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Kirsten Alana
Kirsten Alana is a traveling photographer and storyteller who’s particularly obsessed with France and Mexico; only one of which she has actually been to! For 10 years she worked as a portrait & wedding photographer almost by accident until a huge life change prompted serious introspection. The result is a new career combining travel, photography & reporting; or storytelling! She doesn’t intend to stop traveling until she’s seen every corner of the globe (however long might that take). When not on the road or taking photographs, she reads Jane Austen novels, runs her iPod into the ground and tries to spend as much time as she can in the great outdoors. Read more of Kirsten’s travels here.
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great list! we worked in arequipa for an organization called traveller not tourist. apart from a small registration fee, it is also free to work there. they have an english school for children living in a poor community as well as an orphanage. here is our blog post, http://www.cloudpeopleadventures.com/2010/06/volunteering-flora-tristan-english-school-arequipa-peru/
cheers, jamie
I think this type of guide is probably the best way to see most sites. I don’t like wandering around important historical areas without knowing what it all means, and human tour guides can cost so much. Audio guides – yes.
I don’t even bother trying to get off their mailing list. Any form of contact will only encourage people like these. There’s another one out there by the way: Mark Jaction at markjaction@gmail.com
Ummmm, that’s so wrong! I’m glad you’re exposing them!
Excellent idea – brings your own personal tour guide to your headphones.
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This is a fabulous idea! Only jealous I didn’t voice them! Della got a great job.
Good luck with them.
Can’t tweet this as I don’t tweet (does that make me bad person?), so am I out of the running??
I will “like” you however.
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I’m in Egypt at the moment, moved here a few days ago! I’d love to check out the Egypt guide:)
I love Egypt!
Great list!!
You have same sense of travel as me! Thought I’ve never packed Vaseline, not I’m putting it in my bag! Great idea indeed!
Hand wipe is one of my favorite item. It saved me in Malaysia. Water was gone for two days! Phew.
Thanks for the reminder and thumbs up!
This is great! I love learning about ancient cultures.
This sounds great – I love ancient history! Just curious, do you know how much it would cost to get an actual tour guide?
The one from argentina is the one that sticks out in my mind.. wow.. look at how bright it is. I wonder if that has to do with the clear skies down there… plan on heading there very soon!
Nice, looking forward to the Peru post!
totally agree with overcoming the inertia… at times it can seem difficult, but you need to determine what makes you happy in your life and obtain it… and I disagree with your first sentence “i think we can all agree life is hard” to me, life is what you make it…. if you make it hard – well then its hard. it’s a choice. I am not choosing to make it hard. no thank you.
stay adventurous, Craig
Amen. Find the work you love. Simple isn’t it? It can be. Why do we chose to make it hard?
stay adventurous, Craig
Monica, I had a job that allowed me to travel plenty. Consulting. In fact I selected all my careers because of my desire to see the globe. (my first out of college, because of two weeks of training in London to my current freelance employment)
And each job, position required effort and work to obtain. I planned for them all – including my one year RTW. My thoughts are people must first need to find out what is their passion, what lights them up inside. When you know, you put effort into obtaining that… (and we all can, yes I believe we ALL can) then you find career bliss or travel bliss – that is the best destination anyone can travel too.
stay adventurous, Craig
I like them!
GREAT pic!
Thanks Teresa! I’m glad you like my post. I love living in NYC too. I was born and bred here. This place will always be home. But I also don’t want to work like a slave to be here. It takes the fun and beauty out of NYC if I can’t even enjoy it.
Traveling makes me feel alive and I always feel like I need to get out of NYC because this is the place I work. Not the place I play. I try to see it both ways but it’s hard. I’m still working to bridge to two together.
I think whatever your decision you make at the end as long as you are happy, you’ve made the right choice.
That’s a very good point. If you love what you do it doesn’t feel like work at all.
Yes, it really irritates me when people like Steve make the comments they do. They just come of as being holier than thou. I, too, am happy for people with a 9-5, a family, children and a nice home to live in. One day, if I’m lucky enough, I’d like to have a family and maybe kids as well. But living that kind of life does not mean I have to give up entirely on my passion for traveling.
Of course it would make it more difficult because I have other responsibilities and obligations but if it’s a family that I want then traveling a little less to spend time with them isn’t the worst thing in the world.
I think people are too judgmental as well and it bugs me when they say I’m too political correct.
Sure would love to! But I would need about a week of two, as I’m already
writing 3 more guest posts haha. Can you send me the details (ie: how many
words, pics, etc). XOXO
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Yea, you are right. Working a 9-5 could be the easy way out in a sense that you have a stable income but traveling could also be safer the easy way out because you don’t have much obligation to work. I guess it just depends on the person.
Wow – what do you do where you get to work for 7 months and travel for 5? I’d love to have a job like that. I would be so much happier than this 9-7 grind and only 10 vacation days.
Oooh! I didn’t know that. Would like you write a guest post for Do Good Thursday about it?
This article is so interesting.i don’t forget to take my ipod in travel as listening music make my travel more beautiful with beautiful scenes.
Interesting stuff. Too bad she passed, great to hear those old stories!
Love the colors!!!
I would like eat different kind of food. I am adding different menu in my breakfast and lunch. Some time would like to outside for dinner also with my family and friends. Thanks for sharing.
Yum, one of my go-to restaurants in NYC!
This is wonderful!!!!! I did a similar program in South Africa and it was life changing.
What an interesting debate! I think that your title sums it up perfectly — both routes can be daunting and difficult. And both can, in fact, be “the easy way out.” Or maybe neither. It all depends on your personal goals and situation in life.
Love finding places like this! Can’t wait to go and try it out…LOVE the prices too
Great for a college student budget lol.
This is my kind of resto! Eclectic!
Nice post. Thanks for sharing…………..
You know what I’m not ever much of a fan of?? People like Steve that like to tell other people how to lead their lives. I’m happy for him that he has found the life/balance that makes him happy. I’m also happy for my friends with 3 kids that enjoy their 9 to 5 job and going to soccer games every weekend. More power to the both of them. Do whatever you want to do that makes you happy — as long as you aren’t hurting other people.
We live in one of the most judgmental societies on the planet. And I’m not sure why so many people revel in it. Does belittling other people’s choices in life make everyone really feel that much better about their own? Live your own life — you’ve got one shot at it — there is plenty to concentrate on right there. No need to try to live everyone else’s also.
Sooo going to try it next time I’m in the City!
My initial reaction is “Has Steve ever had a job?” Perhaps people flipping burgers for a living (and there is nothing wrong with that) might not have to give much thought to their resume, but anyone who wants to aspire to anything beyond an entry level position certainly does.
Lifestyles are all about choices. Ten years ago I chose to leave the Canadian grind and move to Asia. I am now in a position where I work 7 months and travel 5. That didn’t happen over night. I’m not interested in working life in Canada, and I’m not interested in traveling full-time. Living in a foreign country and traveling is the best of best worlds (for me). Just like full-time travel it’s not for everyone.
I seriously don’t understand why everyone equates work with being miserable??? What about all the people in the world that actually LOVE their job and get a lot of personal fulfillment from it?
I’ve heard a lot about this post, esp since it is in response to a guest post on our site, and I’m so glad to see such an elaborate response, and especially a new viewpoint on the topic.
Any life choice sure is difficult; whether you include travel in that lifestyle. I don’t think ANY choice is the easy way out. We all work hard whether we decide to work the 9-5 lifestyle, or we are freelancers, expats, writers, in creative flexible fields etc etc.
Personally, as someone in the crossroads of her life; looking at many directions and choices, I feel like that alone is a difficult decision. Do I want to continue living in NYC; a city I love, but working hard to live here? Or, living on the whim, a little differently, but seeing new, amazing things.
I respect what you have to say and how you travel Monica, as I know you personally as a hard worker. You find time to travel and appreciate that time to write creative blogs about it; as I personally noted you a few months ago for the other site I was working for.
Thank you so much for posting this. It got my creative writing juices flowing!
See, I think that “security” is actually why I’ve never really had much inertia for staying in a job. I have never, ever felt “secure” in a job, in that I have never had a job with a comfortable paycheck or a job where I wasn’t constantly sure that I was near the chopping block. If you never feel secure in a job, you never have trouble leaving.
Indeed. Folks talk about saving up money for a trip, but that’s hard to do when you have a job that barely pays the bills. I’ve heard those sentiments from many people, and it seems to be a point of contention.
With many of them it isn’t bravery, it’s that they’re in fields where jobs are not hard to come by. It’s good fortune being dressed up like bravery.
It’s not really a choice, because I doubt that most people would want to leave their partner in exchange for a lifestyle change.
Your logic here seems odd – why would anyone travel if they didn’t like it? You seem to be saying that travel is hard for other folks because they don’t like travel. That doesn’t seem to be the case within the sampling being discussed here.
See, I’d argue that following what *is* your dream or following what *isn’t* your dream are equally easy. It’s all about outlook, and how early on you decide to pursue that dream. For some people, following your dream is even easier than not, as I said to Steve. For me, it would be much easier for me to travel than to live the life I’m living now.
You choose to make it harder because you have a job that you don’t like while there is the opportunity to travel which you seem to like hence making it easier.
Travel isn’t easy for everyone but it is to you because you like it.
Like in my previous comment, I think Steve’s post wasn’t meant to bash specifically on 9-5 people. We all know everyone has different circumstances and a lot of long term travelers do indeed have ‘luck’ on their side.
My opinion: We are lucky to have choices. You can choose to live how you want and not many other people in this world are lucky enough to have all the choices we have. Following dreams takes sacrifices. Following what ISN’T your dream IS easy. And that’s the message that’s being told.
I always tell people… Stop complaining and be yourself. Do what makes YOU happy.
Though it’s true that a lot of travel bloggers do knock down on others like you said, I don’t think that’s what Steve was trying convey. More people need to follow a path that is right FOR THEM rather than going with what you’re told to do. Of course this is all within reason and common sense.
Whether you choose a full time job or a travel lifestyle, both are equally hard. In my opinion, the two cannot be compared and never should be.
Here’s what I wrote to Steve:
“I’m going to be a voice of dissent here (because hey, I’m an argumentative person). For me (and, I think, a lot of people), travel is the easy way out.
Right now, here in the US, what I’m doing is hard: I’m working a shitty job for 45 hours a week that barely pays me over $1000 a month. After my rent, food, and payments toward my debt, I have about $200 per month left over (at best), most of which gets spent traveling on weekends and on my hobbies. It’s hard. I rarely have any time to myself because I work 12pm-8pm and thus don’t have much time in either the morning or the evening, and it’s hard to even have all that much quality time with my partner (because he works normal hours). It’s hard, but I do it because it allows me to stay here and have a life with my partner (who does not have a job/skillset that can be done overseas or on the road) and pursue my hobbies (through which I have many friends).
By comparison, travel is easy: I could, tomorrow, pack up and move back to Korea to teach English again. I’d have a 20 hour a week job that pays twice what I make here, with next to no living expenses. I could just as easily go to Thailand, Vietnam, Nepal, Argentina, or Slovakia and get a job as a teacher. I wouldn’t earn as much, but again, I’d have more than enough money for a relaxed lifestyle, with a much less stressful job than I have here. It’s really not all that hard to pack up your crap and head overseas, and I have never really understood why so many people make it out to be. Yeah, being surrounded by a foreign language is hard, but you get used to it fast – same with strange food, etc. Travel is the easy way out – the life is easier.
Now, I haven’t moved back overseas because doing so would mean leaving my wonderful partner of three years behind. I don’t mind us being apart for 3-6 months at a time, but anything beyond that is more than I care to do again (we were apart for a year while I was in Korea). But, my argument still stands: travel is the easy way out, as it doesn’t really require much effort and the lifestyle is a lot less stressful and a lot less effort than life back at home. “
Haha! I’m not one to resort to violence but this is my nice post. :p
I’m with you Kels. I work 50 hours a week and spend 13 hours commuting. It might be only a 10 hour work day but it’s a full 17 hour day for me, which leaves only 7 hours to recuperate. It does take a toll on me and the relationships I have in my life. And given that I only have 10 days out of the year to travel, it makes it that much harder to do what I enjoy.
Oh, that is definitely true. It’s a very secure feeling to know that you have a paycheck coming every two weeks.
I’m really glad you didn’t let your full time job stop you from traveling and look where you are now! Jet-setting around the world!
I would LOVE to have a job that requires me to travel, preferably in the non-profit sector. That might take a while to come by but I’m always hoping I get lucky.
Yes, I feel like some people in the travel community have their nose up in their air. Especially those who have traveled extensively. At the same time, I’ve also noticed that these are the people who have had a career and have a nice sum saved up before their extended travels. But what about people who don’t have a cushion to fall back on? Traveling extensively isn’t as easy.
I’m soooo looking forward to hearing about your RTW trip! Where are you off to first?
Oh yes definitely! I don’t think I’d be able to leave for extended travel without having a nice cushion to fall back on in case I come back and can’t find a job or my employer is just that awesome and will give me a leave of absence. Ideally, if I would make enough to support myself and not have to live at home as a freelancer I’m all for it!
I totally agree. I wouldn’t mind working a 9-5 if I knew that it was someway, somehow contributing for the better of the global community.
I work a 9-7 and it completely drains the life out of me. I only have 10 vacation days which means traveling is that much harder. I’m so jealous you’re able to travel for a month at a time. That would be a dream come true for me…a dream that I’m currently working on.
You are absolutely right Steph about working towards your goals. Anytime you try to reach for your dreams, there is always a chance of failure. It takes a brave individual to face that reality and take a leap of faith anyway.
I currently work in education and have a 9ish to 5ish schedule and then I take off on most of my breaks to travel, sometimes for a month at a time. So I can look at things from both steady job and adventurous traveler perspectives.
I think the emphasis should not be on if one way is better than another but rather, “Is whatever you’re doing satisfying you?” Some people have 9 to 5 jobs that actually satisfy them, so I think it’s important not to lump everyone together who has that kind of schedule. And then there are times when people take whatever job comes up because they HAVE to. I do understand where travelers who knock the 9 to 5 scene are coming from, I think they are referring to people who settle into a career that they’re far from passionate about that they know will be guaranteed to make them money so they can purchase STUFF. But like I said, this is not how everyone with a 9 to 5 is living.
I wholeheartedly believe that people should travel if they have the opportunity, but long term travel isn’t for everyone. I know plenty of people who have dedicated themselves to improving the community around them or do something creative that they’re passionate about and are tied to one place. Nothing wrong with that, to each his/her own.
Thanks Mike! Glad you enjoyed. Please let me know when you decide to volunteer abroad. Would love to have you on A Pair of Panties & Boxers for Do Good Thursday.
Thanks Laura…I’m not a fan of protein bars. Some of them don’t really taste that great Lol.
Haha! I’m the complete opposite. When i’m so engulged in where I am, I forget that I’m hungry!
What are the other 4 items you keep in your travel bag?
You’re right, job hunting is really tough in this wimpy economy. A few years ago, I wouldn’t have blinked twice at the statement, “Just go out and get a job when you get home from traveling.” But with so many layoffs and so much unemployment, the process of finding a job can take months if not longer. It took my fiance’s job around a year to finally get a job–she went to SO many interviews but everything was so competitive since so many people are looking for work. While I would love to go off and do a long-term trip, I’m petrified of coming back to no job, and then waiting many months to find a new one to get a regular income. I know you can apply to jobs while you’re traveling, but it’s hard to do interviews that aren’t in person. I could do some work remotely, but I would imagine I’d have to go live back home with my parents or something for a while until I could find a steady job. It’s frustrating. I think those who are able to leave without a job waiting for them when they return are really brave (at least in this job market)!
Yes, an iTouch certainly comes in handle. Wish I could get my hands on one soon! Lol
Yea, my iPod is definitely a life saver sometimes on long bus rides. Good music gets me dancing in my seat so my butt won’t go numb. Lol
Oooh…so exciting! When will you be leaving for your RTW trip?
Oooh! I would definitely take an iTouch with me on the road…if only I had one.
What’s tea tree? I’ve never heard of it.
Hmm…I’ve never thought about carry a knife. It’s definitely a good idea for preparing food on the road. I would be a bit paranoid about carrying it though if I visited a place or attraction that checked bags often.
I’ve heard quite a few travelers who say that they don’t like the feel of a microfiber towel. Perhaps someone should create one that feels cotton-soft.
Yea, the camera does come in handy often, especially the zooming part.
Yes, toilet paper is a must in many parts of Asia! And napkins too at restaurants.
Thanks for contributing Ayngelina!
Thanks darling! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
So glad you enjoy. It makes putting together this post so worth it.
No, thank YOU for contributing. So glad to hear you like the collection.
Thanks so much for contributing!
I would have to greatly agree with this post. I too sometimes feel that alot of the travel bloggers knock down on the people who aren’t traveling full time and working in a cube. Working a full time job is not easy at all and even if you have been at the job for years it is hard to keep it in these hard times. In the end we do decide what we want to do for whatever reason it is. Now that I have worked in a cube for so many years I have realized its not what I want. So I am now planning my 1st RTW trip!!!
I don’t think it’s cut and dry – you can travel *and* work, or have a regular job that requires you to travel frequently, or have a 9-5 and travel in your off time, or do some combination of the two, etc. One can find many outlets for their passions.
I tend to lean towards Stephanie’s comments. Getting my first job was tough but the inertia of staying in a job was easy. The decision to let go of security was difficult.
But I find nothing wrong with working instead of long term travel. When I was working I traveled to South East Asia, Europe and New Zealand. I didn’t have as much time but I still had great experiences.
I agree with this one. So often I see travel or lifestyle bloggers speak dismissively of folks working a regular job, and it annoys the hell out of me. It is not easy to get a job these days, nor are the jobs necessarily easy. I think that many, many of the folks in the travel/lifestyle blogging arena tend to come from backgrounds in business administration or marketing, both fields which generally pay well and have relatively easy to get jobs. For those of us who pursued our dreams earlier on and got degrees in something more interesting but less lucrative, the path is much, much harder. I have always followed my dreams and that has translated into me having a less marketable skill set in today’s job force, and so it really, really pisses me off when I see people who seem to think that you can just “go out and get a job”. If only it were that easy! I would love a job that pays more than $1000 a month (and I work 45-50hr wks), as it’s a bit difficult to save up for travel when you’re struggling just to make your rent!
I agree with this one. So often I see travel or lifestyle bloggers speak dismissively of folks working a regular job, and it annoys the hell out of me. It is not easy to get a job these days, nor are the jobs necessarily easy. I think that many, many of the folks in the travel/lifestyle blogging arena tend to come from backgrounds in business administration or marketing, both fields which generally pay well and have relatively easy to get jobs. For those of us who pursued our dreams earlier on and got degrees in something more interesting but less lucrative, the path is much, much harder. I have always followed my dreams and that has translated into me having a less marketable skill set in today’s job force, and so it really, really pisses me off when I see people who seem to think that you can just “go out and get a job”. If only it were that easy! I would love a job that pays more than $1000 a month (and I work 45-50hr wks), as it’s a bit difficult to save up for travel when you’re struggling just to make your rent!
Whoops, sorry for the double post.
Whoops, sorry for the double post.
Hmm, I think we can all agree that life is hard, and having to make big life choices is hard- no matter what those choices are. Leaving everything behind to travel, and working to excel at a career both take a lot of motivation and courage it’s true. What I think Steve might be referring to (although not as directly as he should) is not the effort that goes into working, but the mentality of working a 9-5 that maybe you don’t care for but are too mired in inertia to change. I certainly know a lot of people who are unhappy with their traditional lifestyle but think it’s too hard to make a worthwhile change.
I’m not big on comparing lifestyles to determine the “best” one, but I think that if you are working to reach your goals, that is brave and challenging no matter what your goals are.
I’m liking how much talk that post has gotten! Thanks for the mention.
You should go inside a ring with this guy for a 5-round right. I saw lots of “irks” in this post.
“Becoming a shell of the person you once were.” It’s absolutely an easy rut to fall in to. You have to have your antidote. I’m married and a new, smaller version of me is on the way and staying in touch AND passionate about travel is an escape for me at times.
But seriously, you could take this guy in round 1 by TKO. Let’s make it happen!
I agree…this is an amazing photo!
Toilet paper, hand sanitizer (tiny bottle), notepad, iPhone and of course my camera… I had a microfibre towel, but I also don’t like the feel of it. I now use a sarong, also more multifunctional.
That looks very similar to what I bring with me, apart from the safety alarm and Vaseline – granola bars are a great treat when you can’t find a place to eat, or on buses and such things!
I always use my camera to take pictures of time tables and other things instead of writing them down!
Love this photo!!! I took a similar one in Africa.
WOW. What a great list. Amazing resources all in one post.
Really lovely post. At some point, I need to add some volunteering to my traveling. Loved this part of the world also, but didn’t get to hit Rwanda — need to now!!
Very cool!
Beautiful! Thanks for putting mine up
I’d have to say Barcelona was emotionally challenging for me too but not because of mugging, but because of how blatantly misogynistic they are over there. When we arrived to transfer at the train station one of the guards just grabbed one of my traveling mates by the shoulders and held her close to him saying really nasty things in Spanish that she didn’t understand (but I did). He must’ve been like 50 and she was 19. She felt so awkward that she just smiled at him and tried to go along with it. I also remember walking into a bookshop and seeing rows and rows of magazines featured like newspapers with completely naked women with surgically enhanced body parts in full frontal reveal. Some men came in and would pick up the magazines and would make sucking noises and point to the women’s breasts. Ugh, I could not get the hell out of there fast enough. It was not a good place for me.
I plan on visiting the Middle East soon…we’ll see how that goes.
They’re small and dry fast, but I just don’t like the feel of the microfiber towel. I usually end up traveling without either a cotton or a microfiber one.
Hi Kirsty, what an amazing experience! I too have been fascinated with Rwanda for years and I hope to volunteer there one day. Thanks so much for adding to my inspiration!
That’s awesome! I’ve always wanted to go to Rwanda. If anyone is interested in a really good book about the Rwanda/Burundi genocide, it’s called In What Strength Remains by Tracey Kidder. It’s probably one of the best books I’ve read. Ever.
My best travel experiences
I do the same things with a digital camera and I also take pictures of signs and names so I don’t have to write them down immediately. Another thing I always take with me is my leatherman knife so I can fix/eat/create almost everything.
great list! we take our itouches, as well. and, tea tree and oregano oil. tea tree for the antibacterial properties, and oregano for keeping us well.
Thanks for the list I am going to have to add a few of these to mine. I still got a while for my RTW trip but i love list.
Nice list. I also find that my ipod is really helpful for long trips as I can listen to music, podcasts and play games.
The vaseline tip is really good, I didn’t realize you could get it with spf. I always carry tea tree oil with me, it’s good for getting rid acne but also handy in a first aid kit as it’s a good antiseptic. That an my ipod touch. On my last trip it came in handy for checking emails and contacting home, held important information about my hostel booking and flight, plus I stored some maps and other travel apps to help me out. And it’s a lot lighter than lugging around guidebooks and notebooks.
I have 3 out of the 7. Camera is definitely a must. Traveling towel really helps with space, and dry so quick too. I don’t have vaseline, but lotion is a must for me.
Those bars look yummy!!! Except I’m always hungry when I travel, wish I could forget to eat hahaha.
Similar to your granola bars, I carry protein bars. The protein helps keep you fuller longer (esp. when half way up the mountain!). I love your idea with the camera. I sometimes take photos of maps to have on me. Great list!
Great for global volunteers when we come to Thaland. Great site, Thanks
Thanks for letting me contribute!! It came out great; a job well done again. The pictures are just absolutely amazing.
