About Me

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I use to want the corner office. Now I want the world.

Hey Strangers!

If you’re wondering who I am, I’m wondering too. I’m wondering how to put me in words. Self-introductions are always so bland. My name is Monica. I’m Chinese. I was born and bred in New York City. (Go Brooklyn!) I majored in Advertising and Marketing Communications. I’m currently an Account Coordinator at a social media marketing agency.

But is that really who I am? Not entirely. Words can’t fully capture a person’s character. It’s your actions that define who you are. And those actions should be filled with passion. Life should be lived with passion.

Traveling makes me feel that way. It makes me feel alive to discover bits and pieces of myself and of humanity along the way. But sometimes I forget. I forget because I’m afraid of being financially unstable. I find myself giving in to the practicality and comfort of working a 9-5, actually it’s a 9-7. But who’s counting?

“To be nobody but yourself in a world that’s doing its best to make you somebody else, is to fight the hardest battle you are ever going to fight. Never stop fighting.”- E.E. Cummings

I refuse to let society program me. Conformity isn’t for everyone. I want to see the world through my eyes, not the way someone else tells me to. My interpretation of it makes me who I am. The path I take to get there is by traveling.

Traveling doesn’t always mean leaving the country. It doesn’t mean you have to leave your home. Home is where the heart is. Traveling is leaving your bubble, your comfort zone. Sometimes I travel to different places in the world. Sometimes I travel in my thoughts. Either way I travel, it’s food for my soul.

That’s who I am. I’m always hungry. Feed me!

Monica

P.S. Wondering why this blog is called A Pair of Panties & Boxers?


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  • Connie
    Hi Monica! Congrats on your un-conforming lifestyle! I left my nice office job in NYC two years ago and haven't stopped traveling since! I have a blog as well. Maybe you and your readers would be interested in checking it out. I'm looking forward to reading more about your adventures!

    Happy trails,
    Connie
    www.connvoyage.com
  • monica530
    Hi Connie! Thanks for visiting my blog. I'm so jealous you've been on the road for two years. Must be a fantastic experience. Would you ever go back to the cube life in NYC after this?

    I'm just starting a Do Good Thursday column and I would love to feature you and your volunteer adventure on my blog. Would you be interested in doing a guest post about your volunteer experience with the Burmese migrant workers in Thailand? Please let me know.

    You can read more about Do Good Thursday here: http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2010/07/...
  • Connie
    Hi Monica, I would be honored! Please email me with the details of the post and I would be happy to oblige! Also, please let me know if you have a deadline for me because I just have 4 weeks left with the volunteer program and it's busy busy busy! Thanks, Connie
  • Jen
    Very awesome post! Good for you, to have just said "time out" to life for a while. I myself am currently preparing to leave the world of ambulances, sirens, and sick people in search of self and experience. I'm really excited about it and get encouraged everyday how well this plan to abandon all plans works for people. Looking forward to reading more. Good luck with the projects and grad school and traveling...

    ps and Spanish and yes, why panties and boxers?
  • monica530
    Yay for you! You must be ecstatic about traveling the world. Why A Pair of Panties & Boxers? I think you should read this entry: http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2009/07/.... You'll get a kick out of it. :)
  • kristian
    Really diggin this, "Traveling doesn’t always mean leaving the country. It doesn’t mean you have to leave your home. Home is where the heart is. Traveling is leaving your bubble, your comfort zone. Sometimes I travel to different places in the world. Sometimes I travel in my thoughts"
    I have to get out of my comfort zone in my own town or states sometime.
  • monica530
    Thanks Kristian! And thanks for stopping by. I hope you enjoy reading my blog. I'll be leaving for Honduras in 2 weeks so I'm hoping to come back with a batch of new travel stories for you. Stay tuned! :)
  • ginamorra
    Awesome intro! Sounds a lot like myself and what I write about in my blog. I'm scared to leave my 9-5 bubble- except my job is actually retail- so it's 8-5 or 11-8 ot 1-10, and weekends! Yuck!

    I'm new to this whole travel world (as you may have seen in my entry to win the costa rica contest), but reading these travel blogs gives me inspiration and motivation to keep going and to stay on top of traveling! (because we all know how easy it is to let money and work get in the way).

    Hope I meet you at the travel show and looking forward to reading more from you!
  • monica530
    Oh I definitely know what you mean. My 50 hour work week drains the life out of me. I feel like I'm not really living at all. Traveling makes me feel alive and reading travel blogs also motivates me keep going and not let work get in the way.

    I hope you win that trip to Costa Rica. I've never been but I'm sure it would be such a fantastic experience. I'm not sure when I'll head to the travel show. It depends on how long it takes me to get out there. The snow is causing so much traffic delays. I would guesstimate around 2 or 3PM. I hope I see you there too!

    Going to head over to your blog now...Ciao!
  • Thanks for stopping by Atul. My photos don't compare to yours. ;)
  • Hi Mark. Thanks for stopping by! :)
  • interesting intro, lol!
    just "stumbled" across your blog, great photos, keep it up!
  • Hi monica.. :)
  • I removed the "Recent Post" widget that Wordpress has and replaced it with just a text box. I hyperlink the images and include the title of the blog posts. It's not easy trying to get creative with a free generic Wordpress template. Haha!
  • uniquetraveldestinations
    Hi Monica, random Q: in your "Recent Posts" column on right, how do you show pics instead of text? First time I'm seeing it and would love to learn how to do it. Thx, dian
  • wusibao
    You're welcome. I speak Mandarin but it is a bit rusty now.
  • Thanks so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?
  • wusibao
    Monica:

    I love your blog! Like you, I also studied Chinese in China and am also 1/4 Chinese. Your blog brings me back to those times!
  • Thanks Richard! China is amazing and I feel like I've only scraped the surface. I didn't take all of the pictures so I can only take partial credit. Thanks for stopping by. :)
  • :) Thanks Dave for sticking around long enough to read it.
  • Hi Monica - I just came across your site now and wanted to let you know your photos are stunning. China looks amazing.
  • Wow - great "about" page! I like the EE Cummings quote. Will be reading....
  • Thanks for stopping by Jokin! I'm glad you like it here. Hope you stick around!
  • Jokin
    Hi Monica!

    I'm glad you've followed us on twitter. I've been checking your posts and really liked your adventures and writing.

    Definitely, I'll keep an eye on your blog and twitts :)
  • Great introduction Monica! Thanks for contacting me. I can tell by your writing that you have a zest for life and I'm looking forward to reading more about your adventures. Keep 'em coming!
  • Monica you have a wonderful blog and I like your words about travel!
  • Hey Wynnii! Yes, let's definitely keep in touch! :)
  • Wynnii
    Hi Monica! Thanks for writing to me. I've added you onto my blogroll.

    Let's chat. I'll send you an email.
  • Great stuff. I hope you liked Xi'an. Thanks for stopping by my site.
  • itsasmallworldafterallfamily
    Great idea to start a travel blog to keep the travel bug alive! Glad you liked our blog, I started ages before our trip as a way of keeping the excitment in check. It's good to have that to work on when there is not much else I can do for the time being. Looking forward to seeing how your blog develops.
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