degree weather in Honduras. While my friend and I were trying to grab a cab from San Pedro Sula to Lago de Yajoa, we could not calculate how much 600 lempiras equaled to in USD dollars. We asked the driver to quote us in US and he offered $40 USD. We agreed to it and realized later on when we were on the highway that 600 lempiras was only about $33 USD. Because of our laziness and stupidity, we ended up paying 120 lempiras, or about $7 USD, more than we would have if we just did the math.

3. Learn the culture & customs

Ladies, we all like to dress nice and feel pretty but it’s obnoxious to walk into a mosque in a tank top, a skirt and no head covering. What’s even more obnoxious is if you decide to take off the scarf you are given once you step inside. Many mosques are open to the public and your nonchalance to their religion and custom is offense to worshipers who not only open their homes but also their hearts to you. Be respectful. Put some clothes on.

4. Don’t be a princess

No wi-fi in your room? No hot water in the winter time? No seat cushion on the bus? I know it’s hard but try to suck it up. Whenever I find myself in a challenging situation, I think of the story my dad use to tell me when he was a little boy during Communist China. His family was really poor and so they only ate meat once a year on Chinese New Year.

One year, they couldn’t scrounge enough money to buy a chicken. A chicken in those days was about the size of a fist. It’s not like our hormone-injected chickens. My dad picked up some rocks and threw it at his neighbor’s chicken, put the dead chicken in a sack and carried it home. When my grandmother asked him where he got the chicken, he lied and said he found it on the side of the road. I never had to live the way he did, but it puts things into perspective.

5. Get lost

get lost

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Really, just get lost. No map? No worries. What does it mean to be lost when you’re in a foreign country? It’s not like you know where everything is anyway. Throw down the map and just go. You’d be surprise to discover some of the more unexpected things along the way. Many of the times, the things I discover when I’m “lost” are the things I remember most about my trip.

6. Don’t forget to look back

We’re always looking forward to our next trip, our next destination, our next adventure. It’s easy to forget to look back and reflect on how much we’ve seen and how much we’ve changed. When it comes to traveling, it’s never about the quantity – it’s the quality. You’ve been to 30 countries? Bravo! Where did you go in those 30 countries? Resorts or villages. What did you do? Lay on the beach or climb a mountain carved with poems by Confucius?

7. Don’t forget to give back

When we travel, we tend to take in everything around – the sights, the sound, the food & the culture. But do you ever think about what you give back besides dollar bills? (Don’t say Euros. You know what I mean.) We take away a lot from our travels so it’s only fair that we spend some time to give back. Spend a few weeks traveling and then a few weeks volunteering. It makes the experience so much more rewarding. Check out the Do Good Thursday column for tips and volunteer programs around the world.

8. Don’t forget to exercise

Yes, there is A LOT of walking when we travel. It’s definitely good cardio but there are other parts our bodies we should not forget – like our back and shoulders. We carry so much with us here and there that it’s good to make sure we take care of our bodies. It’s best to start a routine at a time when you know you’re not in a hurry to get somewhere but when it comes to traveling, there is no routine. You just go. The best tip is to squeeze a bit of exercise whenever you can. Unwind after a long day of trekking by doing some yoga. Do it before you shower. That’s the one consistent thing you do daily.

Or if you’re a stinky backpacker, maybe you can work out right before you blog. It gets your blood running and who knows? It might even spark creativity for your next blog post. What ever it is that you do every single day, squeeze in some exercising right before it. Working out a few few minutes every day is much better than working out intensively for 2 hour every other week. The most important thing for your body is to be balanced and to progress gradually. If you do it consistently, exercising won’t be a chore at all after a while.

9. Don’t forget about your fruits & veggies

Mom’s not always going to be around to nag us about eating our fruits and vegetables. It’s one of the easiest things to forget when you’re busy traveling or if you’re traveling on a budget. However, nutrition is the one thing you shouldn’t skimp out on. It’s absolutely necessary if you want to continue traveling with a healthy immune system. Who wants a lack of Vitamin C to hold them down from climbing The Great Wall of China?

