Traveling Takes Courage But The 9-5 Grind Isn’t For Punks Either

August 30th, 2010 | 43 comments


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Steve Wade says in his guest post on Art of Backpacking, Is Travel The Easy Way Out?, “traveling requires a lot of courage. You need to be determined, independent, very sure of yourself and the decision you’re about to make, confident that you can go away for such a long period of time in far away and foreign places and it takes a bit of forward thinking and planning. It’s certainly not for the faint hearted.” That is certainly very true.

Some parents would say that we are being irresponsible when we decide to take a gap year instead of diving into the workforce. Other parents would understand our desire to get out into the real world and explore, just as long as we have a return ticket back home.

The part  that irks me about Steve’s post starts in his second paragraph. Is it a difficult decision to make when you decide to go from college to a job/career? No, it’s not. It’s what our society considers a natural progression. But then Steve undermines the entire job hunting process by saying, “you just find a job and work.” Actually, no. Anyone with real work experience knows that you don’t “just find a job and work.” That’s an obnoxious statement to make. Try telling that to the millions of people with hefty mortgage payments and who have been unemployed for the past year and a half. Tell that to my neighbor who leaves the house at 7AM and comes home at 2AM just to make $107 a day. Tell that to the recent college grad with a $60,000 school loan to just “find a job and work.”

If it were that easy, we’d all have jobs that pay extremely well with superior health benefits and allow us 3 months to travel every year. Wouldn’t it be easier to just run away, travel and get your mind off of this stress of tackling a competitive workforce? I would tend to think so. It takes a confident, responsible and resilient person to continue job hunting in the face of so many rejections and under so much stress. That’s not the same courage it takes to pack up your things and travel but it certainly isn’t for the faint hearted either.

Steve also goes to say that ” It’s not something that requires much thought or planning.” Really? Anyone who has ever written a resume, and not just a mediocre template-based resume you copied off Google, will tell you that it requires plenty of thought. They will also tell you that it takes plenty of planning to familiarities and fully understand the company and position you are interviewing for. Anyone with experience will tell you that deciding to “just find a job and work” takes A LOT of thought and A LOT of planning.

Lastly, Steve says, “It’s the people who choose not to take a career break and travel but continue with the 9-5 daily grind all their lives who have taken the easiest option.” Coming from someone who works 50 hours a week and commutes 13 hours every week, there is nothing easy about the grind. Lack of mental stimulation and passion can wear away on you physically, mentally and spiritually. You become a shell of the person you once were. But I guess compared to roaming free on the road, grinding 50 hours a week is definitely the much easier option.

Do you think traveling is the easy way out?

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  • Garrett

    You should go inside a ring with this guy for a 5-round right. I saw lots of “irks” in this post.

    “Becoming a shell of the person you once were.” It’s absolutely an easy rut to fall in to. You have to have your antidote. I’m married and a new, smaller version of me is on the way and staying in touch AND passionate about travel is an escape for me at times.

    But seriously, you could take this guy in round 1 by TKO. Let’s make it happen!

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael

    I’m liking how much talk that post has gotten! Thanks for the mention.

  • http://twenty-somethingtravel.com Stephanie

    Hmm, I think we can all agree that life is hard, and having to make big life choices is hard- no matter what those choices are. Leaving everything behind to travel, and working to excel at a career both take a lot of motivation and courage it’s true. What I think Steve might be referring to (although not as directly as he should) is not the effort that goes into working, but the mentality of working a 9-5 that maybe you don’t care for but are too mired in inertia to change. I certainly know a lot of people who are unhappy with their traditional lifestyle but think it’s too hard to make a worthwhile change.

    I’m not big on comparing lifestyles to determine the “best” one, but I think that if you are working to reach your goals, that is brave and challenging no matter what your goals are.

  • Anonymous

    Whoops, sorry for the double post.

  • Anonymous

    Whoops, sorry for the double post.