Yes, I’ve been to China many times haha!!! And well, it’s one of my
favorite places there. It’s just so beautiful and I love wandering around the
grounds, despite the hoards of tourists.
Definitely go in the summer!!!!!!
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Wow – you’ve been there twice? I’ve only visited in the dead of winter.
Maybe next time, I’ll actually be able to see the Summer Palace in the summer
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Haha! It’s like there everywhere in China! Especially in the shopping areas. It can be so frustrating. Definitely a different pace of life than in NY.
I’m glad you enjoy my Do Go Thursday posts. You are certainly more than welcome to contribute again. I look forward it to.
Thanks for including me! Thedora’s photos are amazing, I’m so jealous.
Amazing pics! Kids are SO adorable! I’m so proud to be included in this feature. Thanks so much!
This is total BS, who cares about your lost loves .. sounds like someone could do with some councelling lol
Beyond precious!!!!!
I have to admit, there were too many people for me to really hear what was going on during the tour. If I make it back someday, I might have to give it another go.
awh Spence! thank you for the comment and I am glad that last paragraph resonated with you! I often struggle w/ endings.
and yes, a VERY hearty toast to the changes you are making!!
Yes, definitely recognized and acknowledged which I think is very important in life! Thank you for your comment Amanda!
thank you for your comment! glad to know I am not alone in my experiences and that this resonated with you!
My best advice for people visiting is to not visit it on a Chinese holiday weekend. You’ll walk about 2mile/hr the whole time.
But it’s still pretty awesome!
… my, my, my… now I’m getting to know a side of Kirsten I’ve never known. I like what I see even more now. Keep on keepin on, girl !
One of my most favorite places in the world! Been there twice, have no doubt I’ll go there again!!!
Loved this post and can definitely relate!!!
What a great post! Love is definitely a strong force, and it’s nice that you’ve recognized how it’s affected you and your desire to travel and experiences new places. Well done!
Am I the first “man” commenting? The last paragraph was beautiful Kirsten. I loved this: “to not travel is to not live. Traveling is now my way of life and love is no longer defined only romantically”.
Ironically, I was the opposite. I could never find someone who loved travel enough to gallivant the world; but only ones who instead wanted to settle for the “good life”. Funny aye? Bump that, I’m doing whatever the hell I want to now. A hearty toast to that!
wow! Love this. I can relate…
Peru it is! I’ll get working on that for you right away.
Hi Laura! I’d definitely would love your helping in finding volunteering opportunities with no costs. Would you be interested in doing a guest post about it for Do Good Thursday?
Sorry Angela…I picked a winner on the 8/16 but don’t be sad…I have another giveaway coming up. This time it’s for Egypt!
That’s very interesting…more women travelers than men travelers? I wonder why that is. I guess we can really trust what we read in newspapers and online. I’m your trip made you see that Central America is not just drugs and guns and violence. Although I’m sure some parts of it is, there is also violence on all corners of the earth but that doesn’t mean we should stop traveling and stop exploring.
Hi Erica, getting started is the hardest part! Once you find something that feels good, the experience you’ll get out of volunteering will be AMAZING! Keep in touch, I want to hear all about it!
Hi Kirsten, great post! Love does have a way of making us do things we normally wouldn’t but the experiences and outcomes from that always helps you learn more about yourself, life and the world. If it helped encourage you to travel and take chances, then all the better! You were extremely lucky to have been exposed to the world and traveling as such a young age!
Hi Monica! my gosh, such a cool post. thanks for sharing so honestly.. i LOL-ed at the bit about the “pedestals of all shapes and sizes” – kinda like the men maybe?
but i felt sad at the mention of the Mexico sunsets, tequila sunrises & that turning point in the author’s life.
To Kristen, Great guestpost.. feel really honored to read it and share a part of ur life! thx for being so open:)
I love reading your blogs! I would definitely have to agree with the english is not a universal language, I think that this is a funny but true comment that most people do not understand.
I’m surprised to see that people don’t do the disclosure just because they are not bound to the FTC rule. I’ve only heard about the rule today, from your previous post. I think it’s sad enough to know that some people receive sponsored post, even worse without telling that it is sponsored. I can accept if the sponsorship is more like free or discounted ride/tour/experience for the exchange of a review in a blog post, where both sponsor and blogger agree that the post should contain the honest opinion of the blogger.
Oh, in the different topic, do you know that some popular travel blog having their posts material copied and pasted from WIkipedia? That disgusts me.
Having just finished traveling from Mexico to Panama I think this was a really important post to write. As a solo female traveler I felt really safe. It’s funny how we seem to think Central America is some crime and drug ridden place with bullets flying all over the place. It couldn’t be further from the truth and the most surprising thing was that there are far more women traveling it solo than men.
Nice profile. I would really love to volunteer in Peru for a month. I’m keeping my fingers crossed someone emails you tips in the next month or so.
congrats! seems like an interesting book, BTW I love that picture!
I too had a bad experience with volunteering and contributing to a foundation back when I was in PI.
Monica, these articles on experiences are heart warming and inspiring. Maybe soon when I finally find time I can volunteer and contribute again (to Legit foundations/groups).
Is it too late to enter?? I would love that book!!
I think this is a great list, however there are plenty of volunteer opportunities around Thailand that do not charge high fees. Though the money can go towards the project, I’ve seen all too often that it’s going in to somebody’s pocket (esp. when they are so high). I saw that Connie also commented about there being some with No Cost, however, I’ve found plenty that INCLUDE accommodation and meals. If anyone’s interested I’d be happy to supply some of those opportunities
Italy is just great! It is the most romantic, stunning, peaceful, delightful and tasteful country of Europe and maybe even of the world. Im wondering if I should start my big travels in Italy?? Oh yes, I would defenitly like this book =). Thanks for the possibility =)!
Thanks Andi! I'm really hoping I win but I've seen people with 2000 votes!
Haha! I'm glad I'm not the only one either. Lol
Glad to help! Aye from GotPassport is actually in Chiang Mai right now so if you have any questions, feel free to reach out to her. She's really friendly and helpful.
I voted! Good luck!
Thanks Andi! I’m really hoping I win but I’ve seen people with 2000 votes!
Haha! I’m glad I’m not the only one either. Lol
Thanks Connie! What kind of programs that are of no cost? I haven’t come across any when I was doing the research. If you know of any, I’d love if you could send me some links.
Glad to help! Aye from GotPassport is actually in Chiang Mai right now so if you have any questions, feel free to reach out to her. She’s really friendly and helpful.
Planning my first trip to Italy next year and could not be more excited!
Planning my first trip to Italy next year and could not be more excited!
Loooooove it!!!!
Loooooove it!!!!
Gorgeous!
Gorgeous!
Beautiful sunset photo, capturing the skyline really well
These are definitely helpful! We're looking at possibly volunteering and are a bit overwhelmed with where to start!
These are definitely helpful! We’re looking at possibly volunteering and are a bit overwhelmed with where to start!
It's wonderful to read all these enthusiastic comments! Best wishes to all — Susan Van Allen
Thanks for the info! I just “moved” to Chiang Mai for a few months, and this will be very helpful!
These are all wonderful organizations to volunteer with but don't forget, there are also a lot of organizations you can volunteer with that are NO COST! The program will most likely not include accommodations or meals but the cost of living in Thailand is very cheap, as are meals. Congrats if you decide to volunteer, just know that the size of your wallet doesn't have to restrict you from it!
GREAT post Monica!
I'm planning a vacation to Northern Italy soon. I would lovento read this book. Thanks for the review.
I just LOVE this. Children are so beautiful, and I love how their faces stand out in these lovely photos. Great idea.
“…refreshing the page every 5 seconds and seeing the number of votes go up will keep me entertained at work.”
Haha. Glad to see I'm not the only one doing that! Good luck!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
I just LOVE this. Children are so beautiful, and I love how their faces stand out in these lovely photos. Great idea.
Love, love LOVE this post! I see humanity in the faces of each and everyone one of those photos.
Thanks for the review! After having been to Italy over ten times, I am really curious to see which places she included in her book. Hopefully I will be able to take a look at it soon
Italy is my favorite, but I have not been there for a while, so it's on the top of my list for my next destination. I absolutely love the art and architecture there. I would love to learn more about it and find ideas for places to go that I have not been.
I've loved Italy every time I've visited and I can't wait to go back!
I loved Italy and can't wait to go back. The book looks great!
Italy was my first love, and now I keep going back for more. I would love some insights on off the beaten path places just for us ladies..
Wow! I've never heard of this book, but the cover is enough to draw me in.
This book sounds almost as luscious and addictive as Italy itself.
This book sounds almost as luscious and addictive as Italy itself.
Italy is one of my dream destinations, and for some reason it has always seemed like somewhere I should go alone.
Italy is one of my dream destinations, and for some reason it has always seemed like somewhere I should go alone.
Italy is spectacular, and I've always wanted to go by myself (always traveled there with others). This may be the perfect inspiration!
I haven't had the pleasure of visiting Italy yet so I would LOVE to read this book!
I haven't had the pleasure of visiting Italy yet so I would LOVE to read this book!
I love Italy! My mom and I are planning a trip there next year, she wants to go to Calabria to see where her family is from. This sounds like a fun book to read before we plan the rest of our trip!
I've never been to Italy, but this sounds like a fun book to read before a trip!
Sounds like a good read. I've been to Venice but I definitely want to go back to Italy and explore it more in depth. I love your idea of how to use the book.
I've got no problem with Sponsored Posts if they're declared. I see it like an advertorial in a magazine. I've never run one though, simply because there hasn't been a decent one that has crossed my path. But for instance, if a brand like Moleskine approached me with a great reader offer embedded in excellent copy, I'd probably think “You know what, my readers would see some value in this.”
Also, I don't really see why we don't uncover the top bloggers who are doing this — after all, it's those people that are setting the precedent for the entire community. In the meantime, their unethical practises strengthen their lofty position.
Blogs are so often compared to print — if a magazine ran an advert disguised as editorial copy, they'd be called out, and lose respect among advertisers and readers alike.
I’ve got no problem with Sponsored Posts if they’re declared. I see it like an advertorial in a magazine. I’ve never run one though, simply because there hasn’t been a decent one that has crossed my path. But for instance, if a brand like Moleskine approached me with a great reader offer embedded in excellent copy, I’d probably think “You know what, my readers would see some value in this.”
Also, I don’t really see why we don’t uncover the top bloggers who are doing this — after all, it’s those people that are setting the precedent for the entire community. In the meantime, their unethical practises strengthen their lofty position.
Blogs are so often compared to print — if a magazine ran an advert disguised as editorial copy, they’d be called out, and lose respect among advertisers and readers alike.
Sounds like an interesting read! Hope I win =)
Sounds like an interesting read! Hope I win =)
I would love to return to Italy one day! It's where my family is from.
Sounds intriguing!
I think you just assume that everyone has the same good intentions as you. It's too bad that's not the case for every volunteer program. Thanks for sharing my post!
Hi Joya! I'm sure one day you'll get to volunteer abroad! Good luck!
Such a gorgeous pic!
Such a gorgeous pic!
As Italy is one of our favorite places in Europe, we're looking forward to that post most, but everything sounds interesting, as always
Great tips Connie to keep in mind for when I ever get around to volunteering abroad! It's a goal of mine!
It's not the knees that they''re checking out.
“Don't forget to look back.” So true! Though it's easier to do when you're traveling slowly rather than if you're always on the move.
Also, exercise is important, too. I've found that I actually enjoy going for a run every now and then.
Yep, I missed 'em all. But I miss everyone's posts these days unless they show up while I'm checking Twitter! Thanks for the round-up!
It’s not the knees that they”re checking out.
“Don’t forget to look back.” So true! Though it’s easier to do when you’re traveling slowly rather than if you’re always on the move.
Also, exercise is important, too. I’ve found that I actually enjoy going for a run every now and then.
Yep, I missed ‘em all. But I miss everyone’s posts these days unless they show up while I’m checking Twitter! Thanks for the round-up!
You're very welcome! I'm doing a second installation of it because a lot of people seem to enjoy it and I just want to make everyone happy. So if you have any photos of children you've taken around the world, feel free to send it to me at monica@apairofpantiesandboxers.com. I'll add it to the next photo collection.
Haha coconuts? That could be interesting…depending on where the coconuts are placed. Are you hinting that you have some silly coconut photos of yourself?
I've seen funny sign pictures before but I like the plan window idea! Will add that to my list. Thanks Andi!
Oooh, I like the water idea. Must add it to my list of potential photo collection themes. Thanks Monkey!
Thanks Matt! I totally agree. It does make us more well rounded as people and we all need to do that because I feel like for those of us who grew up in the westernized countries, we all live in this bubble. We don't realize that until we actually step out of it. So…bottom line: Being a princess is for pansies. Lol
Hi Aileen! Yes, it's really easy for me to get lost. That's because I have a bad sense of direction, which I get from my dad.
I do too! There's something very appealing about the challenge. Sometimes I like seeing how far I can push myself. Although I must admit, my tolerance level for humidity and sleep-deprivation is not very high. I must work on that.
Haha, yes expensive shampoo would definitely qualify as one of them. And conditioner too!
Darn! You're right. I forgot to put that one in.
Yea, I try to learn a few words even if I butcher it. And I think a lot of the times, locals find it amusing when foreigners try to squeeze out a sentence holding a dictionary in front of them.
I don't appreciate the boobies thing either. I really find it disrespectful, not only to yourself but to others as well.
Me too! Sometimes I forget not to be a princess but getting lost is something I do even in Brooklyn. That's probably because I have a really bad sense of direction. Lol
Thanks Connie! I've discovered a lot of things when I get lost. That's the whole point of traveling anyway so I try to remind myself not to have a conniption. My hotel doesn't have legs.
Oooh! I noticed that when I was on Honduras too! I didn't think it was strange but I feel like boobies attract more attention than legs. I can't comprehend it the other way around.
Thanks Matt! I totally agree. It does make us more well rounded as people and we all need to do that because I feel like for those of us who grew up in the westernized countries, we all live in this bubble. We don’t realize that until we actually step out of it. So…bottom line: Being a princess is for pansies. Lol
Hi Aileen! Yes, it’s really easy for me to get lost. That’s because I have a bad sense of direction, which I get from my dad.
I do too! There’s something very appealing about the challenge. Sometimes I like seeing how far I can push myself. Although I must admit, my tolerance level for humidity and sleep-deprivation is not very high. I must work on that.
Haha, yes expensive shampoo would definitely qualify as one of them. And conditioner too!
Darn! You’re right. I forgot to put that one in.
Yea, I try to learn a few words even if I butcher it. And I think a lot of the times, locals find it amusing when foreigners try to squeeze out a sentence holding a dictionary in front of them.
I don’t appreciate the boobies thing either. I really find it disrespectful, not only to yourself but to others as well.
Me too! Sometimes I forget not to be a princess but getting lost is something I do even in Brooklyn. That’s probably because I have a really bad sense of direction. Lol
Thanks Connie! I’ve discovered a lot of things when I get lost. That’s the whole point of traveling anyway so I try to remind myself not to have a conniption. My hotel doesn’t have legs.
Oooh! I noticed that when I was on Honduras too! I didn’t think it was strange but I feel like boobies attract more attention than legs. I can’t comprehend it the other way around.
It sounds a bit silly, but It hink a photoset completely devoted to peoples' coconut photos from Asia would be fun. Or not? I think fun
Great post! It really is surprising how few people take the time to carefully research the volunteer program they are apply for. Just a couple hours of research now can save you from weeks of frustration later.
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Cheers,
Andrew
I love this, Monica. I like, 'Don't be a Princess.' Travel isn't always going to be easy – and I don't think these challenges take the fun out of the adventure. To me? They're a part of it – and a reason we become more rounded people.
Excellent photo idea Monica. Thanks for putting together and sharing these inspirational photos. Bound to make anyone smile.
Hmmm, Monkeys? or other cute furry animals, pictures from inside airplanes or maybe photos on/of water
One of these things is not like the other?
One of these things is not like the other?
Gosh, I love the mountains in Latin America. So green & lush!
Great rules! I will make sure to get more lost in the future. Always too stressed about where I am heading to and such, no good, no good =)
Thanks Andi! There are so many people out there trying to do good. I just want to make sure that they don't fall into the volunteer scam trap that I did in Nepal! It's not fun to say the least. I hope this article helps interested volunteers avoid volunteer scams. There should be nothing and no one stopping someone from doing good!
Thanks for stopping by Adam. I'm doing a second round of “Faces of The Future.” If you have any, please feel free to send them to monica@apairofpantiesandboxers.com.
OMG, no worries at all! Honestly, I didn't care, I just wanted to be able
to promote your post!!!!!!
Hmmm, what about animals, funny signs, storms, favorite photo ever taken,
or photos from out of plane windows?
Andi xoxoxox
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So sorry about that. I was rushing to get the post up but I updated as
soon as you made this comment. Didn't get a chance to let you know till now.
Shame on me.
I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any
ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see? Other than beaches…lol.
Awesome tips darling!!! You're such a rockstar of goodness!
Wow, what a great post and a great idea. The pictures are fantastic. Some of our favorite pictures from our RTW are of a bunch of kiddos we met while working a few days at an orphanage in Cambodia. Thanks for sharing; these are sure to put a smile on anyone's face.
Yes, I can definitely volunteer in the future, but only for a week or so.
I can't leave my practice for much longer than that!
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Turn back the time? You can always make plans to visit Africa again and
volunteer. Or volunteer in any country!
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Great list! Two guys I work with are traveling and exploring Southeast Asia for the next few months and are keeping a similar blog with great travel tips like these. Check it out if you can! http://studentuniverse.travel/
Yes, I can definitely volunteer in the future, but only for a week or so.
I can’t leave my practice for much longer than that!
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monica530 wrote, in response to GlobalButterfly:
Turn back the time? You can always make plans to visit Africa again and
volunteer. Or volunteer in any country!
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Thanks Cornelius! I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see?
Thanks Connie! I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see?
So sorry about that. I was rushing to get the post up but I updated as soon as you made this comment. Didn't get a chance to let you know till now. Shame on me.
I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see? Other than beaches…lol.
No, thank YOU for your photos. I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see?
Haha…thanks Brendan! I wish I was better in taking pictures period.
Thanks Audrey. I'm glad they put a smile on your face. I'm starting to think about the next theme for my photo collection. Any ideas? Anything in particular you'd like to see?
Aww…I'll let you know the next time I do a photo collection. Any ideas for the next theme?
Wohoo! Congrats to Jason! What will he be doing?
It certainly is! I can watch them sit and drool all day.
That is incredible. It's wonderful to see people more involved involved in humanitarian work than in finance or accounting. I'm sure that's a personal bias but it makes me happy to see that not everyone is so self-consumed in money, materialistic items and themselves.
That is awesome! If you would like to feature your site on A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please let me know.
Thanks for the link Sam! I'm planning to volunteer abroad in Africa. I might reach out to you again for more info about this program.
That sounds very sketchy. You should check out my new post today for Do Good Thursday, a fellow volunteer traveler talks about her experiences volunteering and getting scammed.
http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2010/08/...
Turn back the time? You can always make plans to visit Africa again and volunteer. Or volunteer in any country!
That is incredible. It’s wonderful to see people more involved involved in humanitarian work than in finance or accounting. I’m sure that’s a personal bias but it makes me happy to see that not everyone is so self-consumed in money, materialistic items and themselves.
That is awesome! If you would like to feature your site on A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please let me know.
Thanks for the link Sam! I’m planning to volunteer abroad in Africa. I might reach out to you again for more info about this program.
That sounds very sketchy. You should check out my new post today for Do Good Thursday, a fellow volunteer traveler talks about her experiences volunteering and getting scammed.
http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2010/08/05/voluntears-a-tale-of-woe-from-a-traveling-do-gooder/
Turn back the time? You can always make plans to visit Africa again and volunteer. Or volunteer in any country!
Fantastic list – loved it! I actually look forward to having to rough it…getting back to basics does wonders for the soul.
I promise not to be a princess!
But seriously, this one goes a long way. It's amazing the satisfaction of giving up things you didn't think you could when you're traveling. When you come back you'll find you never really needed them to begin with. Like expensive shampoo perhaps. That's what princesses use, right?
I second that!
Rule 10 – There are no rules
Stop speaking English and it's usually polite to have the courtesy to learn at least a FEW words of whatever local language. At least 'Thank You'. You may butcher it, but they still appreciate it.
I can't stand it when girls walk around with all of their booty/boobs hanging out. Unless you're in a resort town, on the beach, or in Europe- that's pretty much not cool anywhere.
Fantastic list!!! I agree with all 9, especially “getting lost.”
Great rules Monica! I especially like your “get lost” rule. I'm going to try to remember this the next time my boyfriend and I get frustrated at each other for being lost. It IS a new adventure being lost and we're going to just go with it from now on.
Oh you nailed it, this is the real list to follow. Interesting point on number 3: I learned in Central America that women simply don't wear shorts because it draws too much attention from guys. Sure they'll wear a skin tight tank top with their boobs hanging out but with jeans. Interesting that boobs are okay but knees are not
I got by by wearing dresses which attracts a bit less attention.
Great collection of kid photos. Traveling around the world and seeing smiling kids is always uplifting!
update to our bio…Jason found a job! Thanks for including our photos in your post. I fell in love with these beautiful children.
Thanks for the info! I've always found that companies ask for so much money upfront to volunteer and that really scares me, especially in places where you can't take legal action if the money disappears. This helps a lot!
Great article and really useful for anyone looking to volunteer. I travelled with Camps International in 2007 to Kenya and had a brilliant time, building schools and coaching sports. They run a diverse range of programmes and I couldn't recommend them enough. Definitely worth taking a look at if you're considering volunteering in Africa or Asia:
http://www.campsinternational.com/index.php
This a great posting, a beautiful reminder of the world that is out there. All outstanding images and a thoroughly comprehensive list. Thanks.
This a great posting, a beautiful reminder of the world that is out there. All outstanding images and a thoroughly comprehensive list. Thanks.
How did I miss this! I would have sent some!!!
What a beautiful post. Looking at these photos of kids from around the world made my evening. Thanks!
This is a great post… I wish I was better at taking people pictures!
thanks for the list.. I am updating my volunteer options on my site to include those outside of Ecuador and some friends of mine are starting a site for impartial reviews of volunteer programs that I will let you know about once they get the kinks out!
http://savvyroundtheworld.wordpress.com/2010/08...
Thanks for including me, Monica! Connie, glad you liked the photos from Burma – the children there were so lovely and their enthusiasm contagious. – Jodi
Looove these posts–such a great idea!!! Just wanted to give you a heads up though, that I wasn't credited for the Africa/China photos.
Great photos! I love them all but the ones from Burma definitely pulled my heart strings. Thanks so much for highlighting such a beautiful but misunderstood country!
Cheers,
Connie
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Aww I love all the photos!
hahhaha this is great!
hahhaha this is great!
that. is. so. true.
Kirsten Alana Photography
http://www.kirstenalana.com
that. is. so. true.
Kirsten Alana Photography
http://www.kirstenalana.com
I know! It's really amazing and they're not obnoxious about it either like some Americans are.
It is magnificent! After I came back from Turkey, I have a think for minarets and domes!
Thanks Andi! Though my photos pale in comparison to yours.
I know! What a coincidence! I hope we get a chance to meet in the future too! But as for now, cyberspace is where it is. Haha!
Thanks Adam! So glad you enjoyed it.
Haha! That's quite scary in my book but I would love to read about your experience. Have you written a blog post about it?