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  • http://www.baconismagic.ca Ayngelina

    Oh you nailed it, this is the real list to follow. Interesting point on number 3: I learned in Central America that women simply don't wear shorts because it draws too much attention from guys. Sure they'll wear a skin tight tank top with their boobs hanging out but with jeans. Interesting that boobs are okay but knees are not :) I got by by wearing dresses which attracts a bit less attention.

  • http://twitter.com/conniehum Connie Hum

    Great rules Monica! I especially like your “get lost” rule. I'm going to try to remember this the next time my boyfriend and I get frustrated at each other for being lost. It IS a new adventure being lost and we're going to just go with it from now on.

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Fantastic list!!! I agree with all 9, especially “getting lost.”

  • http://twitter.com/suzrocks SuzRocks

    Stop speaking English and it's usually polite to have the courtesy to learn at least a FEW words of whatever local language. At least 'Thank You'. You may butcher it, but they still appreciate it.

    I can't stand it when girls walk around with all of their booty/boobs hanging out. Unless you're in a resort town, on the beach, or in Europe- that's pretty much not cool anywhere.

  • http://twitter.com/TransAmericas K Catchpole – E Mohl

    Rule 10 – There are no rules

  • Laura

    I second that!

  • http://news.airtreks.com AirTreks Nico

    I promise not to be a princess! :) But seriously, this one goes a long way. It's amazing the satisfaction of giving up things you didn't think you could when you're traveling. When you come back you'll find you never really needed them to begin with. Like expensive shampoo perhaps. That's what princesses use, right?

  • http://inspiringtravellers.com/ Inspiring Travellers

    Fantastic list – loved it! I actually look forward to having to rough it…getting back to basics does wonders for the soul.

  • Sophie

    Great list! Two guys I work with are traveling and exploring Southeast Asia for the next few months and are keeping a similar blog with great travel tips like these. Check it out if you can! http://studentuniverse.travel/

  • Aility

    Great rules! I will make sure to get more lost in the future. Always too stressed about where I am heading to and such, no good, no good =)

  • backpackingmatt

    I love this, Monica. I like, 'Don't be a Princess.' Travel isn't always going to be easy – and I don't think these challenges take the fun out of the adventure. To me? They're a part of it – and a reason we become more rounded people.

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Connie! I’ve discovered a lot of things when I get lost. That’s the whole point of traveling anyway so I try to remind myself not to have a conniption. My hotel doesn’t have legs.

  • Anonymous

    Oooh! I noticed that when I was on Honduras too! I didn’t think it was strange but I feel like boobies attract more attention than legs. I can’t comprehend it the other way around.

  • Anonymous

    Me too! Sometimes I forget not to be a princess but getting lost is something I do even in Brooklyn. That’s probably because I have a really bad sense of direction. Lol

  • Anonymous

    Yea, I try to learn a few words even if I butcher it. And I think a lot of the times, locals find it amusing when foreigners try to squeeze out a sentence holding a dictionary in front of them.

    I don’t appreciate the boobies thing either. I really find it disrespectful, not only to yourself but to others as well.

  • Anonymous

    Darn! You’re right. I forgot to put that one in.

  • Anonymous

    I do too! There’s something very appealing about the challenge. Sometimes I like seeing how far I can push myself. Although I must admit, my tolerance level for humidity and sleep-deprivation is not very high. I must work on that.

  • Anonymous

    Haha, yes expensive shampoo would definitely qualify as one of them. And conditioner too!

  • Anonymous

    Hi Aileen! Yes, it’s really easy for me to get lost. That’s because I have a bad sense of direction, which I get from my dad.

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Matt! I totally agree. It does make us more well rounded as people and we all need to do that because I feel like for those of us who grew up in the westernized countries, we all live in this bubble. We don’t realize that until we actually step out of it. So…bottom line: Being a princess is for pansies. Lol

  • monica530

    Oooh! I noticed that when I was on Honduras too! I didn't think it was strange but I feel like boobies attract more attention than legs. I can't comprehend it the other way around.