  • Anonymous

    I agree with this one. So often I see travel or lifestyle bloggers speak dismissively of folks working a regular job, and it annoys the hell out of me. It is not easy to get a job these days, nor are the jobs necessarily easy. I think that many, many of the folks in the travel/lifestyle blogging arena tend to come from backgrounds in business administration or marketing, both fields which generally pay well and have relatively easy to get jobs. For those of us who pursued our dreams earlier on and got degrees in something more interesting but less lucrative, the path is much, much harder. I have always followed my dreams and that has translated into me having a less marketable skill set in today’s job force, and so it really, really pisses me off when I see people who seem to think that you can just “go out and get a job”. If only it were that easy! I would love a job that pays more than $1000 a month (and I work 45-50hr wks), as it’s a bit difficult to save up for travel when you’re struggling just to make your rent!

  • Anonymous

    I agree with this one. So often I see travel or lifestyle bloggers speak dismissively of folks working a regular job, and it annoys the hell out of me. It is not easy to get a job these days, nor are the jobs necessarily easy. I think that many, many of the folks in the travel/lifestyle blogging arena tend to come from backgrounds in business administration or marketing, both fields which generally pay well and have relatively easy to get jobs. For those of us who pursued our dreams earlier on and got degrees in something more interesting but less lucrative, the path is much, much harder. I have always followed my dreams and that has translated into me having a less marketable skill set in today’s job force, and so it really, really pisses me off when I see people who seem to think that you can just “go out and get a job”. If only it were that easy! I would love a job that pays more than $1000 a month (and I work 45-50hr wks), as it’s a bit difficult to save up for travel when you’re struggling just to make your rent!

  • http://www.baconismagic.ca Ayngelina

    I tend to lean towards Stephanie’s comments. Getting my first job was tough but the inertia of staying in a job was easy. The decision to let go of security was difficult.

    But I find nothing wrong with working instead of long term travel. When I was working I traveled to South East Asia, Europe and New Zealand. I didn’t have as much time but I still had great experiences.

  • http://foxnomad.com Anil

    I don’t think it’s cut and dry – you can travel *and* work, or have a regular job that requires you to travel frequently, or have a 9-5 and travel in your off time, or do some combination of the two, etc. One can find many outlets for their passions.

  • http://www.breakawaybackpacker.com Jaime

    I would have to greatly agree with this post. I too sometimes feel that alot of the travel bloggers knock down on the people who aren’t traveling full time and working in a cube. Working a full time job is not easy at all and even if you have been at the job for years it is hard to keep it in these hard times. In the end we do decide what we want to do for whatever reason it is. Now that I have worked in a cube for so many years I have realized its not what I want. So I am now planning my 1st RTW trip!!!

  • http://www.maiden-voyage-travel.com Emily at Maiden Voyage

    You’re right, job hunting is really tough in this wimpy economy. A few years ago, I wouldn’t have blinked twice at the statement, “Just go out and get a job when you get home from traveling.” But with so many layoffs and so much unemployment, the process of finding a job can take months if not longer. It took my fiance’s job around a year to finally get a job–she went to SO many interviews but everything was so competitive since so many people are looking for work. While I would love to go off and do a long-term trip, I’m petrified of coming back to no job, and then waiting many months to find a new one to get a regular income. I know you can apply to jobs while you’re traveling, but it’s hard to do interviews that aren’t in person. I could do some work remotely, but I would imagine I’d have to go live back home with my parents or something for a while until I could find a steady job. It’s frustrating. I think those who are able to leave without a job waiting for them when they return are really brave (at least in this job market)!

  • http://girlunstoppable.com Ekua

    I currently work in education and have a 9ish to 5ish schedule and then I take off on most of my breaks to travel, sometimes for a month at a time. So I can look at things from both steady job and adventurous traveler perspectives.

    I think the emphasis should not be on if one way is better than another but rather, “Is whatever you’re doing satisfying you?” Some people have 9 to 5 jobs that actually satisfy them, so I think it’s important not to lump everyone together who has that kind of schedule. And then there are times when people take whatever job comes up because they HAVE to. I do understand where travelers who knock the 9 to 5 scene are coming from, I think they are referring to people who settle into a career that they’re far from passionate about that they know will be guaranteed to make them money so they can purchase STUFF. But like I said, this is not how everyone with a 9 to 5 is living.