It certainly is and it makes an awesome story to tell!
Or it's a sign that it's not time to go home yet.
Haha! That is so true! Getting to my gate to New York was like a marathon! I don't know who you're traveling with but perhaps a baby will speed things up. Cute babies always do the trick.
Yes, making it home is the best part sometimes but that wears away quickly. Once I've taken a nice shower and slept in my own bed I wake up the next morning thinking, “Ok, where should I go next?”
Exciting is an after thought. While I was going through it, it was stressful and physically demanding. Or maybe it's just because I'm so out of shape sitting in an office for 10 hours every day. Lol
Oh, Turkey! How I miss you! Great to see our Friday photos brought our readers to the same part of the world.
I loved the nationalism in Turkey. Everywhere you went you'd see the Turkish flag.
I know! It’s really amazing and they’re not obnoxious about it either like some Americans are.
It is magnificent! After I came back from Turkey, I have a think for minarets and domes!
Thanks Andi! Though my photos pale in comparison to yours.
I know! What a coincidence! I hope we get a chance to meet in the future too! But as for now, cyberspace is where it is. Haha!
Thanks Adam! So glad you enjoyed it.
Thanks Adam! So glad you enjoyed it.
Haha! That’s quite scary in my book but I would love to read about your experience. Have you written a blog post about it?
Haha! That’s quite scary in my book but I would love to read about your experience. Have you written a blog post about it?
It certainly is and it makes an awesome story to tell!
It certainly is and it makes an awesome story to tell!
Or it’s a sign that it’s not time to go home yet.
Haha! That is so true! Getting to my gate to New York was like a marathon! I don’t know who you’re traveling with but perhaps a baby will speed things up. Cute babies always do the trick.
Yes, making it home is the best part sometimes but that wears away quickly. Once I’ve taken a nice shower and slept in my own bed I wake up the next morning thinking, “Ok, where should I go next?”
Exciting is an after thought. While I was going through it, it was stressful and physically demanding. Or maybe it’s just because I’m so out of shape sitting in an office for 10 hours every day. Lol
Oh, Turkey! How I miss you! Great to see our Friday photos brought our readers to the same part of the world.
I loved the nationalism in Turkey. Everywhere you went you’d see the Turkish flag.
I'm just dying to go to Turkey. I've heard the architecture is great in Istanbul.
Interesting that there is no mention of Peace Corps, one of the most obvious and certainly wide-spread volunteer opportunities in Africa. As a former volunteer in Togo, I am consistently amazed at how many of my fellow volunteers have returned to the continent and are now working in humanitarian aid or development.
Beautiful! The colors are great!!!
Beautiful photo of Blue Mosque! I still can't believe it how we were in Istanbul in the same time. Hopefully we got the chance to see each other again in the future
Awesome info! Oh, if I could only turn back the clocks a decade…the things I would do differently!
It's always when you first leave on a trip, but a bitch to return. It's like the airports want you to miss flights in a diabolical effort to buy more magazines and over-priced food while waiting.
Not yet! But I'll definitely get in touch when I do have some good stories on volunteering.
hahah! I love your storytelling style. You had me hooked from the very beginning
I know that feeling too well, the distance between your gate and customs always seems to be greater than the time you need to sprint across the airport. Although, in my experiences I haven't yet been lucky – I should probably stop traveling with my resident friend because they always get stopped and questioned.
Not yet! But I’ll definitely get in touch when I do have some good stories on volunteering.
Sometimes the best part of a trip, is making it home again! I've had a similar experience before but in Mexico and I remember the amazing feeling of making it back to American soil safe and sound and in one piece!
Congrats on making your flight! I have been in that same situation too many time to count. Such an exciting life we travelers lead.
Thanks Connie! I just got your email. You'll hear from me there!
Thanks Erica! Do you have any volunteer stories to share? Would LOVE to have you on for Do Good Thursday.
Bogus! Next time you're in Central America, or any other police-heavy country, make sure to do something that ACTUALLY gets you uncomfortably into a police station.
I've got one. Be non-Peruvian and cross the Lake Titicaca Bolivian border. You're immediately grabbed and brought into a secluded police station in a dark room with nothing but you, a policeman and a table, upon which you're forced to throw all of your personal belongings.
Then, let the fun begin!
Hi Monica! This is a GREAT addition to your already fantastic site! I have quite a few volunteer experiences abroad that I would love to share with you and your readers: some good experiences, some downright horrific. I'll send you an email!
Cheers, Connie (http://www.connvoyage.com
I LOVE this idea. Every change is important. And spreading the word about other people's volunteer experiences abroad can go a long way towards inspiring others to do the same!
Hi Monica, I would be honored! Please email me with the details of the post and I would be happy to oblige! Also, please let me know if you have a deadline for me because I just have 4 weeks left with the volunteer program and it's busy busy busy! Thanks, Connie
Hi Monica, I would be honored! Please email me with the details of the post and I would be happy to oblige! Also, please let me know if you have a deadline for me because I just have 4 weeks left with the volunteer program and it’s busy busy busy! Thanks, Connie
I love NYC as well! For all the reasons you mentioned and more. This was a fun read Spence and it's nice to know you appreciate the unique character of (imo) one of America's best cities (if not the best).
I love NYC as well! For all the reasons you mentioned and more. This was a fun read Spence and it’s nice to know you appreciate the unique character of (imo) one of America’s best cities (if not the best).
My favourite was the lady pushing her kids through Times Square on a bellhop trolley.
Thanks for the comment Andi. I'm currently for at least a little while longer in the Greenville, SC area, although I'm in and around Charlotte often. My mom actually lives just north of Charlotte in the Piedmont area.
Where in the Carolinas are you? I'm in Charlotte! I was just in NYC too. It's my fave place in the world!!! I lived there for 4 years and it was amazing.
Where in the Carolinas are you? I'm in Charlotte! I was just in NYC too. It's my fave place in the world!!! I lived there for 4 years and it was amazing.
Where in the Carolinas are you? I'm in Charlotte! I was just in NYC too. It's my fave place in the world!!! I lived there for 4 years and it was amazing.
Where in the Carolinas are you? I'm in Charlotte! I was just in NYC too. It's my fave place in the world!!! I lived there for 4 years and it was amazing.
Where in the Carolinas are you? I'm in Charlotte! I was just in NYC too. It's my fave place in the world!!! I lived there for 4 years and it was amazing.
There's this company called Food for the Southern Soul that has a bunch of Southern stuff you can buy over the internet. I get their hot sauce. http://www.foodforthesouthernsoul.com
Great shots here! A few of Angkor Wat, though none of Ta Prhom in Angkor as well, probably the best temple in the area.
Happy travels!
Federico
Kudos to you for doing the right thing.
Haha so it wasn't just me who misunderstood their first email. I think it was a little mislead on their part the way the phrased certain things. It really sounded like to me they wanted me to put up guest posts written by other guest bloggers who don't have the time to reach out to other's to ask if they want a guest post from them.
It does add to the writer's credibility. It shows that you're honest, transparent and most importantly, that you respect the trust of your readers.
I could be wrong but I have a feeling that hiking and backpacking doesn't rake in as much money as a trip to Italy. It's still a popular activity but dollar-wise, we spend less on hiking and backpacking than we do in Italy. It might be because they don't have the budget to offer these sponsored trips in return.
I absolutely agree. I haven't taken a sponsored trip yet but I remember putting in a plug for TOMSShoes here and there. But I did it because I'm genuinely a huge fan of theirs and what they do for underprivileged children. I'm glad you mentioned it because I didn't even think of that predicament.
I often feel like after travel bloggers make it “big” as in they start getting paid for ads. That's when these bloggers focus more on the money than on the readers that helped them get there. Money makes it easy to lose sight of these things.
Hilarious because I just got an email from them and I emailed back and said that we don't do guest posts or advertising currently. I didn't realize exactly what she was requesting until just now.
This might be an Adbeans things, I can't say for sure, but I do know that representatives from Hostelbookers have been reaching out to lots of us travel bloggers to help publicize their summer of love sale. I didn't do so on such an extensive scale as this article, but I do like to pass along information to my readers that will help them save money on lodging when they travel, so I included a brief blurb about it last week in my roundup. I wasn't paid to write about it. So I wouldn't assume this person was either.
Sounds so amazing!!!
Sounds so amazing!!!
Wonderful post! La Boca is definitely one of the most authentic barrios in Buenos Aires, but travelers have to be aware of where and when wonder around. During the day the central areas of the city are safe and fun, even until midnight you can enjoy places like Corrientes, downtown and after midnight Palermo, Recoleta and Puerto Madero, but La Boca and some streets of San Telmo are definitely not a nice place for a night walk
Wonderful post! La Boca is definitely one of the most authentic barrios in Buenos Aires, but travelers have to be aware of where and when wonder around. During the day the central areas of the city are safe and fun, even until midnight you can enjoy places like Corrientes, downtown and after midnight Palermo, Recoleta and Puerto Madero, but La Boca and some streets of San Telmo are definitely not a nice place for a night walk
yyeaaahh Buenos Aires!!~~
Boca Juniors has always been my team since I was a child. Pretty area and the stadium is awesome. Unfortunately, it really is a poor area outside of the tourist spot.
We never felt unsafe either, but we were told many times to stay in the central touristy area. Then we realized, you really don't have a choice.
Try to wander outside the colorful area and a line of policemen will wave their finger at you like “no, no, no.” There is literally a dividing a line — the train tracks — where even the police don't want visitors to cross.
And if you look up and down the roads, the streets are BARREN. It was like a ghost town. Kinda scary actually. Supposedly it gets violent after dark, but during the day, the touristy center is a nice place, if not a little overwhelming with buskers and restaurant owners trying to lure you in.
LOVE THE POST!!!! I took a pic at that cement park where it says la boca.. BUENOS AIRES STAND UP!!
La Boca is definitely a must see!!! My favorite artist is located there and every time I'm in BsAs I pay a visit. I have never once felt unsafe there. What a great post about a great place. Dale Boca!!!
There are two things happening here.
1. Disclosure. One ought to disclose sponsored content (she says, in weirdly fussy English). It's the right thing to do. And like all your commenters have said, it's SO easy. “Sponsored post.” Done and done.
2. Violation of trust. This is the big one, isn't it? You find out bloggers you previously respected are running sponsored content unlabeled or committing other cardinal sins of writing, and that's it, it's over.
On the disclaimer thing, I do want to note that sometimes, I hammer out a story that's sort of peripheral to the sponsored “thing” I did. I met a guy somewhere on a sponsored trip, he told me a story, I'm passing that experience along. I have forgotten, in those cases, to label the post as something that came about as the result of a sponsored trip — it's not a review, it's not a “service” piece, it's some oddball event that captured my imagination. I don't feel like I'm violating anyone's trust in this case — I'm not telling anyone to DO anything or setting them up, but it is good policy to cover your backside.
Sometimes I worry that there are writers/publishers cranking stuff out that don't really think much of us as readers. We should stop reading them. That's the most effective response.
Cool Monica! It's little day to day adventures like this that make traveling to new places so much fun and interesting!
Absolutely! Feel free to reach out to me whenever you have the time to work a guest post. Looking forward to your adventures!
Haha…hmm, I wonder why.
Thanks for your comment Susan. I feel like following the FTC rules are so simple to do. Not doing it just makes a blogger look shady, which leads me to question all the materials they've ever published.
Thanks for stopping by Philip. I checked out that link you posted and it look exactly like the sponsor post links Adbeans.com sent me as examples. I don't know for sure if this person from Beers and Beans is sponsoring an advertising but it looks a bit sketchy to me.
Thanks for commenting Andrew! I think as long as we're transparent about what we publish on our blogs and sites, there isn't much to worry about.
Thanks Kate! I really like it too. I have a thing for domes. They look so magical.
Thanks for commenting Andrew! I think as long as we’re transparent about what we publish on our blogs and sites, there isn’t much to worry about.
Thanks Kate! I really like it too. I have a thing for domes. They look so magical.
I believe in following the FTC rules, and have always (as far as I can remember!) disclosed any freebies. It's an ethical thing. I don't see any reason not too, in fact, I think it adds to the writer's credibility. I don't have any sponsored blog posts.
As far as credibility, although I am a travel writer, and am offered press trips on occasion, I only take them when I feel there is a good match between my interests (chiefly hiking and backpacking) and the destination. For some reason, most resorts and other tourist destinations don't focus on the needs and desires of backpackers LOL.
Hi Connie! Thanks for visiting my blog. I'm so jealous you've been on the road for two years. Must be a fantastic experience. Would you ever go back to the cube life in NYC after this?
I'm just starting a Do Good Thursday column and I would love to feature you and your volunteer adventure on my blog. Would you be interested in doing a guest post about your volunteer experience with the Burmese migrant workers in Thailand? Please let me know.
You can read more about Do Good Thursday here: http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2010/07/...
Hi Monica! Congrats on your un-conforming lifestyle! I left my nice office job in NYC two years ago and haven't stopped traveling since! I have a blog as well. Maybe you and your readers would be interested in checking it out. I'm looking forward to reading more about your adventures!
Happy trails,
Connie
http://www.connvoyage.com
Great photo Monica. You're really making me want to get to Honduras!
Really interesting thread of comments.
Personally I'm a nothing in the blogging world, but in video blogging it's also a big issue. Many vloggers have been accused of working on sponsor payrolls without telling everyone (like iJustine with Apple products), but then others (like OlgaKay and WheezyWaiter with Ford Fiesta) state it very openly. In general, the basic reaction seems to be extremely lash-back if people feel like they're being duped, but its rare that people question it. And then often the lash-back just acts as free advertising for the creator. I think some people would actually hope for the viewers to get angry and make a fuss – drama always brings in more views.
But on a side note – just followed a Twitter link to this blog post. Does this fit what you're talking about?
http://beersandbeans.com/2010/07/18/hostelbooke...
Yeah I think you should be honest and say that you received free product after they found out. As a reader I don't mind knowing that you're getting something out of it. But I would rather know. It doesn't weaken the argument to be honest
I agree completely! You should disclose everything. Make a joke about it, there's nothing wrong with actually trying to survive via travel blogging. Offer these kind of posts, tongue in cheek. Your reader will understand.
Regarding why they contacted you via email, it looks like that's the only method you provide. Do you have a phone number available online?
As someone who is both part of the travel blogger community but also a “company” within it, it's a community very conscious of any intrusion by organized corporations, no matter the size. Ultimately, maybe we need to have a central blogger non-profit org set up where people claim to be either a for-profit or not-for-profit blog, where the latter accepts no advertising of any kind.
I think that's the only way to make sure that the stone being cast is truly deserved. Else, it's a murky grey area.
I agree with James 100%… that is one of the big, and I mean BIG problems with the world today; there are too many laws being made to inhibit our fundamental freedom of speech and even our thinking. These laws are in place to control and control leads to ultimate disaster, because eventually, people become aware that they have little of no freedom left, and often it is too late to do anything about it except revolt against it in the most aggressive manner. It may seem like a small or trivial point, but add all the small and trivial points together and you will discover an alarming and unsettling truth about the path we are all being led down. I am OK if you decide to brand me a paranoid conspiracist, I am OK if you want to shoot me down in flames because I might have offended your ego, but when it all comes undone, just remember I said so.
Just because something is 'Law' does not make it right!
If a law was past that anyone with green eyes should be shot, would it be right?! You scoff and laugh, but in history, such absurd laws have actually existed.
The one thing that sets us aside from every other creature on this Earth, is our 'Creative Imagination' and that alone compels our basic need and desire to have freedom of thought and speech. Take that away and we are no more than a herd of cows.
If you are OK living like a herd cows merrily marching off to be slaughtered, then by all means, stick your head in the sand, pretend the issue does not exist and be complacent about everything that others in control dictate to you about how you should live and have a happy short life.
If these bloggers don't back what they are saying in their endorsements, then I don't agree with what they are doing from a moral standpoint. However, to make it a law to say or not to say something is going too far.
Unfortunately with the whole concept of freedom, it means that we have to put up with those that will abuse it. However, in a free world, never forget that you too are free to say what you want and out these bloggers for the dishonourable people that they are and make the public aware. When they know that those of us with integrity won't tolerate their actions and it begins to hurt them in the form of fewer hits on their blogs, maybe they'll think twice before doing it again.
The point I was trying to make is that if you endorse something and express views that you use or like something purely because you're being paid to say that, and you don't actually use or like the product or service, then clearly you have no integrity as a person. If you have no integrity as a person, you're not going to be bothered about disclosing the fact that you were paid to say it in the first place.
If you do Genuinely like or use a product and the views you are expressing are your own, then why should you disclose that you also received money. That would then just make people dismiss you as a sell-out and that the only reason you are saying this is because you got paid.
I have products that I'm planning to endorse on my blog. I'm doing this because I genuinely like them and want to promote them as useful products. Now one of the companies has gotten wind of this and has offered me free products. Should I have to disclose this and potentially weaken my view of endorsement when I was already planning on writing about the products anyway?
The fact that it is law, proves my point exactly about it being a matter of free speech. The law or government should never dictate what a person can and cannot say, even if we don't like what is being said.
After reading this posts it occurred to me that some of the content I have written could be misconstrued as endorsement posts even though they weren't. I often just like to share quality products with my readers. Should bloggers disclose this information as well? It's a slippery slide, but I guess it all comes down to how much you trust the publisher of the content..
Anyway, I enjoyed reading these!
Cheers,
Andrew
I would have to disagree with you here. Disclosing the fact that you are being paid to endorse a product and express views that might not necessarily be your own is not a matter of free speech. It's the law.
I think many bloggers wrongly fear that their readers will stop reading their blog when they start endorsing products. This is the wrong approach and I think most people here would agree that disclosing endorsement information in fact engenders trust and blog loyalty.
LOVE this picture! I'd frame it if I were you…
Thanks Monkey! You do a very good job playing Monkey's advocate and I'm glad you do because it gets me thinking.
Thanks for your feedback Andy. I agree with your method about adding links to your page. Though it is a nice gesture, just because someone decides to link you to your site, you shouldn't feel obligated to do the same.
Though I'm new to blogging an (unrelated to this topic) email I received today reminded me of the surprising amount of influence we can have. I agree with you that there's no reason to name names. People make mistakes and perhaps just making a little bit of a fuss over this issue will remind us all of our responsibilities.
Hi Shane. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. I really appreciate it. I haven't contact the bloggers or Adbeans.com. I don't want to ruin the bloggers reputation and I certainly don't want to cause any drama as I am sure these are good people.
I just wanted to clarify for myself that I wasn't mistaken. Had I not posted about it, I would not have known that the FTC guidelines are only relevant to US bloggers. I didn't want to call someone out without getting my facts straight. Even though I know now, I don't think there is a reason for me to reveal their names.
I just hope this topic will resonate with the community and make bloggers a little more aware that it's not always about following rules but more about being ethical and respectful to the people who have helped make your a blog success.
Thanks Andy! Adbeans hasn't been in touch with me since I've posted about it. Now that you bring it up, I would be interested in hearing why they approached me the way they did as well. And yes, you're right – it's been a one-sided story so far. I'm pretty open to hearing their thoughts.
P.S. I think it's a great thing you question me. People should do that more often and not take things for face value all the time.
Thanks Joya! Please let me know if you have an inspiring volunteer story to tell. Would love to feature it on Do Good Thursday.
Haha…thanks Kirsten! Chicken buses aren't actually that bad once you get use to it. Kinda like everything else in life. I'm glad I took it though. I think it added texture to my travel experience.
Haha…thanks Kirsten! Chicken buses aren’t actually that bad once you get use to it. Kinda like everything else in life. I’m glad I took it though. I think it added texture to my travel experience.
This is such a good idea Monica! Can't wait to read some volunteer stories.
Great post and followup! As my monkey pal has noted, the FTC ruling only applies to the US. As my site is hosted in Canada and my corporation based in the UK, I am exempt. But my editorial policy is FTC compliant. Why? Because it's the right thing to do. People should know when I got something for free and when I was invited to a specific, not-normally-public thing.
Though, as monkey has mentioned, I do feel that links are different than content… and given that selling link space is technically against google's rules (even though they can almost always tell), it is the publishers right not to make that any more obvious than it already is =)
I'm curious – has Adbeans been in touch since your two posts? Am curious on their view since we only really have one side of the story.
Though the non disclosure issue is a little disappointing it is perhaps not too surprising. A number of blogs in this field write about the business of blogging alongside the travel stories and try to play a role in encouraging other travellers to subsidize their own journey by starting and 'monetizing' (hate that word) their own blogs.
It's a shame that these bloggers have sullied their reputations a little in your eyes because by disclosing they could have had their cake and ate it. A little thought could have led to that holy trinity of cash, content and comments by following up on any criticism with a short piece about funding travels with sponsored posts.
Overall Monica, this is an interesting post which I still think has legs. Have you contacted any of the bloggers themselves? Without revealing names I'd be interested to hear their responses to 'adbeansgate'
Great post, and agree with you (and with Cornelius) that the subject is not less relevant to those of us outside the US – the code of ethics is universal. I've been approached on a regular basis with offers of sponsored posts, and have no interest in publishing them, but like you I have tracked back to see where they have posted. Some are better than others, but in all cases it is surely a breech of trust if a blogger does feature a post with links for which he/she is paid and fails to declare it?
Cornelius, nice question regarding the blogroll/link exchange. Best solution? Take a look at the site and add the link if you consider it one you want to feature, and don't add it if you don't like it. Make your decision to have them in your list unconditional on their reciprocation and based purely on your own criteria for inclusion.
Great follow up and I'm glad I made the list – yay!
I agree with the theme you seem to be running with here, legality aside it is more of an ethical thing. I can see why it bothered you as well since those who are in the 'travel blog' niche (I think I'm part of that group, albeit low on the rungs) are a tight nit community so an element of trust is given. At the same time, should we disclose our link exchanges when we highlight a blog who has sent us an email requesting to be added to our links page/blog roll in exchange for theirs? It is not exactly the same but I like to play monkey's advocate
It is a great city! It gets a bad name but it really shouldn't certainly worth adding to an itinerary if your heading to the UK. Ross
It is a great city! It gets a bad name but it really shouldn’t certainly worth adding to an itinerary if your heading to the UK. Ross
Hey Monica~
I'd love to write up a guest post for you sometime.
Maybe after I've been on the road for a few weeks though.
I'm so scattered these days that I'm really looking forward to hitting the road.
Let's definitely keep in touch! ^__^
Sounds like a fantastic city! Will definitely try to make it there 1 day.
I agree with the the Orwellian part. We see that too frequently in the real world with our government and the media spewing only the things they want us to know and here. However, I think this situation is slightly different.
Yes, travel bloggers should have the freedom to say what they want to say but these travel bloggers didn't say or disclose anything about their sponsored posts. Infrequent or first time visitors would not be able to distinguish a blogger's original content from a sponsored post.
I agree with the the Orwellian part. We see that too frequently in the real world with our government and the media spewing only the things they want us to know and here. However, I think this situation is slightly different.
Yes, travel bloggers should have the freedom to say what they want to say but these travel bloggers didn't say or disclose anything about their sponsored posts. Infrequent or first time visitors would not be able to distinguish a blogger's original content from a sponsored post.
I agree with the the Orwellian part. We see that too frequently in the real world with our government and the media spewing only the things they want us to know and here. However, I think this situation is slightly different.
Yes, travel bloggers should have the freedom to say what they want to say but these travel bloggers didn't say or disclose anything about their sponsored posts. Infrequent or first time visitors would not be able to distinguish a blogger's original content from a sponsored post.