  • monica530

    Thanks Connie! I've discovered a lot of things when I get lost. That's the whole point of traveling anyway so I try to remind myself not to have a conniption. My hotel doesn't have legs.

  • monica530

    Me too! Sometimes I forget not to be a princess but getting lost is something I do even in Brooklyn. That's probably because I have a really bad sense of direction. Lol

  • monica530

    Yea, I try to learn a few words even if I butcher it. And I think a lot of the times, locals find it amusing when foreigners try to squeeze out a sentence holding a dictionary in front of them.

    I don't appreciate the boobies thing either. I really find it disrespectful, not only to yourself but to others as well.

  • monica530

    Darn! You're right. I forgot to put that one in.

  • monica530

    Haha, yes expensive shampoo would definitely qualify as one of them. And conditioner too!

  • monica530

    I do too! There's something very appealing about the challenge. Sometimes I like seeing how far I can push myself. Although I must admit, my tolerance level for humidity and sleep-deprivation is not very high. I must work on that.

  • monica530

    Hi Aileen! Yes, it's really easy for me to get lost. That's because I have a bad sense of direction, which I get from my dad.

  • monica530

    Thanks Matt! I totally agree. It does make us more well rounded as people and we all need to do that because I feel like for those of us who grew up in the westernized countries, we all live in this bubble. We don't realize that until we actually step out of it. So…bottom line: Being a princess is for pansies. Lol

  • http://travelsofadam.com Adam

    “Don’t forget to look back.” So true! Though it’s easier to do when you’re traveling slowly rather than if you’re always on the move.

    Also, exercise is important, too. I’ve found that I actually enjoy going for a run every now and then.

  • http://travelsofadam.com Adam

    It’s not the knees that they”re checking out.

  • http://travelsofadam.com Adam

    “Don't forget to look back.” So true! Though it's easier to do when you're traveling slowly rather than if you're always on the move.

    Also, exercise is important, too. I've found that I actually enjoy going for a run every now and then.

  • http://travelsofadam.com Adam

    It's not the knees that they''re checking out.

  • http://www.itsyourlondon.co.uk Sue

    Another rule: don’t be so busy with your head in your book/websites planning the next stop on your journey that you don’t really get to enjoy where you are

  • Kelly

    Let go of your peanut butter. Seriously. It’s hard, but necessary. You may not be able to find it in other countries. You will be okay!

  • Kelly

    Let go of your peanut butter. Seriously. It’s hard, but necessary. You may not be able to find it in other countries. You will be okay!

  • Anonymous

    Nice list Monica. I agree with all, especially number 1. Too many times have I seen the person in line in front of me speaking english to the other, and when he/she doesn’t understand, they just speak louder. Are you kidding me? I get frustrated and usually intervene and try to help them out. After the native English speaker is gone, we usually make fun of them and have a few good laughs. It is great to be bilingual for sure.

  • http://www.grrrltraveler.com GRRRL TRAVELER

    I admit I occasionally have difficulty with the “princess” rule. Though I try hard to work against this, coming from a western culture we’re all conditioned to be a little spoiled, right? For i.e., when you hit an Indian roadside toilet or are in the back of a tight bus in cramped seats snuggled in for a 12+ hr bouncy ride– you get those moments like, “this can’t be my life; how the hell did I get here?!” Of course my answer is always instantaneous & humbling– I’m budget backpacking!

  • Natalie Jones

    Brilliant tips :) Especially like idea number 7

  • http://twitter.com/SamLynnEvans Samuel Lynn-Evans

    yeh don’t be a princess, respect customs, learn languages etc. Everyone should be doin that shiz obvs. BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER TO BRUSH AND FLOSS YOUR TEETH. Your hygienist is very far away. That’s all I’m sayin’