    I wholeheartedly believe that people should travel if they have the opportunity, but long term travel isn’t for everyone. I know plenty of people who have dedicated themselves to improving the community around them or do something creative that they’re passionate about and are tied to one place. Nothing wrong with that, to each his/her own.

  • Anonymous

    You are absolutely right Steph about working towards your goals. Anytime you try to reach for your dreams, there is always a chance of failure. It takes a brave individual to face that reality and take a leap of faith anyway.

  • Anonymous

    I totally agree. I wouldn’t mind working a 9-5 if I knew that it was someway, somehow contributing for the better of the global community.

    I work a 9-7 and it completely drains the life out of me. I only have 10 vacation days which means traveling is that much harder. I’m so jealous you’re able to travel for a month at a time. That would be a dream come true for me…a dream that I’m currently working on.

  • Anonymous

    Oh yes definitely! I don’t think I’d be able to leave for extended travel without having a nice cushion to fall back on in case I come back and can’t find a job or my employer is just that awesome and will give me a leave of absence. Ideally, if I would make enough to support myself and not have to live at home as a freelancer I’m all for it!

  • Anonymous

    Yes, I feel like some people in the travel community have their nose up in their air. Especially those who have traveled extensively. At the same time, I’ve also noticed that these are the people who have had a career and have a nice sum saved up before their extended travels. But what about people who don’t have a cushion to fall back on? Traveling extensively isn’t as easy.

    I’m soooo looking forward to hearing about your RTW trip! Where are you off to first?

  • Anonymous

    I would LOVE to have a job that requires me to travel, preferably in the non-profit sector. That might take a while to come by but I’m always hoping I get lucky. :)

  • Anonymous

    Oh, that is definitely true. It’s a very secure feeling to know that you have a paycheck coming every two weeks.

    I’m really glad you didn’t let your full time job stop you from traveling and look where you are now! Jet-setting around the world!

  • Anonymous

    I’m with you Kels. I work 50 hours a week and spend 13 hours commuting. It might be only a 10 hour work day but it’s a full 17 hour day for me, which leaves only 7 hours to recuperate. It does take a toll on me and the relationships I have in my life. And given that I only have 10 days out of the year to travel, it makes it that much harder to do what I enjoy.

  • Anonymous

    :) I’m glad it did…thanks for sparking the fire in me.

  • Anonymous

    Haha! I’m not one to resort to violence but this is my nice post. :p

  • Anonymous

    Here’s what I wrote to Steve:

    “I’m going to be a voice of dissent here (because hey, I’m an argumentative person). For me (and, I think, a lot of people), travel is the easy way out.

    Right now, here in the US, what I’m doing is hard: I’m working a shitty job for 45 hours a week that barely pays me over $1000 a month. After my rent, food, and payments toward my debt, I have about $200 per month left over (at best), most of which gets spent traveling on weekends and on my hobbies. It’s hard. I rarely have any time to myself because I work 12pm-8pm and thus don’t have much time in either the morning or the evening, and it’s hard to even have all that much quality time with my partner (because he works normal hours). It’s hard, but I do it because it allows me to stay here and have a life with my partner (who does not have a job/skillset that can be done overseas or on the road) and pursue my hobbies (through which I have many friends).

    By comparison, travel is easy: I could, tomorrow, pack up and move back to Korea to teach English again. I’d have a 20 hour a week job that pays twice what I make here, with next to no living expenses. I could just as easily go to Thailand, Vietnam, Nepal, Argentina, or Slovakia and get a job as a teacher. I wouldn’t earn as much, but again, I’d have more than enough money for a relaxed lifestyle, with a much less stressful job than I have here. It’s really not all that hard to pack up your crap and head overseas, and I have never really understood why so many people make it out to be. Yeah, being surrounded by a foreign language is hard, but you get used to it fast – same with strange food, etc. Travel is the easy way out – the life is easier.