Haha – yay Kate! I'm so proud of you. <333
Haha – yay Kate! I'm so proud of you. <333
Haha – yay Kate! I'm so proud of you. <333
Wow, I'm really torn on this one.
Personally I believe in honesty and integrity and I live my life with this in mind. I wouldn't actually endorse anything I didn't personally like regardless of payment. If I was paid to say that something was good and I really thought it wasn't, that is just dishonest regardless of weather it is stated that I'd been paid to say it or not. However, if I endorse something and believe and stand by every claim I make, what difference does it make if I tell you that I got paid for it as well. It would actually make you feel like I was only saying such things as a result of payment.
Then there's the case of free speech. I believe that the internet should be free. This means that people should be allowed to say whatever they want on their own websites. The thing about free speech is that to truly have it, you have to let everyone say whatever they want even if you don't like it.
It's a shame that people are dishonest and lack integrity. However I feel maintaining the fabric of freedom is far more important and rules and fines being made about the way we speak and communicate, is just one step closer to the pit of an Orwellian future where we'll all be forced to say whatever the enforcers want us to.
Okay! I did it! I went back to my two old “write whatever you want, just stick a link to us in there and we'll pay you” posts and added “This post was sponsored by _____” to the bottom of each one. SO MUCH GUILT! BUT MY HANDS ARE NOW CLEAN! Thanks, Monica, for allowing me to clear my conscience.
Thanks for commenting Marilyn. It makes me question blog posts now that I've come across something like this.
I don't have a disclosure policy either but I have no problem revealing to my readers when a post is sponsored. I have yet to do one but that's because I feel like the ones I've received aren't really relevant to my audience and it doesn't sit well with me.
As long as the written post is your words, that's totally fine but if you just copied & pasted what the advertiser sent you to post and you don't tell your readers, that's a no-no.
Oh, I'm not against sponsored posts either. I'm just not kosher about the fact that these travel bloggers didn't disclose to their readers that it was a sponsored post and that they were compensated for it. But then again, I am only assuming that they were compensated because I was offered money in exchange for publishing their post.
Haha – I don't really want to put the travel bloggers on blast because I'm sure they are nice people. They just happened to not disclose a sponsored post. I don't want to ruin their reputation or anything but I guess this will teach others to not always take what they see for face value. Gotta use that noggin'.
Honestly, it's really not about Adbeans and what they do. It's more about the travel bloggers and what they didn't do. I would still read your post even if you stated that it was a sponsored post. If it piques my interest, it doesn't matter. As long as you wrote the original content.
That's absolutely true. I'm surprised these advertisers don't even bother to at least offer something slightly advantageous to me as a blogger. I guess they think that money is good enough because I was offered cash for the post.
This is disturbing. Thank you Monica for bringing it up. Regardless of FTC guidelines, it seems to me unethical to publish other people's posts in exchange for money without acknowledging that to your readers. Interesting conversation here.
Thanks for being so open with your experiences! I've had a similar experience, though not with Adbeans but someone else.
I personally don't think articles like this need disclosure, because the publisher is being paid for a backlink, not to write nice things about a particular experience. In my case, my “sponsored posts” (your words, not mine) don't have a disclosure – the content is mine (a rewrite) and well, my disclosure policy doesn't cover links. Given the Google rules on paid links, I wouldn't want Mr G. to think anything untoward was going on
I turned down their offer – not necessarily because I'm against the idea of a sponsored post, more because it is essentially the same as selling a permanent text link. When you consider what a text link can bring in on a monthly basis, it's financially foolish. Not that I won't consider one in the future, however I sure wouldn't make a habit of it. If it's well written and most importantly beneficial to my readers, it's all the more well considered.
Great idea running this post and putting the issue out there. I wouldn't stop with the post myself, I'd hang the dishonest bloggers out to dry – more importantly, see what they have to say about the issue. Running a paid post without disclosure is dishonest and goes against everything we should stand for as online, travel journalists.
I've worked with Adbeans a few times for link exchanges, they're aight. As for the sponsored post thing, I have one coming up but I plan to give full disclosure. I'd normally reject them but this one felt like it fitted my recent situation in NYC perfectly.
Hmm, may have to question the whole thing though.
I got that offer as well, and turned it down. I've gotten several similar offers in the past, and have turned them down because really, it's not all that advantageous for me as a blogger. The SEO is good for them, but not me.
agreed!
agreed!
Eeexaccttlly!
Eeexaccttlly!
This actually makes me angry with many travel bloggers. I respond to ALL emails, tweets, etc no matter the request. I find it very unprofessional to write simple emails without writing it properly. If in fact the person is busy, a proper kind email is what should be sent. I don't understand the high ego some travel bloggers have. Ah well this was an off topic rant heh.
This actually makes me angry with many travel bloggers. I respond to ALL emails, tweets, etc no matter the request. I find it very unprofessional to write simple emails without writing it properly. If in fact the person is busy, a proper kind email is what should be sent. I don't understand the high ego some travel bloggers have. Ah well this was an off topic rant heh.
I do too. It doesn't take anything away from you as a blogger if you disclose sponsored posts. I just don't fully understand why some bloggers don't do it.
Thanks for clarifying Melissa. i wasn't sure what the exact requirements are for being considered a US base blogger and I absolutely agree with your last statement about hiding payment from your readers.
That is very true. I feel that it's a little disrespectful to not reveal something like this to your readers. They take the time out to read your post, visit your blog and leave thoughtful comments. It should be common decency that you are transparent and honest to them.
I'm not sure if they wrote the posts themselves or not. When Adbeans.com sent me the post they wanted me to sponsor, it was all written up with photos and hyperlinks already in place.
Love the sound of the cathedral – the buses I could pass on. But this is the charm of travel, it opens up ones horizons. So in a way, I can't wait to ride chicken buses in Honduras!
Great story telling as always too!
Since I am pretty new to travel writing (though not traveling) this is hard for me to weigh in on from an experience standpoint. From a moral standpoint, and as a consumer though – yes, I would respect those more who disclose fully than those who do not.
It's only required to put a disclosure policy if you're American. If you are living abroad or your hosting is not in America, the FTC has no authority to enforce the law. However, I agree people should at least be honest. Most people are smart enough to know bloggers get paid to advertise; transparency about the subject means you trust your audience. Hiding your payment means you are afraid of them. That's my take anyway.
Wow, you certainly gave full disclosure here…
Well almost…you didn't name names.
Anyways, seriously, thanks. Yes, thank you for opening the topic for discussion and commentary. I really appreciate everyone's insight. FTC guidelines or not, you need to be you. We get mad, when an actor or rock star sells out…we don't need the public turning on the industry when the popular travel bloggers do it.
stay adventurous,
Craig
Wow, I'm honestly surprised. I have no problem with people doing sponsored posts, but 1) to not write them yourself and 2) to not disclose the fact it was sponsored is just not right. Regardless of legal responsibilities, there are ethical issues to consider.
Wow, I'm honestly surprised. I have no problem with people doing sponsored posts, but 1) to not write them yourself and 2) to not disclose the fact it was sponsored is just not right. Regardless of legal responsibilities, there are ethical issues to consider.
I absolutely agree. We are all capable of making our own decisions. It's only fair to your readers that you are honest with them, especially because they take the time out to read and visit your blog. You should give them the same respect and be transparent about content that is not yours.
I don't think the blogger loses anything either if they say that it's a sponsored post either. I'd still read it if it piques my interest. Honesty is the best policy.
The article that was pre-written for me to be posted as a sponsored post was in a list format with links and photos for each bullet and so were all of the examples of work this representative have done before with the other travel bloggers.
The bloggers should have specified that it was a sponsored post but they didn't. If I didn't recieve this email from Adbeans.com, I would have never known and assumed that it was original content from the blogger. There are so many travel writers out there it's hard to keep up with everyone's blogs and become familiar with their writing style. If I drop by a blog every so often, I would not have been able to tell the difference between their original content and something that was pre-written for them.
I agree. I am not against sponsored posts either. I will read the blog post regardless if it interests me. I've done a little bit of research and Google does penalize you for linking to sites for SEO purposes however, if you keep it to 5% of your blog content then it will not stand out as much. But even so, I feel like it's unfair to your readers.
Great post, Monica. And raising very interesting comments. Transparency is crucial to build trust and blogs, which owe quite a bit of their success to being independent, could be very negatively affected. I have nothing against sponsored articles – most of time related to cash earnings or paid trips. I just believe it would be honest to say how things are. Then, it's up to the reader to decide…
It is, after all, a US law. If I'm not mistaken, there are similar laws in the European Union but they pertain more to misleading advertising on blogs and I don't think they're as stringent as the FTC Blog Rules.
That's interesting. I wasn't aware that the FTC was only applied to US-based bloggers. Thanks for brining this up Keith.
We have also been offered this deal. We said no because they pay you very little, mostly hyping the content. We received travel blogger websites that were prominent as examples using their service. These bloggers were not disclosing that they were sponsored articles. It sometimes easy to identify these articles. They are well written, contain many links, contain photos and are usually list type articles. If you are following a specific blogger then you know where he or she has been. You know their writing style and you know what they typically write about. If a reader doesn't respect that behavior they can simply choose to not follow them. However, it would be a more simple task if the blogger disclosed the article's source. It's difficult to make monet blogging and we each have our own methods. I think it depends on your business and personal goals and what you have promised your readers. I wouldn't call them tainted. Maybe misleading, or in my own personal opinion, they have choosen a revenue stream different than mine.
I am glad you raised this topic. It's a good discussion piece for both producers of content and readers.
As long as content is relevant and of interest to my readers I am game for sponsored posts. But simply publishing what they say with links is a big no no- bad practice and frankly I think Google would heavily penalise blogs , damage SEO that carried posts with more or less the same worded content? Am I right guys?
I would edit the post to suit my blog style and of course state that this is a 'sponsored post': why hide?
I have been having a rant about this but its fair bloggers to be compensated for sponsored posts but not worth selling your reputation down the gutter by simply publishing whats been sent to them……
Kash aka @budgettraveller
Whoa. I'm a big fan of following the rules! I've definitely turned down offers just because I didn't think they felt right. And I don't believe there's anything lost by disclosing a post as sponsored. Everyone knows it happens so it doesn't hurt to just be up front & honest.
There are a few high profile bloggers that I swear are ignoring me lol – but at that point I think its given me inspiration to be more successful.
This is a really troubling post. While I'm not sure what I think about sponsored posts (I'm sure it will change if the situation arises), but its definitely interesting to learn about blogging ethics and the FTC.
I'm not against sponsored posts but I do agree that a disclosure should be included. That said, FTC rules only apply to US-based blogs or if the company that has provided compensation is US-based so, ethics aside, there's nothing wrong with not providing a disclosure if the blogger/client aren't based in the US. Oh well…
You're absolutely right. Something so simple as stating that this is a sponsered post should not be left undone. It takes two seconds to clarify that. I do not understand why some people don't do it.
Thanks for the link Chris. I'm not against sponsored posts either. I understand this is how some bloggers make a living and I absolutely agree with you. Bloggers should explicitly state when their content is sponsored.
I work in social media and I can tell how much a different it makes when bloggers are transparent and honest. Their readers and audience appreciate it much, much more.
Haha – would you like me to foward you the email address for this Adbean rep? You have to promise me that you tell us how much you're being paid though.
Wow, the most shocking thing is that it's not that hard to say this is a sponsored post, or whatever the relationship is.
Coming from an advertising background, I don't mind sponsored posts, it's usually for things I would be interested in anyway, but I think bloggers owe it to their readers to be truthful about it. I'll still read the post anyway.
Those are all really good questions Cornelius. I'm going to do a follow up post and hope that it addresses all your questions because they are all very valid and I would like to know as well what the travel/blogging community thinks of it.
I don't know anything about FTC guidelines (I'm not from the US) but I know if it was me, while I might not say no to sponsored posts, I would definitely mark it quite clearly as a sponsored post – rules aside, openness and honesty like that goes a long way and is appreciated by readers who know they can trust you and equally know when they need to be careful how they read what you're saying. And frankly, if the sponsor didn't want such disclosure, I'd turn down the offer.
This might be of some interest to you, by the way – apparently it even extends beyond blogs to things like Facebook fan pages of celebrities… http://mashable.com/2009/10/05/ftc-blogger-endo...
Chris
I know! The “I'll get back to you when I need you” attitude is so despicable! I understand that life gets in the way and people become busy but I always try to respond to all my emails and comments. If someone takes the time out to write something FOR you, you should give them the same respect back. It's just common decency.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who misunderstood their initial email. I'm sure they just did an email blast to a list of blogger contacts they had.
Haha, nope. It's not a bad view at all. Wish I could wake up to this every morning. I'd be a happy gal.
I wish someone would sponsor my posts hahashaha
Hi Lisa! So glad to hear from you. I'm doing alright. Hope you're having fun in NC. I miss reading your posts at work, Lol. You need to blog ASAP when you get back. Hope the kids are well too! <333
Good on you for not accepting!
Thanks Jen! I'm looking forward to sharing these stories as well. If you've ever had an incredible volunteer experience abroad, I'd love to hear about it.
Thanks Erica! If you have an amazing volunteer experience you know who will be the first to feature you!
Hmm interesting indeed, while I don't get anything more than link exchange offers at this point in my blogging career this does spark a few questions. Is AdBeans reputable, as in did they really pay these bloggers for this post or did they just gather a few posts from popular 'insert genre here' blogs hoping to encourage you to buy into their program with a mentality of – if they did it I should too. And if so is the amount enough that it should be noteworthy that they were indeed paid for that post, or should that even matter.
Thanks for the info Philip! Let me know if you'd like to be featured on Do Good Thursday. I'll get in touch with you soon so we can work out a featured post.
Would you like to write up a guest for my blog? I'd also be open to any thoughts and ideas you might have. I would love to highlight the launch of your new blog and your fantastic journey. I'm really looking forward to your travels.
Ugh…they are so hard to love but they get me from point A to point B so I can't complain.
It makes me upset when prominent travel bloggers resort to sketchy tactics. Ignoring you for weeks, then pretending you're buds when they need a link. Implying that work is their own when it clearly isn't. Even posting poorly written crap entries. You didn't get your readers that way; why do it now?
I admit that I've received payment for a few posts without explicitly stating so, but those were simply “write whatever you want, throw in a link anywhere and we'll pay you some cash.” I threw them into posts I was already working on. I probably should have credited them. :-/ But what you're describing sounds BEYOND outrageous!
Very interesting! I was just contacted by them last week & thought the same like you. It looked like they wanted to sponsor a post…
It does look so charming! Gotta love the chicken buses!!!
Looking forward to this!
This is basically the whole idea behind my project Caught Doin' Good (http://www.cdg2010.org) that I'll start from August. Giving back can be such a complex thing – really as Greg Mortenson says, you have to spend the time to get to know the people and share the Pakistani “3 Cups of Tea” before you can know if you're actually giving back or just doing it for yourself.
So I felt the same – it's much more useful to highlight those that have spent the time to get to know a place and really make a positive change than to hop in and try to do something yourself in the limited time you have as you pass through somewhere.
Good luck with this~ ^_^/
can't wait to read all about it…
This is a fantastic idea and I'm always searching for inspirational posts. <3
I always enjoy your Friday picture posts! How are you? I am currently in N. Carolina on vacation.
I should be getting back into the habit of posting frequently AND commenting on my fave blogs…such as yours! 
I always enjoy your Friday picture posts! How are you? I am currently in N. Carolina on vacation.
I should be getting back into the habit of posting frequently AND commenting on my fave blogs…such as yours! 
Moody pic, storm clouds have a way of adding drama that I love!
Not a bad view to wake up to – despite the mildew and bugs!
What a view!
Yes, it is very unfortunately how unfair the world can be. It just makes it all the more frustrating when doing good for the time being can ultimately harm these children in the long run. It's hard to just accept that.
Yes, it is very unfortunately how unfair the world can be. It just makes it all the more frustrating when doing good for the time being can ultimately harm these children in the long run. It’s hard to just accept that.
Very touching post. True, we forget too often how lucky we are,just because we had the chance to be born in the right side of the planet. But handling with poverty is not always easy. I saw little boys beating each other for money or other presents given by tourists. And very often children are exploited in a shameful way and giving them money paradoxically might be a way to keep them exploited…
Oh wow the first photo is haunting.
I am leaving for Asian/Korea on the 24th August, and heading to Japan on 3rd of September
really excited about the trip. Going to see my Motherland (haha) again AND experience the awesome Japan; dream destination numero uno. So much to plan and so little time. ugh…
I am leaving for Asian/Korea on the 24th August, and heading to Japan on 3rd of September
really excited about the trip. Going to see my Motherland (haha) again AND experience the awesome Japan; dream destination numero uno. So much to plan and so little time. ugh…
Great adventure and that is a beautiful place! The picture of that glossy lake is incredible!
Great adventure and that is a beautiful place! The picture of that glossy lake is incredible!
Awesome! I've actually been there before so it'll be like going down memory lane. I remember just doing a walk on the city walls. Took quite a while.
I'll definitely help you out with your Chinese.
I excited to see the videos. I've visited Xian before but only for a few days. I stayed at a hotel inside the old city walls. You can also bike on top of the city walls. The rentals are pretty cheap. I think I put down 200yuan for a deposit. You get the money back when you return the bike. It was pretty cool. On one side you see the more industrial China and on the other side you see remnants of what China use to to look like.
The contract I had signed is for a year. Not sure how long I'll really be there for. I really want to make it out to TBEX next year so I know I'll be back on this part of the world for that from Asia. I'm starting a videocast so I'm pretty excited to be taking some good footage there. Hey, when I get some Chinese down – you need to help me out with it!
I'm so jealous that you are! How long will you be teaching in Xian? I can't wait to see pictures!
Haha! I've never thought of it that way but you make a very, very good point.
Aww haha. I've had some strange showers as well in Asia. Can't wait to go back lol
What a gorgeous post! I felt like I was hiking along with you. It would be cool for me to return to Italy and Germany and try to find where my great-grandparents lived too…
@shawn I think the 'twatdown' failure was a good thing hehe
@adam 'tweetups' are a little nerdy but as long as you don't join shawn in trying to call it a twatdown i thnk you are ok.
@erica welcome to the dork side hehehe
How has the battle of nerdy vs explorer come in your travels?
@shawn I think the ‘twatdown’ failure was a good thing hehe
@adam ‘tweetups’ are a little nerdy but as long as you don’t join shawn in trying to call it a twatdown i thnk you are ok.
@erica welcome to the dork side hehehe
How has the battle of nerdy vs explorer come in your travels?
That room and the bus ride sound terrible! I've had my share of bad rooms but nothing that bad. So glad you were able to get a better room.
Haha! I guess if you're able to find a job in Japan it's a pretty good start. I assume the living standard there must not be that cheap though.
Ooooh! When will you be heading to Japan?
Japan in December? Nice! What kind of job are you looking for in Japan? Is it a temporary thing or are you looking to stay in Japan permanently?
That room and the bus ride sound terrible! I’ve had my share of bad rooms but nothing that bad. So glad you were able to get a better room.
Glad you like the picture. I couldn't find one more appropriate than this. Lol
I was SO glad I was able to upgrade. If you ever visit Honduras one day, this place also has private cabins! Not sure how much that costs but I can't imagine it to be too much.
Haha! Thanks Anil.
I know! The birds are really beautiful creatures and their colors were so vibrant.
Haha! Yea, the flashing was SO disgusting. I feel dirty just thinking about it.
Glad you like the picture. I couldn’t find one more appropriate than this. Lol
LOL, just read the flash story. Disgusting, but worth it! They don't even look real.
Wow, the lago looked beautiful!!!!! Good thing you were able to upgrade.
Definitely worth it! I know you're not a big animal person, but look at those colors!!! So magical!
That's not all that unusual for Asia, honestly. Showers are rarely actually separate from the rest of the bathroom. In Korea, the shower head is typically directly over the mirror in front of the sink. I actually loved it because I could shower and brush my teeth at the same time. It's also convenient for cleaning, because you can just hose down the entire room, typically.
Ew, gross. Btw, the picture in this post is hilarious!
Great picture – despite the flashing!
You had me till #4, and #4 can lead into #6 because you never went to bed in the first place. hehe
Yay Japan! I'm going in December for 3 weeks I'm excited for the trip. Although I won't need to worry about accomadations I'm excited to read anything to prepare me for the trip, but I also have a secret plot to try and find a job.
Nope, I got a tour guide out of it which means I didn't have to come back the next day just to get my money's worth.
Where have you been flashed before?
I've never experienced anything so disgusting in my entire life living in NYC. Blech!
Ha ha! This is great stuff. Very witty. I can't agree with you more about not visiting every U.S. state. I've seen enough of them (except NM and OR). The only one I'd encourage you to reconsider, maybe later, is having kids. I wasn't too sure about it, but I'm so damned happy I did.
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Ooohh! Thanks so much for this post, as I have to start planning my Japan trip soon. Unfortunately it will only be a 10 day trip, but I hope to see as much as possible of Japan =)
Hiroshima was one of my most favorite places that we visited in Japan – so much we've been trying to figure out how we can move there. GO CARPS!
I'd feel extremely uncomfortable sticking around — and I'm not a woman! I think you did the right thing, however, and handled the situation well. Best of all, it didn't ruin your day out.
I'd feel extremely uncomfortable sticking around — and I'm not a woman! I think you did the right thing, however, and handled the situation well. Best of all, it didn't ruin your day out.
Ay Dios mio, how absolutely disgusting!!! I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I've had some creepy experiences like that as well. Grrrroooooooooossssssss!
Eww. I haven´t encountered anything like that yet and I´m not surprised you wanted to get out of there.
This is an awesome collection of temples from Europe to Asia! I will be remembering this blog post for a long time. Thanks so much!
Thank you for the compliment on the fotos Matt! The weather while there was amazing, easy to photograph a place that's beautiful when the weather cooperates. A fellow midwesterner…nice.
Thanks for the input! Glad to hear approval in there (I think) from a native!!
Yes, I wonder too! Whereas I didn't want it to be like the show, I am sure there are many who do!
I would definitely recommend it Emily! It's a nice area of the eastern seaboard, and no, not really like the show.
Probably your boss. That's why he was looking at you funny: he leads a sad life devoid of Entenmann's. Surprise him with a nice coffee crumble cake. He'll give you a fat raise. You can thank me later… by also buying me an Entenmann's coffee crumble cake.
No pretension here. Let go of all the things society tells you to do, conquering your fear of heights and all that. No, be scared. Stay grounded and try to accomplish more realistic achievements, like beating Mario Brothers in one life, or winning the Coney Island hot dog eating contest.
My idea of trying something new usually takes place in a restaurant, not on a mountain or a cliff or a rock wall. I'm with ya. Relax on the beach instead. You still have to worry about tidal waves and jelly fish and pollution and scary old men, but at least it seems safer.
You are aware that you can drink copious amounts of liquor without going to Antarctica, right?
It's called alcoholism, and we have plenty of that in America.
But, seriously, Zimas taste better in summer. God I wish they still existed.
Beautiful pictures! I've never been to Jersey, but like most people, The Jersey Shore (and Real Housewives of New Jersey) put a bad taste in my mouth for it. So glad to hear that the shore is nothing like the show! I'll have to make it out there sometime.
I wonder how many tourists they'll get this summer with the hopes that the Shore is like the show.