    Now, I haven’t moved back overseas because doing so would mean leaving my wonderful partner of three years behind. I don’t mind us being apart for 3-6 months at a time, but anything beyond that is more than I care to do again (we were apart for a year while I was in Korea). But, my argument still stands: travel is the easy way out, as it doesn’t really require much effort and the lifestyle is a lot less stressful and a lot less effort than life back at home. “

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael

    Though it’s true that a lot of travel bloggers do knock down on others like you said, I don’t think that’s what Steve was trying convey. More people need to follow a path that is right FOR THEM rather than going with what you’re told to do. Of course this is all within reason and common sense.

    Whether you choose a full time job or a travel lifestyle, both are equally hard. In my opinion, the two cannot be compared and never should be.

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael

    Like in my previous comment, I think Steve’s post wasn’t meant to bash specifically on 9-5 people. We all know everyone has different circumstances and a lot of long term travelers do indeed have ‘luck’ on their side.

    My opinion: We are lucky to have choices. You can choose to live how you want and not many other people in this world are lucky enough to have all the choices we have. Following dreams takes sacrifices. Following what ISN’T your dream IS easy. And that’s the message that’s being told.

    I always tell people… Stop complaining and be yourself. Do what makes YOU happy.

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael

    You choose to make it harder because you have a job that you don’t like while there is the opportunity to travel which you seem to like hence making it easier.

    Travel isn’t easy for everyone but it is to you because you like it.

  • Anonymous

    See, I’d argue that following what *is* your dream or following what *isn’t* your dream are equally easy. It’s all about outlook, and how early on you decide to pursue that dream. For some people, following your dream is even easier than not, as I said to Steve. For me, it would be much easier for me to travel than to live the life I’m living now.

  • Anonymous

    It’s not really a choice, because I doubt that most people would want to leave their partner in exchange for a lifestyle change.

    Your logic here seems odd – why would anyone travel if they didn’t like it? You seem to be saying that travel is hard for other folks because they don’t like travel. That doesn’t seem to be the case within the sampling being discussed here.

  • Anonymous

    With many of them it isn’t bravery, it’s that they’re in fields where jobs are not hard to come by. It’s good fortune being dressed up like bravery.

  • Anonymous

    Indeed. Folks talk about saving up money for a trip, but that’s hard to do when you have a job that barely pays the bills. I’ve heard those sentiments from many people, and it seems to be a point of contention.

  • Anonymous

    See, I think that “security” is actually why I’ve never really had much inertia for staying in a job. I have never, ever felt “secure” in a job, in that I have never had a job with a comfortable paycheck or a job where I wasn’t constantly sure that I was near the chopping block. If you never feel secure in a job, you never have trouble leaving.

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com AOBdolce

    I’ve heard a lot about this post, esp since it is in response to a guest post on our site, and I’m so glad to see such an elaborate response, and especially a new viewpoint on the topic.

    Any life choice sure is difficult; whether you include travel in that lifestyle. I don’t think ANY choice is the easy way out. We all work hard whether we decide to work the 9-5 lifestyle, or we are freelancers, expats, writers, in creative flexible fields etc etc.

    Personally, as someone in the crossroads of her life; looking at many directions and choices, I feel like that alone is a difficult decision. Do I want to continue living in NYC; a city I love, but working hard to live here? Or, living on the whim, a little differently, but seeing new, amazing things.

    I respect what you have to say and how you travel Monica, as I know you personally as a hard worker. You find time to travel and appreciate that time to write creative blogs about it; as I personally noted you a few months ago for the other site I was working for.

    Thank you so much for posting this. It got my creative writing juices flowing!

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    I seriously don’t understand why everyone equates work with being miserable??? What about all the people in the world that actually LOVE their job and get a lot of personal fulfillment from it?

  • http://budgettravelerssandbox.com Nancie (Ladyexpat)

    My initial reaction is “Has Steve ever had a job?” Perhaps people flipping burgers for a living (and there is nothing wrong with that) might not have to give much thought to their resume, but anyone who wants to aspire to anything beyond an entry level position certainly does.