What a shame about the girls and especially that tour guide! It happens everywhere we go in our travels in undeveloped countries, but it hurts the most when it's my country. I took Europeans to the Copan Ruins recently and even for me the tour guide was well worth it, he made all the difference compared to all the other times I had been there on my own. So much, that I even gave him a big tip after paying him $35. It is bad, but it is true, even the real accredited tour guides have to pay the entrance fee, although its less than a dollar. I normally hate to pay for tour guides myself, buy my bf convinces me it's a better experience and often he is right. The other ruins in Tikal and Mexico are bigger, but they do not have as much detail as in Copan so many people prefer them.
Thanks for reminding everyone how lovely the Jersey Shore is – having grown up there I agree it is a very special place, just stay out of Seaside! The towns you visited are great for families as you point out.
If I got some more jaw-dropping sunrise photos, how can I add to you?
Sounds like a great place to visit. Epic photos too. Cheers from a fellow Midwesterner!
Sounds like a great place to visit. Epic photos too. Cheers from a fellow Midwesterner!
those are 2 great passages! I´ve been curious about that book…
Good spotting, one has to be alert these days. I believe though that most places can be visited without a guide (human) nowadays, don't you think? A good travel guide will give you almost the same if not the same information, most of which I forget as you leave anyhow. I know, I know, if everybody was like me there would be many more unemployed people but still…
Federico
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Nice, I love it. I was laughing out loud and drawing weird looks from my boss. Very orginal and well written. And I agree, who doesn't love some Entenmann's?
SO sketchy! Kudos on the doing-it-yourself part though. I think having a tour guide is too suffocating..
Thanks – the half naked girl in a bikini was a major giveaway. Lol
Haha – thanks. Wait till you hear what happened to me at Macaw Mountain.
Haha! I think that might be a nice way to make a buck or two. Do you speak another language? Bi-lingual tour guides are a hot commodity I hear.
I wanted to hop on over to Guatemala too but I found out it was quite a long ride to Tikal and I didn't have enough time.
Wow, shady indeed. Good job for picking up on it!~
Good eye spotting the dodgy tour guide.
I've noticed people like this all over major tourist attractions. In fact, if things don't work out for me, I might become on; leading people on tours and making stories up to impress them.
Good thing you dodged that bullet! Unfortunately, I didn't get to visit Copan when I was in Guate (I did go to Tikal & Machu Pichu)–next time! Great pic.
Aww…that's not going to be good when you start traveling to more less developed places like India. I haven't been there yet but I've heard some stories that are just heartbreaking.
I would feel the exact same way. $20 Euros is a lot for a subpar tour and I hate being guilted into donating money. It should be up to me if I want to donate, the more you guilt me into it the more i resent you and the less I'm willing to give. Which is why after my horseback riding experience, I didn't go back to my tour guide for my other tours during my stay in Copan. He got more than he deserved.
Haha…aww, that kinda sucks. Did you have a good time in Copan though? Good thing it didn't rain the day you went to the ruins otherwise you'd be trekking in mud the entire time. I'm not a fan of mud. Lol
Yea, it poured not too long after I took this picture. Good thing was I escaped into a restaurant to plan out the rest of the day with my friend so by the time we were done it had rained all out. It definitely was much cooler and a lot less humid afterward.
I already have a terrible guilt complex. I'm a little concerned about how I will be exploited. :X
Traveling's definition will always depend on how people will define it, sure thing every travel is a one of a kind experience no matter how many times you go back in a place there would always be a special something that you will treasure in your heart , that's why I often read travel guide sites like the following http://koh-chang.info/
http://www.sihanoukville.info/
http://siemreap.info/
http://cebutourist.com/
to keep me update about the places I really want to visit .
oh wow I can't believe I missed this place.
For the record, I was rained on several times each day in Copan, in fact the only time it didn't rain was, fortunately, while at the ruins.
OMG, did it start pouring down rain after you took this pic???
I experienced some exploitation while in Spain actually. I took up an offer for a “free” walking tour in Madrid. and at various points during the tour the guide kept mentioning how he does this for fun and lives off our tips. then at the very end of the tour he lined up our group one by one and gave us a speech about how he believes his tours cost $20EURO and he left it up to choose how much to tip him. he walked down the line with his hand out in front of each of us and asked me if he should return because I didn't give him any money. I felt his tour was subpar, he wasn't that great, and the fact that he kept reminding us of how “poor” he was – let alone practically begging for donations – left a bad taste in my mouth. I really wasn't happy with the experience.
I pretty much love this post! It can get obnoxious and overwhelming to create a bucket list – now I get the fun task of coming up with a f*k it list – much easier!
I agree! My thoughts and ideas and perspectives are constantly changing. The more I travel, the more things seem to be clearer. I love the learning process and I love discovering the truth. It's hard to see that when the government and media filters everything before they present it to the people.
Haha – a lot of the locals still use donkeys and horses as a mode of transportation. I was amazed at how they stayed on the horses for so long. It's actually really uncomfortable. My behind and inner thighs were sore for days.
It's always inspiring to read about someone doing something amazing, like climbing Mount Everest. But me? That's not my forte. It's good to get out and do something new and exciting but people shouldn't waste their time doing something they don't want to. This was hilarious post. Me? I've never felt the need to go rock climbing, why would I want to hang off a dangerous cliff or mountain?
There are always worst things in the world than kids selling weed. Like kids selling their bodies. Traveling does the same for me too – it enriches my life & breaks my heart. But at least I'm not ignorant to certain things now.
It is very hard. It breaks my heart to see that and sometimes I can't help but give in. I'm extremely careful about what organizations I choose to donate to. I don't feel very comfortable not knowing where my money goes. I much rather give my time and effort. At least I can see the physical results from that.
I loved this post! Such a great idea!
Hell yes. I've always been ashamed to admit all the cool things I'd really just rather not do. Skydiving? Mmmmm, no thanks. & Mount Everest? Yeah, I don't even want to climb Half Dome. Thanks for making me feel better for not wanting to defy the laws of gravity.
Only 1 thing –I'd totally visit Antarctica. Being cold is my all time favorite reason to drink copious amounts of hard liquor.
Yeah, my idea of living life to the fullest is attempting to STAY alive, not tempt death. I already do that on a daily basis on L.A. freeways.
At least you'd have a cool story to tell at a bar, when you're lifting your beer with your nubby hands and you can't smell the carbon monoxide leak.
Great idea on the website name. I wonder if anyone else would be jaded enough to visit constantly.
Nice! I don't want to travel to some scary places either. Nor do I feel the need to defy gravity in such a horrific fashion as skydiving. You could def lump other things in there, like paragliding or base jumping or other extreme sports that are unnecessary to breathing and walking around.
Love it. I'm adding scuba diving. Snorkeling is A OK with me
Haha, great post! There is definitely too much being said about trying to do everything. I was a little confused when I first read the title though. I think it would be better to call this a “Fuck That!” list.
Cheers!
This. Is. AMAZING. Such a funny post, Bret!
Fantastic! I never understood the need to climb Everest. Besides the obvious chance of dying, my greatest fear would be coming back with severe frost bite and living the rest of my life with no NOSE or FINGERs. Because THEN climbing Everest would have been worth it.
You need to get this website: PessimisticBackpacker.com – I'd visit constantly.
That's absolutely brilliant. Great read Bret.
haha. love it. i think you pretty much covered it for me too. well put.
That's a tough one. I instinctively would think buying the dolls and supporting the girls would be the best option – and short term, it probably is. Hopefully in some way it helps in putting food on their plates. I can see where you're coming from in hoping they don't rely on the corn husk dolls as a way of life. I'm not sure where I stand, to be honest.
I do know that Honduras seems to be the perfect place to go horse back riding – despite the barb wires and galloping moments!
I'm really going to love being a NYer.
I agree that your instincts were right. And I would have been sad too. I remember this type of thing happening in the poorest area of Jamaica as well. Only it wasn't corn husk dolls…….it was little kids trying to sell us weed. LITTLE KIDS, selling DRUGS.
Travel both enriches my life and breaks my heart at the same time, depending on location.
Thanks for sharing with us a glimpse into your travel experience. Traveling can be instrumental in shifting your view on the world. I know that I my feelings and thoughts on certain things are constantly put to the test here, and sometimes I find my values solidified through experience, and sometimes dissolved, but it's always a wonderful process of self realization. I just read your post on the corn husk girls and I found that to be fascinating and thought provoking as well. While I have definite thoughts on that, I'm still sorting them out. Thanks for sharing this with us.
it's such an interesting paradox but I think your instincts were right, by spending money in that manner we ultimately teach them that it is the way to make money. I've struggled a bit more saying no to begging children but in return try to find an organization to give the money to as I don't want the children to grow into adult beggars.
But I hear you, it's so hard to say no because it's so little money to us.
As a matter a fact, they DO have WiFi. I guess you'll never leave.
Thanks for stopping by Federico.
The more I travel, the more my perspectives change. I guess that's the beauty of it. I wish I could travel more often.
Sounds like a great place! Do they have WiFi? Cause if they did, you'd never have to leave!
Excellent post. Traveling certainly allows you to see things froma different perspective… and I suppose it's what it is all about.
Federico
This is an awesome articles camparing two amazing cuisines! I haven't been to Egypt or Turkey but can't wait to go and sample the pigeon head stuffed with rice and the spicy kokorec interesting sausage. I have had Kofte at a few restaurants around the world and love it dearly. Really great article and comparison, I'm ready to get to that area of the world and sample everything!
Haha! You've got a good eye for drinks.
I can see Mojito and Pina Colada sign
Excellent! Completely agree, it's all about perspectives…We are in India now, and Honduras seems rich compared to what we have seen here. Can't wait to read the rest!
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Honduras is amazing… I love the flora and fauna; I live in Northern California and the wildlife in Honduras is so bountiful in comparison to our scraggly trees and vacant dirt lots. I love the Lodge at Pico Bonito in Pico Bonito National Park; it's pretty inexpensive but you basically are IN the rainforest.
My husband and I are traveling to Eastern Europe and Asia this Summer, but until we leave what we've been obsessed with doing is watching “weeds” instantly on netflix on my iPad. So much fun, instant gratification and a great money saver
Great article! Love it
Sweet! Can't wait to see them!
This is the school in the village. I love the yellow and the green. It makes for a good contrast.
Thanks Kirsten! I'm working on getting those images up for everyone.
It was a magnificent panoramic view. This village is surrounded my rolling mountains and green grass. It was beautiful.
Thanks Matt! I'm glad you like it. Stay tune for more posts about my trip to Honduras.
Thanks Simon
I always remind myself every day that I'm very fortunate compared to many people around the world but it's easy to forget when I live in such a cosmopolitan and materialistic city. It is certainly a good reminder though to always stay humbled and grateful.
Thanks Andi! I can't wait to visit India myself but I can only imagine the level of poverty you experienced their first hand. How did you deal with it? Was it hard?
Thanks Dina! You're always so kind.
Thanks Garrett. I'm working on cranking out those posts for you guys. Stay tune!
Oh, the house is very pretty! What house/building is that?
The game option is perfect for my husband. He is still gaming a lot on the road. I used to play games too, but not since reenter Uni and have a small notebook that is too slow to play anything, but the keyboard is too limited to play simplest looking game like Nethack (not sure you know it. The game appearance is made of ascii codes)
Great perspective, Monica. Very well written.
You say it in such a simple but so powerful way: 'it's all about perspectives'…
This is something we should keep in mind everyday, when we (first of all myself) complain about little things while we are so privileged…
It definitely is! I got a nice dose of reality when I traveling throughout India. Eloquently written dear.
Beautifully written, Monica
There's nothing like a trip to Central America to humble oneself.
Stay safe! Looking forward to future updates.
Beautiful Monica! I love the architecture of South American and Latin countries. Can't wait to see more of your images from the trip!
Wow, what a GORGEOUS school!!! I'm not sure I'd be able to concentrate on my studies if I had a view out the window like that.
Thanks GlobalButterfly, we had a wonderful time. I remember when planning we were tempted to go the whole hog and do the stereotypical luxury honeymoon thing, we were so glad we didn't
Tried to buy this today, anxious to read it. So I really appreciated your take Monica! May try to borrow it now, or buy it used.
Hey Savannah! Thanks for leaving your comment. Just wanted to tell you that you're the winner of The Lost Girls Book giveaway. Can you please email me with your full name & mailing address? I'll try to have it sent to you as soon as possible!
Hope you enjoy my blog. Come back soon!
Hey Jenna! I totally agree with the over-consumption part. I rather borrow books than buy them and I much rather donate them than just throw them away.
I think it's so cute you're able to travel with your husband. That's what I would want when I get married too.
Netflix is so great!!!
I need to finish this book, ahhhh I wish I had more time. Great review!
I love that you're giving your copy away. My friends and I always share books so that we don't have to buy them– not only to save money but also to contribute a little less to our society's over-consumption.
I also love that these 3 women traveled together. I did a lot of traveling with a friend in my early 20s. Those were precious experiences and I'm so happy we had them. Now that we are both married and travel with our husbands, we love reminiscing about those times together.
They totally make the trip memorable. They also make for great travel stories!
Thanks Kirsten! American Airlines actually had pretty decent leg room. It was about a foot from my knee to the chair in front of me.
Yup! That's never happened before. I guess it makes up for the fact that my flight from Honduras to MIA was over 2 hours late.
Hey now!
I tried to tell you we were shy nerds and you didn't believe me. And what on earth is sock golf?
A free upgrade! Very nice
Love it! And totally envious of your business class seat – my legs are just long enough that the WORST part of travel for me (and really one of the only parts I don't enjoy) is the lack of legroom on a typical flight in coach. I deboard in serious pain after most flights.
Ay Dios mio, what an INCREDIBLE start to your trip!!! I can't wait to hear the rest even though you say things went downhill. I think no matter what happened those 2 experiences were totally worth it!
Geeks! – I'm joking, great ideas!
I've had a few Monopoly nights, it's amazing how exciting it can become with a few drinks, honestly.
I live in a three story house with my friends so my other favorite games include: Golf down the stairs and sock golf, you have to be very drunk for the later. Luckily for me most of my friends seem to be poor just as my trip is coming up so they don't notice that I'm holding back a bit more than normal!
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Sounds like the PERFECT honeymoon, love it!!! What a great story.
I saw a small article (1 page really isn't small lol) in Shape Magazine about them!
I would love a copy of this book! Sounds like a great read!
Yay for you! You must be ecstatic about traveling the world. Why A Pair of Panties & Boxers? I think you should read this entry: http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/2009/07/.... You'll get a kick out of it.
You totally nailed the “best” of the best yummies… Caramel salted brownies & palmiers! YES!
Thanks for the praise! You did a great job describing Amelie's. Just one technical change. Charlotte is in North Carolina (although not by much!), not South Carolina. Having said that, we look forward to having you visit regardless of the Carolina you choose!
Sounds like a fun book to read while traveling myself!
If you are going to be a travel/food writer you need to make sure you know where you are talking about….NORTH Carolina. We are not interchangable.
Since you're thinking about moving, why not Charlotte? You'd love it here! The weather's great year-round: Hot when you expect hot; cold when you'd expect cold, and lots in-between. It's about 4-5 hrs to the beach and/or the mountains. Easy access to an international airport, too, and two interstates.
You can edit your post! Easy-peasy.
very cool! love Amelie’s there items are so yummy and I always feel such a warm feeling when I am there! great post!
Glad you discovered our wonderful Amelie's. Only thing you misstated was the state. Charlotte, North Carolina
Oh and Kirsten amazing pictures and blog. I like them a lot! You did Amelie's justice! Glad you stopped by Charlotte and come back again!
I love Amelie's. It's the best place to go at like 2 in the morning when you can't sleep and you want to just relax or have a great conversation with some friends. Living in charlotte is a better place because of Amelie's!!!
Sorry I missed this reply, still finishing the degree – 6 days to go! Very exciting! She did share the passion a bit, but we're at different places in our lives, these things happen. Plan to travel a lot of Europe again this Summer. Hope all is well for you!
Great post. Who doesn't love temples?! And there are so many here that look spectacular.
Thanks for including my pictures!
Oh, and apologies to Charlotte residents….I do actually know that it is North Carolina. Blame it on a typo.
Hi Jen! Thanks for your comment! How cool – I always enjoy meeting new people, whether there is common ground or not – but even more so when there is! Well, if you are near Charlotte or even could be…then yes, you should definitely stop! It's a gem in the South to be sure!
Hi, just from your bio, I feel like we have much in common. So, I totally trust your review of Amelie's. I love anything that remotely reminds me of France.
Cornelius, I HIGHLY recommend venturing away from Riverstreet the next time you are in Savannah. The best the town has to offer is not on Riverstreet. It's not a bad area, but it is all tourists and all “set up Savannah”. Go back! Explore more! It's an amazing town!!
You're welcome Matt! Truly – if you're anywhere in the remote vicinity of Charlotte – this place is that worth it. Baked goods I now dream about and a very inspiring atmosphere. Can't say enough good things about it!
Sounds like a brilliant little place. I'm not sure I see myself in South Carolina anytime soon, but if I get there, I'll have my Mac in toe and head to Amelie's! Thanks Kirsten!
Yay Savannah. I liked Vinnie Van GoGo and wrote about them as well in my posts about Savanna, although never heard of the other place. I also failed to venture too far outside of the riverstreet area for drinks and night time entertainment so I never got to check out any local pubs.
Hey Monica, took a while (damn finals) but I finally downloaded all of the books as well. I'm keep looking into the charity site to see how else I can help. Great post!
Thanks for the comment Spencer! Huge fan of Mollys! They had a cider on tap that was fabulous and though I also enjoyed a Guiness while there (how could I not have done so) – it was nice to end the night w/ a light cider and a good dessert. Truly terrific place to spend an evening. Of course, the whole of Savannah was pretty enticing. I can see going back every year for a few days.
Love Molly MacPherson's. Was one of my faves in Savannah and compared to many pubs in Savannah they have both decently priced beer and good pub grub at a good price. You can get Fish and Chips for $10. Can barely get that at Captain D's. Get a decent beer, such as a Yuengling for $3.50
Your 8 safety tips to travel L.A. are great. Great advice, and I know having travelled alot too. I laughed when you told how you locked your bag to your foot, and then couldn't find the key, but all in all the bag made it safe to the next destination attached to you. Your tid bits of humility are so precious, thanks.
Man, I should of submitted my Bahai Temple shots from Evanston, IL. I forgotten about that temple and it is gorgeous! This was an amazing post. Please forgive me not making comments as frequently as I used to…life and work just gets in the way of blogging!
Amazing shots. Your guest posters are amazing!
Very awesome post! Good for you, to have just said “time out” to life for a while. I myself am currently preparing to leave the world of ambulances, sirens, and sick people in search of self and experience. I'm really excited about it and get encouraged everyday how well this plan to abandon all plans works for people. Looking forward to reading more. Good luck with the projects and grad school and traveling…
ps and Spanish and yes, why panties and boxers?
What a sweet tale. I want to know more! I see the beginnings of a novel or a short story.
Thanks for including my shot, Angkor Wat is definitely a must-see temple but sadly it means that everything you see after that pales in comparison.
Thanks again for including us Monica. This is another beautiful collection.
This just makes me smile!
Gorgeous temples, Monica! I'm glad you do this post! I haven;t been in Angkor Wat yet, but no wonder many people sent you Angkor Wat shots!I like a lot the Nepal one and Baha'i one, The My Son looks mysterious and intriguing. I've been in Prambanan and Kiyomizu Dera, wonderful places. I was in Prambanan after a big earthquake struck the area a few months before, the top of the temple was shifted quite noticeably. They raised some metal support around it. I hope it will not fall.
Love this post!
Thanks Marta! I really appreciate it. Feel free to spread the word. Right now, there are only 3 downloads and I'd love to give more than just 3 bucks. Lol
I already download them all!
Congratulations Monica! Hope you have a great time in Honduras! You deserve it.
Yeah
Sorry!! Being a tour guide ain't easy! Are you going to TBEX for sure? I'll be there for sure.
I definitely can relate! Moments where I feel like I am barely holding it together are more often lately than ever before. BUT – like your goals of Honduras and finishing GMAT; I feel like I can make it through anything w/ the NYC move as my end goal for October. I think goals, whether big or small, are important to keep one foot in front of the other!
It is SOOOOOOO tequila time…in Honduras! :p
Thanks for the encouraging words Matt. And yes, I need more practice with cleaning. Doing it once a year isn't going to cut it now is it? Lol
Thanks Adam! Hope to see you on the road some time in the future.
Would you be interested in doing an interview with me? I'll have to send you some questions when I get back from Honduras but let me know what you think. Stay safe dude! 
Haha…thanks Kirsten! You're so sweet. Trust me, it hasn't been easy. Sometimes I find myself hanging my a thread but then there are small moments that make everything okay.
Thanks Mike! Didn't see you at the FXB fundraising. May this summer around TBEX?
Thanks for the tip Brendan. I heard La Ceiba isn't the best place to stick around.
Shady places? Where have you been? I think maybe you should be a guest blogger on A Pair of Panties & Boxers and write that post on security & safety tips.
What do you think?
I have a friend who's currently living in Brazil now. He's been to a few favela parties and I don't think they are as bad as people make it to sound. They actually have favela tours. I'd like to go on one someday. That would be pretty cool.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure you are a machine. Excellent publicity with your guest posts and interview! Keep up the good work (although, work on your cleaning!).
Congrats!!! Enjoy Honduras- you deserve it!
You may think Candice made you sound like a robot – but really she just pointed out what a kick arse multi-talented, impressive woman you are!!! Because, you are. I stand amazed weekly at how much you fit in your life. And time for a relationship!
Congrats on getting through the GMAT. I am sure you did better than you think. But either way, enjoy your well earned trip to Honduras!!! (and worry about a redo later)
You're hard work is certainly paying off
Keep it up!
Glad to give you a shout out any time, Monica! Hope it sent some traffic your way. And WOOOT for GMAT completion! Congrats! Tequila time?
I am extremely cautious everywhere I go and when I travel w/my brother, we are on an operation. We move like clockwork and keep an eye on everything and everyone. When we travel in groups, we keep an eye on the group and an eye on the people we pass. We keep tabs on people who follow us (yes we've been followed for blocks before they gave up) and we keep an eye out for good food places
Sadly that's the only time I ever lose track of people… 
But we've been traveling in shady places for over a decade and what started as a game is now second nature to us… It's still fun and we smile when the girls joke about traveling with body guards… but we've never been mugged (knock on wood) or accidentally gotten lost (w/o knowing how far lost we far or getting lost on purpose which is also fun).
We always get a business card of the hotel we stay in so we can show taxi drivers if we get lost and we each hide cash on us… I've learned to trim my wallet down to bare necessities and carry a dummy wallet to give away (ive caught a pickpocket before)
Travel light and follow the http://www.onebag.com philosophy (well one bag + laptop bag) you can usually buy most things when you get there…
there's so many security and safety tips… maybe that should be a separate post?
Hey Monica,
If you can try to skip staying the night in La Ceiba and just jump on the boat to either Roatan or Utila… La Ceiba is nice, but if you don't have to spend the night, don't bother… my humble opinion!
Great post! Who ever the author is must me be very handsome! lol
Great set of tips, especially #2.
Great list. I was always too stubborn for the Taxi and would take the bus when I lived in Rio although I was lucky nothing ever happened to me since the bus dropped me off 6 blocks from home and right next to a favela.
I love visiting Savannah and this photo reminds me why.
I love visiting Savannah and this photo reminds me why.
Thank YOU for contributing. I'm looking forward to featuring more of your photos and travel stories!
Thanks for featuring me for Photo Friday Monica!! (love the foto you chose!!) …and, I didn't know you and JC had been to Savannah before!
Yay I get mentioned on this site again, excited.
YAY Savannah. I had such a great time there.
I cannot fathom how it took me so long to read this post – as I'd wondered regarding the title of the site. And yet, I'd started to figure it out on my own. Nonetheless, what fun to finally read this!!!! I loved this story and now, feel much more informed!!
No, thank YOU for putting your post together. I'm looking forward to meeting you and the gals when you come to TBEX. I'm sure there will be a NYC tweet up pretty soon.
Thanks Simon! You're always the sweetest. If you're ever interested in guest posting please let me know. I'd love to have you contribute to A Pair of Panties & Boxers.
What a nice thought, Monica. You've awesome guest bloggers (not to speak about the fabulous photo contributions) and I'm sure they will appreciate a lot this tribute to them.
A big hug,
Simon
http://www.wild-about-travel.com
How weird is it that this sounds like heaven to me?! As much as I've fallen in love with other countries now (MEXICO!!) I still have such a strong desire to go to France and never return.
Thanks for the shout-out, I had a blast revisiting my France experience!
Oh my goodness – I'd LOVE that!!!! Let's talk more about that for sure!!
I'm totally okay with publishing more than one of your posts. If you're interested, you can be a contributor on my blog. What do you think? Email me so we can chat about it more if you like the idea.
There's no word count and image size is no wider than 670 pxl. Gracias!
Monica, Can you shoot me a quick reminder of word count and size for
images??
Kirsten
*sigh of relief*
Will be in touch VERY soon w/ some story options! I want to send more
than one but DO NOT expect you to publish more than one. Just like to
give people options!!!
No…not too late at all!!! I'd love to have to guest blog again! You'll be doing me a huge favor and I definitely owe you one (or two). Feel free to send it over whenever it's ready. I won't be leaving till May 22nd so you have plenty of time.
Some GREAT stories here!! Monica – is it too late to submit guest post stories for when you are in Honduras?? This was on my agenda for today…
I lived in Bushwick off Myrtle & Wyckoff
Haha! That would be awesome if I was cupid/matchmaker. Should we start with you? Lol!
Thanks Joya! You never find something that you're looking for until you stop looking for it. Kinda like your keys. Lol So if you're looking for romance abroad, maybe you should stop and let it come looking for you.
That's what happened to me. Getting a boyfriend in Shanghai wasn't even on my mind.
I'm from Brooklyn!!! Born & bred.
Where did you live? Flatbush? Bed-Sty?
The sketchy neighborhoods all seem to have more interesting stories than the nice clean & pristine areas. They might be easier on the eye but they don't have much depth to it. Kind of like hot girls. Lol
Very true. I think the same thing is kind of happening to us about Honduras. I haven't spoken to any backpackers yet and I haven't heard from any travelers about it not being a safe place to go but it seems like every thing I read online tells me to be careful.
I guess I'll find out the truth when I get there.
wouldnt it be great if two of your twitter followers met on a travel somewhere and fell in love?
that would be a cool story…
Some of the most interesting places seem to be the “bad parts of town.” I spent some time living in Manhattan, and ended up moving to one of the “sketchier” neighborhoods in Brooklyn because the rent was so much lower. Sure, there were some less than savory elements there, but there were some great places to eat, some really cool old buildings, and some of my neighbors were the nicest people you could ever meet. Most of the people getting murdered in those large urban areas are people that are deeply involved in illegal activity. I always go by the “see for myself” rule, though there are definitely some parts of cities that I don't want to be in.
Every city has its ups and downs and you can have a good time anywhere. Last year I visited Buffalo NY and while it always gets bad reviews I had a great time and met some good people.
We met back in August '09 when she was in Melbourne for three months. Then it was a difficult seven month wait when she left in September, but since arriving in France for her, it's been absolutely worth every minute.
I'm so happy you met someone abroad. I always hope that will happen to me when I travel but not yet. What I love about travel is relationships like that can pop up when you least expect it. Thanks for sharing this sweet story!
These are so beautiful! Thanks for putting this together.
heh, well i have a travel log of sorts, but its not quite setup and i have to decide which cms to use or find time to dig up the one i wrote years ago…
i also need to catch up on this weeks adventures… so much to do… and so little time… new job which has lots to do, gotto plan for an upcoming family reunion at our house which means lots of prepping for it…
but i do hav a semi written log of my adventures… and pictures…
u should start a travel tips page… and start posting things uve found helpful… an idea ive been meaning to do…
Thanks Kristian! And thanks for stopping by. I hope you enjoy reading my blog. I'll be leaving for Honduras in 2 weeks so I'm hoping to come back with a batch of new travel stories for you. Stay tuned!
Oh! I've brought that travelbug back with me too and I'm so glad I did!
Any kind of temples with the location & a short description. Doesn't matter where it's from. I can't wait to see it!
You can send it to monicawong530@gmail.com and you can pick as many
countries as you like.
Be sure to include the location of the temple, a short description, a bio &
profile picture of yourself for me to include at the end.
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Oh absolutely! Do I just pick 1 country? What email address should I send
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What kind of temples you are looking for? Anything? From Greek to Balinese to Japanese etc?
I'm not one for romantic stories but that was really cute. I can't say I've brought back anything as exciting as a boy. Probably the best thing I've brought back is a desire to go back out and travel.
I'm happy you enjoy them. I love looking at it too. Next photo collection is going to be on temples. If you have any, feel free to submit them.
I'm so glad you enjoyed. My next photo collection is going to be on temples. Feel free to submit photos you'd like to share.
Thank YOU for the photos. This has turned out to be so much fun & everyone seems to be loving it. Get ready for the temple themed collection!
Thank YOU for sharing your talent with us! I'm going to make my next theme: temples.
I LOVE painting the sky too. I just wish I was better at it. Lol
I know me too! They're all so incredible. I'm doing a temples theme for the next collection. Do you have any to share?
Thank YOU for sharing your amazing photography. Next theme: Temples! I'm going to start working on that next week.
Thanks Erica! I'm absolutely sure you will but when it comes to sunrises, I think you might have to sacrifice a few hours of sleep to capture it. I'm sure it's well worth it though.
Looking forward to hearing about all your travels. I'll be living vicariously through you.
Haha – maybe Kirsty is going to find love on her travels first so she could ditch you!
Hey Darrick! Thanks for the taking the time to leave such a thoughtful comment. I know there is a special lady waiting for you out there and you'll find her when you least expect it. It's kind of like looking for your keys. You go nuts trying to figure out where it might be and you almost never find it in time but when you stop looking for it, it just suddenly appears.
It sounds like you have your own travel adventures too. I think maybe you should start a blog so I can follow you when I'm not traveling.
You've got a good mindset when it comes to traveling. I should incorporate some of it into my travels too. I hope your future travels take you far and wide and I sincerely hope that you find you're lucky lady.
P.S. I'm not joking when I say you should start your own travel blog.
Lol – I prefer panties but sometimes I like to wear boxers over my panties.
AHHHH! This is so amazing! I can only hope to be able to create amazingness like this when we go on our trip. SO AWESOME. Great collection Monica!
AHHHH! This is so amazing! I can only hope to be able to create amazingness like this when we go on our trip. SO AWESOME. Great collection Monica!
Ahhhh romance…..I do seem to find it on many of my travels!! The
first trip to NYC was full of it, and my recent trips to Mexico and
Savannah were as well. It all depends on the company or (if traveling
alone) who you end up meeting on the road!
Does make for a rich experience though
So…the post didn't make it clear. Is this boy you brought home still
around? Or was that a short lived experience?
LOOOOOOOVED the sunrise post!! Thanks for including me!! (I'll have to
update my bio a little now that I know if it NYC I am moving to!!)
Feliz Friday!
Kirsten
Verrry amazing!!!!! I feel as if I just went on a mini RTW. REALLY enjoyed all these photographs and quite happy I could contribute a few myself – as many have pointed out, a sunrise is far more challenging to be around for than a sunset! Thanks for allowing me to be included in this Monica! GREAT company to be a part of!!!
That Ohio one is out of this world beautiful!!! And Ohio of all places! I have been beyond fortunate to see some stunning, unforgettable sunsets in my life. If you ever do this again let me know, because I have some great photos to send you.
AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish that I was a morning person and was able to see more sunrises. My favorite that I've ever seen was in Alice Springs, Australia from a hot air balloon ride! Each of these photos is so special, I can't pick a favorite.
Gorgeous collection here Monica. Love the Oman sunrise. Passing this post along to my sister who paints skies like these for a living.
They're all amazing, Monica… definitely worth the wait! I'm honored to be a part of this collection =)
incredible photos from around the world..thanks a million for including us, Monica!
Whoooosh! These sunrise photos are really jaw-dropping! This one of my favorite posts ever!
And I found out new, amazing bloggers worth to be followed.
Thanks Monica. And a Hip Hip Hurrah!
Simon
http://www.wild-about-travel.com
Wow Monica, I'm glad you make this post! These photos are so stunning!! Ushuaia (Argentina) and Omaru (New Zealand) are the winners I think, but difficult to say, my opinion changes every time I see the photos! So true about the reason sunrise photos are rare, that's why I only have 1 sunrise photo while I have many of sunsets! It's more like I don't sleep in the night rather than wake up early in the morning, haha.That time in Mt. Fuji we actually hiked up to watch the sunrise. We probably slept an hour or two outdoor. Every body there woke up for sunrise, and we had a “banzai” together.
We've traveled to a lot of places in China. We've also traveled to Madrid and Istanbul. If you want to read more about those travels, you can find them here: http://www.apairofpantiesandboxers.com/where-iv...
Thanks for stopping by Brittani!
Aww…that is really sweet. I'm glad you found someone too and I hope you both have wonderful and romance travel adventures together.
Thanks Kirsten! Hope you find a little romance in your travels as well.
I'm hoping to find love on my travels and ditch Kirsty…..
First, nice story and I'm happy for you.
Second, where were you during all my travels ;-P
In the past decade that I've been traveling for my own selfish pleasure, I've only met a handful of people who enjoy traveling as much as I do, and even fewer single ladies who like traveling. But I have heard romantic tales of couples traveling around the world and falling in love. I've yet to be so fortunate, but I smile everytime I hear those tales and wonder what adventures, traveling will bring.
Everytime I meet people, I learn something and it becomes a part of me. Just like I am a part of all that I have met, I am a part of where I have traveled and those places become me.
I read this earlier, but I was too busy on a travel to respond. I just came back from 4 day adventure to Los Angeles and a 3 day conference at the National Harbor in Maryland. I met some wonderful new people in LA and made a mental checklist of places to visit and things to try when I return. I renewed friendships and met familiar faces at the conference while enjoying the wonderful scenery of the waterfront. I prefer traveling in small groups than traveling alone and try to arrange group trips to places, but that's often hard to schedule. Traveling with new people often brings a different perspective and reminds you of the things you take for granted.
I had forgotten that traveling is a different experience and requires a different mindset. I instinctively stock and pack small bottles into ziplock bags and leave them on the outside of my unlocked luggage. I forgot not everyone packs that way and some people are still unaware of flight rules. I bundle pack and follow the one bag principle, even though I usually check in my luggage. With airline companies charging for extra bags, everyone tries to bring everything on board, which leads to longer security lines, and planes running out of carryon space, which results in bags being checked anyways. I throw every metallic object into my bag to speed up security scans and figure out the most effecient way to travel. I always write off the whole day for travel so I can jump on any free upgrades on overbooked flights. I always bring some disposable reading material to pass along or leave behind at the destination. I've learned to shop as if I'm traveling and prefer buying smaller portable stuff, even when I'm not expecting to travel… which is all part of that traveling mindset. I've learned how to shop for flights and seek out coupons and deals. I've learned to not bring back useless junk, but focus on people and priceless experiences. I've learned to haggle and barter on the streets and I've learned when to pay with cash, and when to pay with plastic. I've learned to sleep anywhere and wake at a moments notice. I've learned to be aware of my surroundings – (pilots call it situational awareness) and learned to watch people as well as the scenery. I've learned how to find cheap local cuisine and I've learned to compromise on decisions…
But most importantly, I've learned to have fun…
Reminds me of the Dr Seuss poem, oh the places you'll go… http://www.teamhope.com/seuss.htm
First off that is an amazing sunset photo. and second….well, do we now know who wears the boxers?
great story, honest and brave. best wishes and….
stay adventurous,
Craig
You're so very welcome! I said the same thing about New Zealand after I saw these sunset photos. Wait till you see the sunrise collection tomorrow.
If I could, I'd do every single one of those tours listed. They are all so amazing.
=)
Great story. Where all have you traveled?
Hope you two have many more trips together in the future.
Awww, that's cute!
Hahaha, trust me, the dating scene in this city is GRIM.
Who said holiday romances can't work! I too found a lovely boy when I was abroad – a gorgeous one from Edinburgh. So good to read your story as I've only just told everyone mine too – hence the twittering last night!
Indeed
I'm left wondering how many of those 50 tours of a lifetime are ones that I'd choose.
Oh I loooove this. For so many reasons!!
Aww! I'm not the only one. You have quite a romantic story yourself. Going half way across the world to find your significant other. We're both lucky ladies.
Aww…I'm sorry it didn't last but I'm glad you don't have a bad impression of New York City. People say that it's hard to find love in the Big Apple. I don't know how much of that is true. I never really dated. I spend most of my quality time during nights and weekends with my books.
Haha! I wonder if we ladies emit different endorphins or something because of our excitement of traveling. Maybe that might explain your their of increased prospects abroad. Lol
Best of luck finding someone special. But you know it's a Murphy's Law that you never find what you're looking for until you stop looking – like your keys for example.
Thanks Gerard! I think because my boyfriend and I share this passion for traveling, we also have a similar mindset. Although there are plenty of things we disagree on, we're still together after 2+ years.
I hope you and your girlfriend are happy and well. How long have you been together?
That's cute
That is so very true. A new mindset is irreplaceable. I can imagine how hard it must have been for your girlfriend with you being away. But at the same time if she didn't share the same passion you have for traveling, it would be difficult for her to understand why you need to travel. Perhaps you'll find someone who shares that passion with you in future when you're on the road.
Are you traveling right now? Or are you still working on your degree?
Traveling definitely has allowed me to meet people I normally wouldn't have thought I had anything in common with. All the cliques and stereotypes seem to evaporate because when people travel, there really isn't a mold to fit in to.
Thanks Andrea! A cutie like you I'm sure you've had a few boyfriends.
We are opened to more things when we travel but I also think it's because we have this one big similar interest that connects us – traveling.
Haha…aww! Are you telling me you've never had a boyfriend?! We're going to have to remedy this!
Aw, you're so sweet Simon.
I find that every time I travel, a little bit of me changes for the better. That's why I always want to travel. I want to be the best person I can be. I think everyone should strive to be a better person today than they were yesterday.
Hot! Guys with accents get extra brownie points. Sounds like you've got yourself a little charming travel tale yourself.
Awww nice story! I'm considerably ahem, older than you, but I found me a second husband on my travels. I bumped into my Englishman in Paris and now live with him in the UK. I reccommend travelling, you never know what you'll learn about yourself, or what you'll find!
What a lovely story, Monica. I can even not imagine a beautiful girl as you are not having experienced love, which is the most beautiful experience in life, together with having children.
What I most liked in your post is the end: you brought back a 'new me'. That's why traveling is such a wonderful experience, because in a way or the other if you are a sensitive person you cannot be back the same.
Damn! How cool is that? Also, you would definitely not be the only 20-something girl who's never had a boyfriend, hahaha. *raises hand*
Beautiful!!! I've had quite the luck finding my bf's around the world as well. I think it's because we are more open to everything when we travel. I wish you and he the best of luck in life and in love.
What a romantic story. I've had a few flings but they often end when we both part ways for another city, although we still keep in touch.
What's interesting about travel is that it opens your mind to new people, those you may not have met or considered back at home. With each person you learn and grow a little bit more.
I had completely the same experience living abroad in Copenhagen, Denmark. It absolutely shifted my views on life and reorganised my priorities, though I have to say I had the opposite experience relationship-wise, my girlfriend back home wasn't so impressed with my swanning off to Scandinavia! Still, before that my entire life was my degree, living somewhere else and trying so many new things was definitely the best thing I've ever done, I have to say other than a few christmas presents, cheesy as it is, bringing back a whole new mindset was the best souvenir for me.
Better than bringing a trinket or t-shirt home!
Travel offers us so much more, as you've found out. It's an amazing journey to go on, but it really makes a difference when you're somewhere new and allowing new things (or people) to come into your life. Congrats on finding someone! I'm in France living with my girlfriend I met in Melbourne when she was over for a few months. Funny how life works out that way…
Monica, this is so cool — thanks for including my photos in your sunset extravaganza! I love Kirsten's Playa del Carmen sunset, and it would appear we need to get ourselves to New Zealand but quick.
I've dated around a bit at home and even had relationships, but when I go abroad my prospects shoot up dramatically! I have this theory I'm much hotter outside the US. I did scoop up a boy while living overseas once, but unfortunately he was British and they don't let you just take those home!
I'm hoping for better luck this time around!
I went to New York to party, met a boy and got married in City Hall 3 years later. The marriage lasted 1 month. I love New York, though!
Same with you! I met Ryan (husband and traveling partner) when we went to Japan for a year exchange student program. I'm from Indonesia, and he's from Canada. Geographically, we were 12 hours time zone difference, right in the other side of the earth. From so faraway places, yet we met in about our middle point, Tokyo. I don't know how otherwise I will ever meet him, I'm so lucky!
Ooooh, how awesome! Would love to check this out when I'm in the city.
I have been there! It was an awesome place. When I get rich one day, I would like to open a place like this…
Thanks Ayngelina. I'm glad you liked it. When you come visit NYC, I'll be sure to remind you to check out this bookstore.
I know! I really wish there were more too this way my money would be going to people who really need it instead of people who are just plain greedy.
Thanks Russo! I'll try to keep an eye out for more stuff like this to share.
Really diggin this, “Traveling doesn’t always mean leaving the country. It doesn’t mean you have to leave your home. Home is where the heart is. Traveling is leaving your bubble, your comfort zone. Sometimes I travel to different places in the world. Sometimes I travel in my thoughts”
I have to get out of my comfort zone in my own town or states sometime.
This sounds awesome!!! Definitely something I will be checking out soon! Forget liking this post; I LOVE it! Keep up the great work Monica!
Awesome post and fantastic idea! I found out a similar place in Geneva: a bookstore/café/restaurant where proceeds are devoted to a cause. A pity there are only a few of such places… Hopefully their number will increase in the future!
Cheers!
Simon
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What a great tip. I may not be in North America for quite a while but I'm definitely bookmarking this page so I don't forget this store.
Hope you do more of these posts!
So beautiful.
Ouch! I take a little offense to the Veggie comment!
There are various things that annoy me when I travel, but honestly I just ignore them, because I'm on such a high from traveling. I refuse to let things ruin a trip for me.
Wonderful photo!!!
Haha…they are definitely not but they do make us look good.
That is very true. I've heard of many American travelers passing themselves off as Canadians by stitching the Canadian flags to their school bags to “distinguish” themselves.
Yea, the knee thing did really happen. The guy was an obnoxious turd.
Looove it.
Travelers who talk bad about Americans but have seemingly never actually met one. Please don't judge us by television. I know there are some poorly behaved Americans when traveling, but I've come across just as many poorly behaved (fill in the blank with any country's citizens).
In fact, on our RTW, we observed that most Americans we met (including ourselves) were very cautious about their behavior because of the reputation we have as rude and obnoxious.
Definitely RT your sunset post every Sunday…it's that good. I can't
recall anyone else ever doing that too. It's such a terrific idea!
Can't wait to see the sunrise edition!
Yes, most people are not up that early. I know I am not ever. Unless I
am with someone who wants to be up that early – and I seem to choose men
similar to me…late risers!
Hmmm….maybe I should make myself get up one of these mornings to take
some sunrise images. What a good exercise that would be as a
photographer and a person. Hmmm….
I meant to say too, this is a beautiful picture!!
Looks like another beautiful European town!! And amen on the Dr. Scholls….a girls best friend no matter where she goes! Women's shoes are NOT made for comfort.
Did the knees thing really happen? How rude!
Yes, parts of Bronx are still very dangerous but that goes for many parts of the world. You just have to be smart about how you travel and where you go. Wave Hill is a really charming place. If you visit one day, you'll realize that it doesn't even feel like what you'd expect the Bronx to be. I was pleasantly surprised to find a place like this in the Bronx.
I'm glad my post helped you out. It's going to be gorgeous in June because the trees and flowers would have been in full bloom. Perfect place to catch a tan. Watch out for rolling toddlers though. Lol
Awww, I can't wait to read it then!!! Travelogues usually make me cry
too, because I feel the immense passion behind them.
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I'm going to New York in June. The last time I was there The Bronx was the only borough I didn't visit. I've been looking for ideas on what to do there (aside from The Bronx Zoo). This place sounds great, and something I wouldn't expect to find in New York.
Haha! I think RTing this every Sunday is a fantastic idea!! I'm biased of course but these sunsets are pretty damn amazing. I can't help staring at them myself. Lol
I'm trying to put together a sunrise edition. I haven't received as many photos for that blog post. Probably because people don't get up early enough to catch the sunrise. They are just as beautiful though.
Hahahha, great story!
That's a great answer and representing my feeling as well. I'll try that next time I'm speechless!
Haha. Well, I'm not the world's most social person. Hell, even now, here in the middle of DC, I haven't had an actual conversation with anyone other than my boyfriend for three and a half weeks. I don't work with people for my job, so unless I deliberately go out with folks, Marc is the only person I see.
I was an only child, and I spent a lot of time playing outside by myself, which may explain a little bit of it. I have never felt that drive to socialize that most folks seem to have. It's not that I dislike people or dislike socializing, it's that I just don't really feel the need.
Thanks! That's really what I sound like in my head, except it's much faster.
I don't have many friends who are old enough to have kids and a mortgage but I wouldn't know how to respond if my friends assumed I was jealous I didn't have their lifestyle. To be quite honest, many people who live in developed countries live the same exact lifestyle. It's nothing different.
I would just tell them “No, I am not jealous at all. I feel free and very fulfilled living the way I do. I am blessed to be able to live life this way.”
I'm glad that you don't feel like you have to sacrifice your life for everyone else's expectations. Brava!
It is REALLY good, especially the girls' anecdotes about the people and culture. I've cried so many times on the train already. It's a little ridiculous.
Oh! I can't wait to read your review. It's always interesting to see what other people's perspectives are and how differently and/or similar they are to your own.
Haha…I don't mind sleeping in late as long as it's because I was out late the night before exploring the town. I do prefer to wake up early and go to bed early though. It's better for your health and it makes me feel so much better to know that I still have 10+ hours of day light ahead of me.
I hate rude “travelers” and tourists as well. I never understand why they act like such tools sometimes. Some people can be so egocentric. Gag!
And yes, it's not a trip until you have a story to tell. That is so very, very true.
My goodness! Six weeks?! I couldn't even last a day on my first day in Shanghai. I had no one to talk to so I decided to go to one of those phone booth stands on the street and attempt to buy a phone card. Lol
Hi Monica, I love this line:
“Is this the norm? Should I follow the norm? Why should I follow the norm?”
I'm happy I'm not sacrificing my life for the norms anymore, even though many of my family and friends as if demanding me to do so.
To graduate, buy a house, settle down, have kids, and the list go on.
Some people even throw pity at me of not having the “normal life”, they keep asking me how jealous I am to their babies and house. I'm not quite sure how to response to these things.
Do you sometimes feel like that too?