    Lifestyles are all about choices. Ten years ago I chose to leave the Canadian grind and move to Asia. I am now in a position where I work 7 months and travel 5. That didn’t happen over night. I’m not interested in working life in Canada, and I’m not interested in traveling full-time. Living in a foreign country and traveling is the best of best worlds (for me). Just like full-time travel it’s not for everyone.

  • http://twitter.com/mobilelawyer Michael Hodson

    You know what I’m not ever much of a fan of?? People like Steve that like to tell other people how to lead their lives. I’m happy for him that he has found the life/balance that makes him happy. I’m also happy for my friends with 3 kids that enjoy their 9 to 5 job and going to soccer games every weekend. More power to the both of them. Do whatever you want to do that makes you happy — as long as you aren’t hurting other people.

    We live in one of the most judgmental societies on the planet. And I’m not sure why so many people revel in it. Does belittling other people’s choices in life make everyone really feel that much better about their own? Live your own life — you’ve got one shot at it — there is plenty to concentrate on right there. No need to try to live everyone else’s also.

  • http://www.dangerous-business.com Amanda

    What an interesting debate! I think that your title sums it up perfectly — both routes can be daunting and difficult. And both can, in fact, be “the easy way out.” Or maybe neither. It all depends on your personal goals and situation in life.

  • Anonymous

    Wow – what do you do where you get to work for 7 months and travel for 5? I’d love to have a job like that. I would be so much happier than this 9-7 grind and only 10 vacation days.

  • Anonymous

    Yea, you are right. Working a 9-5 could be the easy way out in a sense that you have a stable income but traveling could also be safer the easy way out because you don’t have much obligation to work. I guess it just depends on the person.

  • Anonymous

    Yes, it really irritates me when people like Steve make the comments they do. They just come of as being holier than thou. I, too, am happy for people with a 9-5, a family, children and a nice home to live in. One day, if I’m lucky enough, I’d like to have a family and maybe kids as well. But living that kind of life does not mean I have to give up entirely on my passion for traveling.

    Of course it would make it more difficult because I have other responsibilities and obligations but if it’s a family that I want then traveling a little less to spend time with them isn’t the worst thing in the world.

    I think people are too judgmental as well and it bugs me when they say I’m too political correct.

  • Anonymous

    That’s a very good point. If you love what you do it doesn’t feel like work at all.

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Teresa! I’m glad you like my post. I love living in NYC too. I was born and bred here. This place will always be home. But I also don’t want to work like a slave to be here. It takes the fun and beauty out of NYC if I can’t even enjoy it.

    Traveling makes me feel alive and I always feel like I need to get out of NYC because this is the place I work. Not the place I play. I try to see it both ways but it’s hard. I’m still working to bridge to two together.

    I think whatever your decision you make at the end as long as you are happy, you’ve made the right choice.

  • http://www.stayadventurous.wordpress.com/ craig zabransky

    Monica, I had a job that allowed me to travel plenty. Consulting. In fact I selected all my careers because of my desire to see the globe. (my first out of college, because of two weeks of training in London to my current freelance employment)

    And each job, position required effort and work to obtain. I planned for them all – including my one year RTW. My thoughts are people must first need to find out what is their passion, what lights them up inside. When you know, you put effort into obtaining that… (and we all can, yes I believe we ALL can) then you find career bliss or travel bliss – that is the best destination anyone can travel too.

    stay adventurous, Craig

  • http://www.stayadventurous.wordpress.com/ craig zabransky

    Amen. Find the work you love. Simple isn’t it? It can be. Why do we chose to make it hard?

    stay adventurous, Craig

  • http://www.stayadventurous.wordpress.com/ craig zabransky

    totally agree with overcoming the inertia… at times it can seem difficult, but you need to determine what makes you happy in your life and obtain it… and I disagree with your first sentence “i think we can all agree life is hard” to me, life is what you make it…. if you make it hard – well then its hard. it’s a choice. I am not choosing to make it hard. no thank you.

    stay adventurous, Craig

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