This is really interesting, Monica. In Europe, the idea we have about Bronx comes from the US movies iconography: poverty, violence, drugs, etc. But I heard that things are a little changing (or so it seems) and your post seems to confirm that Bronx still remains a dangerous place but is slowly also becoming a district at least partially open to visitors to admire lovely spots.
I believe this is a great step and I hope that over time this will be positive especially for children born and grown in Bronx. A little sign of hope…
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Hahahha, unfortunately Ryan (my husband) go without bag at all most of the time, so I carry it myself
But yeah, so worth it. I bring small bottle usually, and refill that frequently
I can't tell you what the difference is because I've only traveled with a buddy once, and it was only for a week (and it was my boyfriend, which also makes it different). I rarely interact with other travelers I meet on the road, and instead I tend to prefer to chat with locals or just not chat at all. I'm oddly unbothered by not having anyone to talk to – while living in Korea, I once went 6 weeks without speaking to another English-speaker, but I didn't even notice it until one of the other foreigners on the island pointed out my absence.
Cannot wait to read this!!!!!!
Things I can't stand when I travel.
1) People who sleep late and waste a single minute of the new adventure.
2) People who seek to recreate home on the new adventure. You are on the adventure to see something new. You want the comforts of home, stay home.
3) People who travel and are RUDE to the locals. This is THEIR home. Shut the hell up and show them some respect.
4) People who can't find humor is the crazy moments in travel. I say it is not a trip until you have a story to tell.
I do love this post!
Haha! I hope your dreams come true one day…whether it's your photos or your face.
Thanks Kelsey! I always feel bad reading these magazines once and then tossing them aside to be recycled. I figured it would be nice to share it with some of my readers.
Wait, I meant for one of my images to make it onto the cover one day…
I LOOOVE National Geographic. My dream since I was a little girl has been to make it onto the cover one day.
I completely missed you posting this story at first. How is that possible?! Well I am glad I saw you RT it. WHAT AN AWESOME GROUP OF PHOTOGRAPHS…and no, I am not talking about mine. The image from Melanie, taken in Hawaii is my favorite I think but wow – as a collection this is just breathtaking. Sunset is already my favorite time of day but this just makes me more excited. Already, every week, I try to accumulate good sunset images to contribute on twitter to #SunsetSunday. Now I just want to RT this story every Sunday!
Thanks! It was really nice to have The Great Wall almost entirely to myself. I'm so glad I went during December. I'm definitely going back to climb another part of the wall again sometime in the future.
Haha, actually I am doing a Part II Sunrise edition. I haven't gotten as many photos for sunrises as I did for sunsets but that's probably because many people don't get up early enough to take them. Do you happen to have any sunrise photos?
Water is vital. In the beginning it holds you down because it's heavy but by the end of the day, I'm always grateful I lugged the water bottle around…well, it's more like my boyfriend lugs it around. Lol
Haha! I never thought of that. I did, however, once want to climb over an entire row of seats to snatch some fries from this toddler while everyone else on the flight was only served peanuts.
I've never traveled alone but sometimes I wonder how much more or less I'd learn about the place I'm visiting and about myself if I were to travel alone. I guess traveling alone forces you to interact with other people whether it's locals or other travelers since you don't have a travel buddy to lean on.
Sometimes I like my peace and quiet just to absorb everything around me when I travel but other times, it's nice when the other person can bring something to the table. Good thing my boyfriend always has something interesting to say.
I love this post, It makes me want to go through and check out what sunset photos I have available. The only downside if you do a 'Part II Sunrise' is that some of the amazing sunrises that I've seen is usually after a full night out which means I never have my camera handy.
I love this post, It makes me want to go through and check out what sunset photos I have available. The only downside if you do a 'Part II Sunrise' is that some of the amazing sunrises that I've seen is usually after a full night out which means I never have my camera handy.
Agreed. Since I'm generally a solo traveler, if I travel with someone else, I expect them to take the lead *sometimes*.
When I'm traveling with someone and they don't have ANY input into things at all, just following me like a stray dog. I don't mind taking the lead, but provide some thoughts or ideas of your own – otherwise, it just looks like you don't care and have no passion about what we're doing.
I really love that you're doing this. What a great way to avoid clutter!
Someone pulling out a banana mid-flight (or tuna sandwich, etc).
Hi Monica! I like your #3 secret about gliding down the great wall's slope and build a snowman there! I do love it too when a place is not busy by tourists. I went to Canadian rockies off season (on May, a month or 2 before the high season) and it was so great to see the natural beauty without many people there.
Hey, I'm participating in this blogtag program too, Wandering Earl tagged me. Here if you want to see it:
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I can't stand having no drinking water. I just feel so dried out, wilted, and cranky.
Your 4th thing that you can;t stand, the one in airplane situation, I never experience that but I think I will hate it too.
Everyone is asking for it so why not?! Sunrise it is! Send me your photos if you have any.
Thanks guys! Sounds like everyone is rooting for a part 2 sunrise. Do you guys have any photos you like'd to share?
Haha! Sunrise it is then! Let me know if you any photos to share.
Thanks so much, Dustin! I took that photo almost 2 years ago and it's still one of my favorites. Your photos are all amazing too… especially that Banks Peninsula one!
Love the post and all the photos, Monica. Thanks so much for including me! I definitely agree with everyone else… part 2: sunrises needs to be next!!
Hey Monica, that's a great idea! I will be checking on my photo collection, I hope I bring them with me! Definitely I'm interested to submit that to you. I'll let you know!
Hi Monica,
Great set of sunset photo's and stories. I love taking sunset photo's. A great subject.
Hi Monica, Thanks for including us among other super travelers. Stunning photos and stories.
NEXT: Sunrise?
Gracias dude! Working on the next Photo Friday Special. Stay tuned!
I've never been to NZ but judging from these photos I need to go ASAP!
LOL – me too! I can't get enough of it.
Haha…sure thing! Do you have any sunrise photos you want to be featured for the next Photo Friday Special?
I'm glad it sparked a fire.
Hey Dina! Thanks for visiting my blog. A lot of people enjoyed this week's Photo Friday Special. I think I might do one of sunrises. If you'd like you can submit your sunrise photos and I'll can feature it on my blog.
Your sunset from Banks Penninsula, New Zealand is one of my favs. I wish I could paint it.
Brianne shot my fave. The Mt. Arbel Israel image is fantastic!
Hi Monica and friends who took the pictures, great collection of sunset pictures! I love to take sunset pictures too. When the moment is right, I could take tens of photograph, from when the sun is still full, to the color feast after the sun is gone. I even took some from airplane as well, above Bali.
I would love to make sunrise pictures as well, just unfortunately I'm a late riser. So my sunrise collection is very small, with the sunrise from Fuji mountain being the best one.
Thanks for reminding my why I need to start planning out my life
Holy balls, what a post! Part 2, sunrises..?
I'm in love with sunsets! Just made one my background.
my fav is NZ cause it brings back great memories of watching the sunset over endless landscapes
Beautiful photos!
Hi Monica, I'm excited to read this book too because I took a trip with my two best friends as well. I am actually getting a copy soon to review for my travel book blog on Wanderlust and Lipstick.
Haha! Thanks, I'm just telling it like it is.
I can't wait to share it with you all!
Thanks for the awesome tip Adriana! Hopefully I'll ace it the first time and won't have to spend another $250 to take it again.
I'm so envious!!
Can't help too much on this one but looking forward to hearing about your trip there
Thanks for including my blog, First-Time Travels!
Monica you're too funny… I love your disclaimer: “Please note that the winner of the National Geographic magazine will only be selected from within the US because I’m too poor to mail it internationally.” Have fun entertaining all your new fans and followers
wow! so inspiring!
love the picture! wow, Honduras, sounds exciting!
I studied for the GMAT a few years ago… google a documento called GMAT Secrets, it gives you good tips. Good luck!
I know! I can't wait! May 22nd isn't coming fast enough.
I found the tickets on Kayak.com. It was incredibly cheap so my friend and I immediately jumped on it. I originally planned to go to Barcelona but tickets were almost $700.
I didn't know there was a couchsurfing community! That's awesome! I'll definitely check it out. Any info about Honduras would be extremely useful. Thanks for the tip!
I've heard one too many horror stories about children being kidnapped to beg for money. I've even heard kidnappers who purposely disable the children, ie chopping off limbs, in order to make them look more pitiful. It breaks my heart and infuriates me at the same time.
I used to give money in the states….until i saw this guy i gave money to go around to the back of a building and drive away in a Cadillac. In China…begging and peddling by children is a HUGE industry. I only give to cripples and sometimes little children. I don't deceive myself in to thinking that any of it's going to actually go to the child because it won't. In the cities, alot of the kids are kidnapped/abducted and forced in to this kind of living. The only reason i give to those kids is because sometimes, if they don't get enough, their handlers won't even feed them or will beat them.
You're going to have so much fun!!
Thanks guys!
I guess my main point was that you should embrace the fun and organization and structure that you find when you pick the path the well worn path.
And to be completely honest, I was envisioning the greatness that is European hostel bars as I wrote this!
How did you get tickets for $280? Who do you use? That is fantastic! Also, you can check out the Couchsurfing community for the Honduras information. I'm signed up, even if it is only to take people out for drinks and coffee when in Austin.
Wow, that is a long day! I can't complain I'm in by 8 but out by 5 and I didn't have to take the gmat to get accepted into grad school. Good luck and try not to burn out, hopefully Honduras get's you refreshed.
We mix it up. We have been on and off the beaten path and we love them both. I think that people worry too much about labels. Travel is about going someplace that you have always wanted to go, not what others consider harder work or more remote destinations. We are heading to France next month and I can't wait to rent a car, drive on the highway, sit in cafes and be a part of society. At the same time, I loved being away from in all caming in the desert of the Sudan.
Good for you for embracing both ways of traveling.
Gorgeous shot. As LadyWanderlust says, it is incredible given when they were made…
I know! I wish I could have brought it home with me. It' just 'wow'!
I know! I wish I could have brought it home with me. It' just 'wow'!
Sounds like a really good read. Thanks for the review.
I agree with you, Monica. It's really amazing how the colors maintained so vivid! Awesome objects…
Can you imagine the time and dedication it took then…no “technology”. The detail is amazing!
Yay! Can't wait to see you there!
Haha! We'll see how well I handle the crowd. I've ever bartended before. Will you be able to make it to NYC for the event? Would love to meet you in person.
Will definitely try to attend, I love beers and I love supporting non-profits! Hope to see you soon
Damn, loves a good event to justify my drinking habits! Good luck Monica, I'm always in awe of bartenders who have the patience to deal with rowdy drunks.
Hahahaha no Trisha, honest, underneath all this red hair there's actually a blonde! And that same man actually swept me off my feet for two weeks. Sigh. But that's a different story.
Chris, I really wish I knew when I'll be in France so I could meet up with you and Gerard.
Christine, you're 100% right, but I really did love Paris too.
Haha! That's so cute! My family, except for my dad, calls me Moca instead of Monica. When I used to teach Pre-K, my students couldn't say Ms. Monica so they'd called me Ms. Moca instead. The name stuck.
Of course she is! Instead of being Aunt or Auntie, we are both “Pootie” a name created by my oldest son. Pootie = Aunt(ie). She is Pootie Pants and I am Pootie Pie, both terms of endearment. I refer to her as Sister Pootie or Pootie Sister on my blog and so it is just a habit I suppose! LOL
PS (she can be “pootie”, but don't tell her I said that!).
Haha…with your Pootie Sister? Is she okay with you calling her that?
I'm not sure how tall it is. All I know is that I've never seen colors so rich before.
I wish you could make it too! It would be so nice to meet you in person. Well, if you're ever in NYC you know who to look for.
Awesome! Would be so great if you could be there. I'd love to meet my fellow travel bloggers in real life.
Haha! I'll see if I can find someone to snap a photo of me looking like an idiot behind the bar. I honestly will have NO idea what I'm doing. I've never bartended before. Lol
Thanks Kirsten! I wish you were able to make it too. You can make a donation here: https://www.fxb.org/GettingInvolved/global.html. Hope you have fun in Key West.
Hi Monica – Scott is right, most of these tips are innacurate – it would be good to read that Snopes page he linked to and revise this post – I hate to think that someone might rely on tips in an emergency situation that don't really work, or apply to their model of phone.
LadyWanderlust's friend's use of her phone is very smart and is a great tip to pass around. There ARE ways that a cell phone can keep us safe, but the most important tip of all is to just not put yourself in the situation of being drunk in a strange place – even the “friends” you just met may not be trustworthy.
Candice I'm stunned that even with 'space issues' (which we all have to some degree) you'd pull back from an attractive blond boy with big brown eyes – sounds like a treat to me! And I'm still trying to picture you pouring sour cream into a glass and not thinking “hmmm….something's wrong with this picture”….c'mon, admit it – you drink straight from the carton, don'cha? Yep, that's what I'm guessing!
LOL
Monica, that's really fabulous! I wish I could come, cause I would love to meet you as a bartender and to support such a fantastic cause. So far, unlikely to cross the ocean toward NYC in the short term but… who knows!
I'll try to make it there. I'll let you know!
OI!!! what are you saying about me Monica
I so wish I was there to see you in action behind the bar, would be so so cool. I want at least one photo of you behind the bar mixing the drinks ala Tom Cruise in Cocktail.
I've got no problems with a cheek kiss from a gal but the guys are going to take a bit of getting used too. Lucky I'm only passing through France and not stopping for awhile, so it won't be awkward for too long.
Wish I could be there! What a fun way to support a good cause. I'll be in Key West that day on my way to shooting a wedding the next. I'll toast that night to your cause and let me know how to send a donation.
One of my dreams is to go to Tibet with my Pootie Sister. Amazing shot. Thank you for sharing.
That monument is very pretty. How high is it?
The cheek kiss definitely takes some getting used to–in the South, it's two for strangers and three for people you know well and maybe even four if you haven't seen someone in a long time! I never know when to stop. Plus, the small towns in France are when you really experience FRANCE. Paris=amazing, but not really French. What a great experience!
Thanks for your comments folks! I'd do things a lot differently now if I were there. I mean come on, I was given a furnished BEACH APARTMENT in the middle of a seaside town. Ridiculous.
And SIX cheek kisses?! Dear god. That sounds painful.
6?! I think I might lose count and just keep going and going and going. Haha!
Lol I think someone needs to make a video tutorial on “How To Kiss In Europe.”
I get very self-conscious about my pronunciations when I'm trying to speak another language and the only I think I drank out of a carton or can is whipped cream.
Haha – that must have been so awkward. Did you ever accidentally kiss someone on the lip because you went the wrong way?
I was lucky. I lived with a family in France for 5 weeks after high school graduation. I love it. TOTAL immersion. I was not shy about speaking French. I debated issues such as teen pregnancy and why the united states is really a confederation and not a true republic. I used my dictionary and faked my way the rest of the way.
BTW, the bissou, the kiss, is still one of the best things…unless it's from a creepy old man trying to get fresh with you!
Great post.
PS the number of kisses depends on the region you are in. Traditionally it is two or three. But in some places it can be up to SIX!
Haha I never get the kiss on cheek thing right! Either I begin on the wrong side or I kiss too many or too few times… whatever it is, I always feel clumsy…
I STILL get shy having conversations in other languages. I need to get over it already, but it's my one sticking point!! I make a mess with the whole sour cream in a pouch thing here, but at least I didn't drink it. I'll never complain again! Great anecdotes, Candice!
The cheek kiss still is an issue for me, I can never remember which side first and I always go the wrong way.
Yea, I get a little uncomfortable when someone gets closer than a 3 feet radius. Haha but I also think it's a cultural thing. In many places around the world, there is no concept of personal space. Sometimes I carry big bags to use as a barrier. Even in NYC. Lol
Haha, thanks Adam. Yea, that lamp does absolutely nothing for me. My vision has gotten so much worse since I started working there full time. I have to wear glasses now when I look at the screen. It's pretty awful.
First off, I can't believe how dark your office space is. That's terrible!
Second, this was an awesome post.
It's like torrenting, old-school style!
Love to join, but I won't have an address soon!
I remember feeling a little overwhelmed in Marrakesh with so many people trying to sell things, constantly invading my personal space, so I would walk around holding my boyfriend´s arm firmly, so that was a bit of challenge on the first couple of days, specially when someone offered a snake and held it way closer to me than what I would like.
I got used to it and embraced it, and started to photograph it all! 
Thanks dude! Glad you enjoyed it. I really do hope it'll pay off in the end. Just wish that end would come a little bit sooner lol.
Confucius once said: “Find a job you love and you'll never work a day in your life.” That's what I'm going for.
*clap clap clap* Awesome post! Amazing how you put everything into perspective with this half a page post. Continue moving forward though, remember it will all pay off eventually, right?
Do what you love so you can love what you do!
GREAT idea Monica…I have plenty of subscriptions too and think I might start doing this too! I sure wouldn't mind getting my hands on that March issue
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You know there's a place in my heart for Vegemite, but do not mess with my coconuts. Dude, you won't win. Why can't I adore both?
Totally agree. I think the only reason I can still find time to volunteer and study for GMAT, even with a 50 hour work week, is because those are things I'm passionate about. I make time for it but it is frustrating sometimes to spend 50 hours working on things that you aren't passionate about.
There is always 'enough' time. The REAL question is always is there enough motivation and passion behind it. If there is you'll always find time to do it.
Okay, I love this idea Monica. Very original!
Like they say, easy come easy go.
Thanks Joya. I just wish my full time job didn't take up as much time so I can have more time to dedicate to things I'm actually passionate about.
Excellent quote. Reminds us that good things don't come easily.
Hi Monica, I love this quote. I have a full-time day job too and find it hard to work on the blog and do all the other little things that life requires but I'll remember this quote from now on. You should be proud of all the things you are doing!
#1 – It was too much work to capture the screen every hour. Plus, I would probably forget most of the time and this post would have taken months to produce.
#2 – Haha! I can multitask while I'm on Tweetdeck. It makes me even more productive. Lol
Lol, I love my pillow covers too.
Haha I do! I think I need to come to Australia! It would be a pretty good reason to travel. “Sorry boss, I need to take 2 weeks off to get some Vitamin D.”
Haha! Damn Facebook & Youtube. Without them I might have invented a cure for AIDS.
Tell me about it! I was still trying to master making a round ball with Play Dough at age 5.
Haha! Well, whenever you feel like complaining, just call on me and I'll keep it real for you.
Aww…that means a lot to know that I'm not wasting my life away even though I have a 9-7.
Thanks Lisa.
Well, in our defense, none of those people had Facebook. I can just imagine Thomas Edison getting so caught up watching YouTube that the lightbulb would never have been invented. Wait, what?
Two things I noticed:
#1 – no wonder you're so busy, your work computer screen didn't change at all throughout the day. You really need to work on your productivity.
#2 – I love that Tweetdeck is in the reflection on your phone. Kind of underscores the multi-tasking point
…and to think Einstein came up with his inspiration at age 5. Man, we're slacking!
Remind me to never complain about having no time again. Your my dear are Wonder Woman
Oh and i so love your pillow covers
Monica you need more Vitamin D in your work period
Right we need to fix this problem ASAP. It's time you got some real spread for your toast… Vegemite
In your defense, all of those people dedicated their entire lives, their very souls, into the one thing with which they are most associated. But in all the craziness of your life, you still have managed to touch the lives of many people, me being one of them.
Haha…it was freezing and that was a pretty delicious lunch. Unfortunately, it doesn't make the 10 hour work day any better.
Monica, looks like it's freezing cold and there's a lot of work straining in front of the computer, however, that lunch looks pretty delicious!
No! I don't want to be a monkey and I definitely don't want to be trapped. I booked round trip tickets to Honduras for only $280USD!
Oh, I’ve got the office butt chair. That’s why I try to do yoga at least 2x a week. You know they say that if you sit for more than 4 hours at a time, you increase your risk for heart disease. Just FYI.
Hahaha, I laughed while scrolling up through my reader and the “Work” images kept going and going. Your day feels a little like mine, except I break for the gym instead of GMAT because I’m afraid of office-chair butt.
We are all trapped like monkeys behind a PC screen, it is sad, but true!
Of course! How do you think I can stand staring at it for 50 hours a week.
Haha! Well, at least your not alone.
I don't plan on doing this for the rest of my life though. What do you do for work?
Yea, I'll be going for my masters Fall 2011. Hopefully. I'm studying for my GMAT now and hoping to take it relatively soon. What did you get your masters in? I'm going for marketing/communications. Any recommendations for a good program? Berkeley is my dream school right now. I'd love to go to school and live in SF.
That's quite a scenic view of your desk.
@Marta – LOL. I'm probably eating a substance deemed unholy, but I can't help it!
coconut jam?? that's new to me, great post!
Your day looks all too similar to mine.
See, the GMAT sticks out at me. It also tells me you've got some more school in your future. I went back a few years ago full time and got mine. Feel free to ask questions if you're ever looking to pick another brain.
Aw man! What a bust! Thanks for letting me know Scott. I will look into it and make edits to this blog post later today.
I hate to break it to you, but most of the information here is incorrect.
1) The IMEI block is rarely used – no US operators do it, and AFAIK only some of the UK based ones actually add the IMEI to their database to be blocked. What you need to do is call your operator and have your SIM card blocked. If you enabled a sim change pin, you may be able to protect your phone and make it unusable to the thief, but in most cases those protections can be disabled by smart thieves.
Also, the blacklists used in Europe are not shared with US operators, so the whole concept of an IMEI block is useless for most people.
2) That code designed to magically boost your battery life is a code for old nokia phones (back in the late 90's) that enabled a different voice “codec”. The code actually decreased battery life on those models, and it does nothing on any current phone, even recent models from Nokia.
Most of those tips come from chain mails that have been making the rounds for almost a decade, and Snopes has more on them:
http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/household/cellpho...
Thanks hon. It dawned on me that boogers aren't anything but green, just had to write the colour for emphasis.
I had more jam this morning – yum!
Anil, you know all about marketing placement. It's all psychology.
Hahaha Jeannie, such a great post. Hooray for green boogers!
Hilarious title
Thanks for having me Monica. This was fun! Just remember y'all, your choice of fruit can reflect your travel personality…
NOT.
The angel looks like it is descending from the heavens. Gorgeous shot. Nice to just get lost in Madrid
As always, love the picture and the story you have to tell with it.
LOL. My sister does marketing for a place in Vancouver called Cristal Cliniq. Family discount of 30% off. So in my head, that's the best place – cheap.
No problem at all. Love to help any way I can. I'll be frequenting your blog to stay up to date on your goals. Good luck with everything and please take care!
Haha…I've only been to SF and Seattle. The west coast doesn't seem to be that bad. I've been to DC before but I don't think I've been to the Chinatown there. There are just too many choices to choose from. But you're right, I should focus on one thing at a time. GMAT first and everything else will fall in place. Good advice Darrick.
Love it Monica. Like an angel coming down from heaven.
Thanks Ayngelina! It took me a few takes to get it right. I wanted it to look like as if the angel was hover above the building. This is one of my favorite photos from Madrid.
Thanks Ciki! That's what I was aiming for. I had to take the photo with my eyes closed because the sun was too bright but I finally got the right shot.
Thanks for posting this Monica! What a lovely site, and we sure appreciate your help in getting the world about the rally out there!
I love the flare on the angel, it's a great shot
great shot! the angel seems almost to be glowing. you totally nailed it:)
Georgetown or GWU would be good choices. You would like the city, not the Chinatown, but everythign else in the nations capital… plus i could show u the handful of good places to eat…
Wharton is a good school, but there's nothing else out there. and of course cali schools are good too, but then, you'd be on the wrong coast… :-p you'd be on the left coast, cuz we kno the right coast is the east coast which is the best coast. :-p
Arizona is nice too, dry heat, no humidity…
But one focus at a time. Ace your GMATS and you can go where ever you want.
I looked at going for a Masters in Linguistics, but then I got a new job so now I'm working on some IT certs… for the challenge and fun of learning and to add useless letters to my business card :-p I'll get the masters when things slow down…
I'm looking into DC because of all the non-profits that are located there. I'll look into Emory as well. There are so many options, I don't even know where to begin.
According to a Matador article, grad school is still free in Sweden. But the living standard there is so high. I might end up paying the same amount if I had went to grad school in the US.
Where is the best place to get Botox?
I've never thought of that. That's a great idea! I have plenty of magazines I can donate to the library in my neighborhood. Thanks for the great tip!
Well I don't know about the schools specifically but DC is a great place to go to school. Lots of young people and stuff is always going on.
I also know that my alma mater Emory also has a really good business school.
Hmm…I should keep some. I’m a few months behind on my passion board. Lol
Great idea!
I have such anxiety over the environmental impact of ordering magazines but I've come to terms with it as I now donate them to the library after I've read them. In Toronto they'll take them if they're under 12 months old. I have to imagine that they'd take any Nat Geo of any age
I keep all my old National Geographics and then use the pictures for various craft projects. Even when I was a little kid I liked to go through my parents subscription and cut out the pictures of places I wanted to go someday. Ahh nostalgia.
When I was considering re-schooling, doing it abroad became an option. I've heard Sweden *use* to offer free schooling to foreigners, could still be the case for MBA's? I agree with Elke on this. Otherwise, I have no advice to offer except best places to get botox (at my age) and how to avoid injuring yourself yet again.
Perhaps one is by economic choice and the other by economic pressure?
My friend uses her cell phone on blind dates to take a picture of the guy's car and license plate tags IN FRONT of the guy and emails the image to her friends. She turns to him and says, that way my family and friends know who I am with and what he's driving. Pretty smart, huh?
Wow, I'm impressed I had no idea about any of these options . There are many times I needed the extra battery. Although I did lose my phone once and all I had to do was give them my phone number to disable outgoing calls.
It's very interesting how we can still see discrimination in words. Do you have any more examples? I'm actually very curious to see what other terms there are that connotate prejudice.
Thanks Erica! If I get accepted into Berkeley you can come visit me in SF!
You could not be anymore right! Eye-opening! Also, as a teacher, we have discussed a loud group of student congregating in a hallway is a group of loud students; for students “color color” it is called a gang. We still have a long way to go to have equality and untainted points of view.
lol I second that, “Crap Style Sheet.” It's a pain but if you learn it then you end up having a better quality. A perfect example is A Pair Of Panties and Boxers Facebook Fanpage
I'm not exactly a coding pro, I can do a little html and C++ or visual basics but I'm at a loss for CSS. I think the fact I want to learn it though encourages my nerdy side.
UC Berkeley sounds like a great first choice. I haven't visited SF myself (yet!) but I can imagine that it would be awesome to live there. As for your 2nd and 3rd choices, not easy to say as I have no first-hand experience of any of these schools. Hope everything turns out for the best!
Uh-oh…I can't tell if that's a bad thing or a good thing.
I don't even know where to begin with this one…
That’s really food for thought. I’m amazed how only a few words can be provocative. Lots of talking about fighting racism and defending equal rights. The truth is that words can unveil the hyprocrisy that is still widespread. And the distinction between ‘expats’ and ‘immigrants’ is a great example…
I have thought about getting a master's in publishing or creative writing but have not actively researched it. I would love to go to school abroad in Paris because it's a dream of mine to live there and become fluent. I have been working for the past year and a half like you and I think I need a change soon so I'm going to see how things go this year with my writing and my full-time job.
Yea, from the looks of it I might just nix Minnesota from my list. Don't want to be hibernating 9 months of the year. I actually really LOVE SF. I visited before and it's just such a charming city. I definitely wouldn't mind living there for 2 years. Plus, Berkeley is my dream school so it makes perfect sense. They have a great international studies program too which I will certainly take advantage of if I get accepted.
I got a full 4-year scholarship for my undergrad so I don't have any student loans to pay off. Grad school on the other hand will be another story. I will have to look into international MBA programs though. There are just so many options!
I'm with Magicant and was surprised to see Minnesota on the list. As a traveler I think you would be happier in a place like DC, Seattle or San Fran due to a likely larger mix of worldly people coming through. ultimately I would agree with Elke and say, explore international programs. Wherever your future job leads you having a degree form a foreign university is sure to at least have people stop and take a double look over your resume. My current job offers me tuition remission so I'm stuck where I'm at but i don't have to worry about paying for it so it all balances out. Now if only those pesky undergrad loans would disappear.
Thanks for the encouraging words Joya. I hope my hard work pays off. I love SF too. That's one of the reasons why Berkeley is my dream school. It would so great if I were able to get my MBA there. Plus, they have a fantastic international studies program which I will surely take advantage of if I make it there. Are you planning to get your master's too?
I love SF too. That's one of the reasons why Berkeley is my dream school. I was totally smittened when I visited a few years ago. Plus, UC Berkeley has a great international studies program. I really want to take advantage of that and study abroad again.
Yea…maybe not so much Minnesota. I like the sun too much. Vitamin D makes me happy.
I’m getting my MBA because I like to be challenge. I get bored easily and I constantly have the need to learn. If not, I feel useless like I’m wasting my life away. That's one of the reasons I love to travel so much. Everytime I'm out on the road, I'm learning all the time.
I’d love to work for a non-profit one day too. I guess we’ll have to see where my MBA takes me.
I definitely will! Thanks Elke! Going to read through your blog sometime today. Any post you recommend me reading to get me started with my MBA?
well i know my school costs 5000€ or something for foreigners (thats for one year), I estimate the books for the MBA will cost me about 300-500€ and I pay 300€ a month for my room (including electricity, internet, …), I pay 7€ for food daily (i dont go to restaurants but cook myself) and a beer is around 1,5-1,8 here in brussels. If you would need any more info, feel free to email me!
Really? I never thought studying abroad would be cheaper. I think I might have to do some more research. Thanks for the tip Elke! Now I'm getting all excited. Haha!
As a San Francisco native, I think you would love it here but I also think Elke's suggestion of studying abroad is a good idea too. I have always thought about studying abroad for a masters so that I could travel at the same time too. Whichever school you decide, your resume is great and I think you'll do well whatever happens! What's supposed to happen will happen. Corny but true.
I think San Francisco is so lovely and great location to explore the West Coast. Have you though of University of Texas in Austin? I am biased I am sure, but UT is a fabulous school and Austin has so much to offer. Minnesota? Are you crazy? It's too cold to even think, let alone study!
Good luck. Just follow your heart…and maybe the GMAT scores.
Minnesota? The Golden Gophers? Booooo!!!! Try a warmer climate.
Sincerely,
Faithful University of Wisconsin Badger
Out of curiosity – why do you feel the need to go to grad school?
Does it have to be in the USA? I'm going to participate in an english MBA program here in Brussels next year. The girl who lives next door to me is an American doing the program right now, and she doesnt have any study loans either, partly because she's been studying abroad all along which is way cheaper than in the USA!
I know of a similar program in Deggendorf, near Munich and I'm sure there are many others. It's a great opportunity to combine with your travel passion too off course!
Alright, the Prince story. My boss at the time was permanently thrust into the 90's. Not how fashion is reworked these days, but bonafide old school. She had the biggest crush on Prince, maybe cause they looked eerily similar. We were at a bar in d/t Minneapolis when she had the idea to storm Paisley Park at midnight. The rumor mill was that Prince gave moonlight concerts to rabid fans camped outside his door. Then we got drunk and forgot about it. Or she did, I don't remember drinking much in those days.
Funny, I just saw Up in the Air this past weekend. I think the ending was majorly open-ended. He took a chance on something, but ended up disappointed. I'm betting his character actually changed dramatically from that incident and won't even view travel the same, which was superior throughout the movie. I'd say Ryan got a little humble and human. Hey, just sayin'.
Sorry this tale is so late!
That is what I have been telling you all along Mon, business travels are not proper travels! All my trips are basically meeting, dinner, sleep, meeting, dinner, sleep…
Woohoo! I can't wait till you get here.
That's my favorite part too. I actually couldn't see at all when I took this picture. It was literally a blind shot but I'm so glad it came how well.
That is true. I have a friend who just moved down to Brazil. He's not self-employed but he's planning to freelance from there so he'll some source of income. I need to find a skill that allows me to become location independent. That would be awesome!
While being self-employed doesn't help you with paperwork and whatnot you might need, it is another great way to live and work abroad. I can't imagine how much more difficult my life would be here in Italy if I wasn't self-employed.
The color is beautiful here and I love the pagoda in silhouette against the sky!
This just makes me even more excited to visit NYC!! Seems very classic from the stories I've heard and movies, etc. 5 (or 6) days and counting…
Thanks Lisa! I hope you get some well deserved rest during the upcoming Spring Break. Shoot – I wish I had a week off. What kind of photos would brighten your day? I'll try to dig it up for you in my small collection of travel pics.
That's kind of true. When I was in Shanghai, the only time I actually saw the sky was the day after a typhoon and I was there for about 5 months.
As always, I love your photos. They inspire me to go see the world. Just so you know, I am so behind in my blog reading. I just had to find enough strength to deal with the week before Spring Break. I am already starting to feel better.
Great photo.
I love unsets.. but I find sometimes in asian countries that the sun disappears in the 'pollution mist' before it actually sets, so you always seem to miss out on the best part..
Haha, this is really funny and oh so true!
Interesting legend and stunning photo.
Haha! Nice Joel!
Oh, I'll be sure to keep a sharp eye out.I usually make multiple copies of my passport & birth certificate and I slip them in my luggage, my carry on, my jacket, etc. But I usually keep the original on me. And I also carry a dummy wallet in case someone decides to get ballsy and try to rob me. Lol. I think I might be a little paranoid but better safe than sorry, right?
You may think this post is funny, but it's snot.
At the time, I thought I needed to have my passport on me at all times. Should have left it in the room. At the consulate, they have a chart of incidents by area – you need to be especially on guard at La Rambla (as you should be anywhere). I got stupid and careless in a crowd of people there.
Thanks! I'm glad you like it! Hope you come back for more.
I think it's experiences like the one you've had that reminds us that too many people live in a bubble and those who don't get out of that bubble are living a lie. The world isn't what it seems to be because everything is filtered through the media.
Wow – it gets that hot in Tahiti that early?! How did you manage to survive the rest of the day?
I've been dreaming to go to Barcelona since I can remember. When I go, I'll be sure to watch out for pickpocketers. How did you get your passport stolen? Did you carry it around with you or did you leave it in your hotel room?
You make my challenges sound so inferior. Haha! I haven't seen poverty like Cambodia but I can only imagine how much it would tug at my heartstrings. I cry just watching it on the screen. How did you deal with that?
I never knew how isolated it can feel when you lose the ability to communicate. Now I can related to immigrants who come to the US for a better life.
Haha! I can't say I feel the same. I grew up in a house with weird animal parts. Have you ever had water beetles?
Totally agree! If it wasn't for my study abroad program I don't think I would have unleashed the wanderluster in me.
I can totally see how your employer would be such a downer on your experience abroad. I feel the same way about my study abroad program. Everything else that wasn't related to my study abroad program was fantastic.
such great title for a blog…
Emotionally: Anahuac, a small town in Chihuahua, Mexico. We went on a volunteer trip, met some amazing locals who founded a coop for people to work off their food bills. Brought in (smuggled, technically) medical supplies. And helped out at an orphanage. Horrible stories of their origins. 3 of the kids there came after their mother was bloodily murdered by a jealous boyfriend in front of the 7 year old daughter who was then raped. We all shuddered, but it was one faceless story in a long line of them. After several days I had bonded with one of the sweetest little orphans, and she wrote my name in chalk all over the playground and I snuck her some handcreme for her cracked little hands. We were all playing games one evening in the activity room and a balloon she was holding popped. The girl just curled into a ball and wailed. The staff rushed her off and said it happens sometimes. At that moment it was explained that the anecdote about the little girl was about my new little friend. We returned to town and I sobbed in the dark of the bus the whole way back. God, even just typing this again makes me sick. What a world.
Kevin
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i'll bookmark this one…
This will sound wierd to anyone who pines to go to Tahiti but that place was my biggest challenge. I was on a kayaking trip and by 8am it was so frigging hot we had to jump repeatedly into the ocean to try and cool off. We were wearing light coloued long sleeved pants and shirts to prevent worsening of our burns – which were severe, even with zinc as protection. That trip couldn't end soon enough for me though our friends loved it.
Physically – as much as I've struggled (riding a heavy bike up the Col de l'Aubisque or riding double centuries), I don't think anything compares to just living in Wisconsin for my formative years. The snow & the cold provided challenges every day for someone who prefers the tropics and summertime.
Emotionally & intellectually – travel has always been stimulating for me on both fronts. It gets me out and challenges me, which is invigorating even when during times of difficulty and frustration (eg. passport stolen in Barcelona).
Logistically – Japan was the toughest to deal with. Language and culture are definitely very difficult to someone from the US who hasn't the time to fully learn and adjust to them.
Great question! We were just talking about this the other day. We think the Red Centre was the most physically challenging because it is blisteringly hot in the day, freezing cold at night, and the hikes are really tough.
So far, I think the most emotionally challenging place we have been to is Cambodia because the people there have lived through so much and are still incredible people. I can't think of an intellectually challenging place either, but I am sure I will find one sometime.
I'm apparently being sent back again soon, yay! Doing it right this time…hooray for second chances!
Love it. And I totally understand the “overwhelming” feeling, especially with language barriers…
When I think of my travels to China, I think of 'culinary challenged.' I too hiked the great wall with artic wind and slippery snow, but that was no match for the chicken feet in my soup that warmed me up afterwards. Or in Shanghai, when I was quite surprised by the 'drunken shrimp' – a true delicacy my friend told me. But what she left out was the fact they arrive alive. Ah, Chinese Food – a true adventure (and challenge).
Stay Adventurous
Craig
Terrific question! The answers are fascinating too. I was signed up to do a study abroad program my last semester in college. For many reasons – the trip fell through and I wasn't able to go. It is one of the very few regrets I have in life. So despite the hardships you encountered, I think it is so wonderful that you did complete the study abroad program in Asia. It is the kind of opportunity that not every one gets and yet, in a way – everyone should.
I could do this with pretty much any of my photographs. It took me quite awhile to choose them, because I wanted to show a variety of experiences, rather than just showcasing my best work (only one of the shots above is in my portfolio).
Physically I was most challenged by Switzerland. I thought I was in decent shape until I saw fellow travelers making it up mountains hours before I did. It was very humbling. It's still my favourite place though.
Emotionally I was most challenged by Korea. I lived there for a year and I had pretty terrible employers that made my life hell. I loved pretty much any part of my life that was unaffected by my job, but the stress of dealing with my employers left a pretty big black mark on my whole experience.
I didn't Photoshop this one but it's a program that I'd sure like to learn how to use. And maybe a new camera would help make for better photos like yours.
Great shots! I really like this idea – I know I have certain photos that stir up lots of memories!
Thank you! Not to sound like an art-shiller, but…all of my work is available as prints, if you like that image.
I absolutely love the Belgium picture!
Haha! I had thought that would be people's least favourite one. Glad to know you enjoyed it and the rest of them!
Interesting idea for a guest post! Loved the description of the lady in Quebec City.
As for having moved 28 times in only 8 years, sounds like a very exciting and eventful life!
I like the angle of the photo. And the sky looks magical – almost as if it's photoshopped.
Wow, this is a gorgeous photo! Nice job.
Woohoo! I can't wait to read it. Let me know when you think it will be ready. I'll make sure to post it ASAP.
Thanks! The inauguration was quite an adventure.
Beautiful!
Oh wow, what a sky! Gorgeous.
P.S. Hopefully working on a guest post for you this weekend.
Very beautiful image Monica!! Well done. And what an amazing memory to accompany it, to be in Washington for the inauguration.
Yea, I really really like the palette of it too. Everything about it seems to pop in it's own way and compliment each other at the same time. Hmm…I wonder if I could paint that.
Haha! I wish I was that skilled in PhotosShop.
I think if I'd be a horrible businesswoman in Italy. After I eat pasta, all I want to do is nap. Haha!
Absolutely LOVE the angle of the shot and the color palette. It's amazing how half the sky is this vibrant sky blue, but the other is heather gray….very striking.
Helloooo, how about sharing the Prince story??
I LOVED the ending of Up in the Air. Whole movie actually – it was so close to my life it was a little scary (including the family and wedding in northern Wisconsin).
The ending made me happy because it validated my choices (that's the way I took it, anyway).
That is indeed quite a photo! It almost looks like you took two shots at different times of day and fused them together.
so funny! likely for me on the few business trips that I made I always went to Italy, my home country, and manage to have some great holidays while doing business over a great meal and spending most of the day sightseeing
Guilty too. I've had KFC in China. Lol.
This was so cute. LOVE the DD reference. Although I rarely traveled overseas when I worked in an office, I'm definitely guilty of stopping at Starbucks when I'm outside of Italy!
I think a poll concerning Up in the Air would be *fascinating*!!
You can thank Joel for his fantastic writing. I'm sure you're not the only one who felt that way about Up In The Air. We should do a poll and see how the travel community felt. That would be interesting.
Haha! The subway here isn't really much to see. Of all the train systems I've taken, I would honestly have to say that NYC is the worst of them all. That's because NYC also has one of the oldest subway transit systems too. Pretty rotten if you ask me.
Hmm…I'm getting hungry just thinking about it. Southeast Asian food definitely has a palette of its own. Very different from Italian although I do LOVE pasta.
Me too! It's kind of addictive. When I start it, I don't stop till I get it to look the way I want it to.
This was a fabulous post – happy to say I am only guilty of one of them! I thought the ending of Up In The Air was mildly happy. Long story.
Also, the taxis are cool in London but that is far from the only thing I noticed or experienced while there. So I feel ok.
This was a great idea for a post. Loved it!!
I've gone to New York a few times for work and while I liked how I was able to go and see whatever I wanted. I always too taxis because I could expense them and never saw the subway. I regret that.
Hehe, love number 6 about eating at an Italian restaurant in Singapore. I'm sure it's good, but you got to eat the local stunning food of Singapore including the likes of Indian, Malay, and Chinese mixtures.
I did the exact same thing and got the same benefits. I want to work abroad again, maybe Paris this time and I always keep my ears and eyes open for opportunities to work abroad.
I may be considered geeky but I love working on my travel blog. I can't help it! However, I don't know that much about how to improve the design and such but I'm improving.
Oh those lovely British pounds. I could certainly use some of that right now. Lol. I think it's awesome how you took the opportunity of everything that came your way and turned it into your advantage. You own life!
Haha! Aww…you've got a nurturing soul. That's why.
I get the same feeling too when I leave a place I just visited. It sucks to you know that you were right there and totally missed out on a an event.
Oh man! That's definitely a lesson to be learned. Are you planning to go back to France again?
I've never had the opportunity to travel for business but you make it sound like it's a good thing that I don't. Lol
What ever happened to school trips? And it's more expensive to travel during the summer than any other time.
Haha I can relate with the Crap Style Sheet dilemma. I can't decipher it for the life of me. It's like trying to read Arabic.
I confess to not being a geek or nerdy. I love how technology helps my flowery, pretentious writing career, but CSS sometimes means Crap Style Sheet to me. I understand concepts, love research, and spinning opinions, but tech stuff hits a plateau in my brain. I concur, Shawn is a geek. Hey, I met him in person, I'm allowed to say it.
[Shawn is awesome btw].
Business travel is mostly unknown territory to me. The one or two times it happened, I saw quite a lot of San Fran (considering it was bizness) and almost crashed Prince's pad in Minneapolis. Enough about me. Hello! Magicant is a damn good writer. Why do I feel like a proud stage mother??
I struggle with the research question – part of me loves the act of exploring with no set list of things to see, but I do find that I miss out on things that I don't find out about until I've already left. I think that's one of the reasons I want to settle into a town for a month at a time and really take my time learning about everything within 100 miles over the course of my stay.
I really can't complain too much – in all honesty, I have gone places that I might not have seen otherwise, as brief and superficial as those trips may have been. As seems to be the theme of my writing this week, I blame myself for not pushing the boundaries more along the way!
Oh god, I love this. My biggest travel mistake ever was not spending more time researching the area I was in when my company went to France. Ended up totally lost and confused, wasted three days off sitting in my stupid apartment when the Loire Valley was nearby. Damn business travel.
I worked abroad in London for 6 months after graduation and it was the smartest decision I ever made. Not only did I have a ball and meet really important people in my life, after I was finished I was able to take my lovely British pounds and backpack around Europe for a summer. After I got home I was able to spin my experiences into viable work skills which helped me get my current job.
Ugh this is hitting home for me this month. I hate business travel. It's all the unpleasant things about travel (jet lag, flights, logistics) with none of the discovery and excitement that makes it worthwhile.
Thank God as a teacher I really don't have the opportunity to “travel for business” (or the school does not have the money to even think about sending me). Thankfully, I have the entire summer to also travel. But, LOL, funny list in a sad “American” filter kind of way.
Haha! Yea I think I need one of these rides at least once a week.
An experience and a ride you won't forget that fast…
Sounds great!
Very good point. The less transparent the government, the more shady things they're trying to hide.
Great kings of old can come together and immortalize their treaty so well. Yet our current leaders hide everything away behind closed doors. You can really see how trust and our way of lives has gone so wrong.
There is some great advice here! I know many people are very skeptical about volabroad programs, but if you do your research and set proper expectations for what you want to give and what you want to get out of it, it can be a wonderful experience for all parties.
While researching for my first volunteer program in Peru, I really thought out what was important to me and what I felt I could rightfully contribute to an organization. Intentions only get you so far – you need to be realistic about what it is you can bring to the table.
Another important aspect is to realize that by working side by side with members of the local community, you are participating in a wonderful cultural exchange.
Aww, thanks so much for the offer. I'll definitely remember that next time. I usually stay at the Doubletree Hotel near L'Enfant but will gladly trade that for a nice, cozy home.
Next time you're in DC, you're welcome to stay at our place for free.
I know for certain that I learn so much more by traveling than by sitting in a classroom. Maybe in a few centuries, people will look back and marvel at the way we use Twitter and Facebook. Lol
As idealistic as it sounds, I do too. I think most people wish for world peace. The only ones who don't are the ones who are making a profit from war. Many times these are the people at the top. I think that's one of the reasons what prevents us from coexisting amongst each other peacefully.
Beautiful photo. It's amazing that something so fragile can stand the test of time for us to see and learn from today. The coolest thing about traveling is exploring and finding things like this and learning about history through them. It makes you wonder just how much of what we do today will stand the test of time for future explorers and travelers to find and learn about.
A very cool piece of history. What I think of is that it's a wonder we still haven't found a way to live more peacefully today. Perhaps it was having been born to 2 hippies in Vermont…..but I really do wish for world peace. Cliche as it is.
Oh I definitely know what you mean. My 50 hour work week drains the life out of me. I feel like I'm not really living at all. Traveling makes me feel alive and reading travel blogs also motivates me keep going and not let work get in the way.
I hope you win that trip to Costa Rica. I've never been but I'm sure it would be such a fantastic experience. I'm not sure when I'll head to the travel show. It depends on how long it takes me to get out there. The snow is causing so much traffic delays. I would guesstimate around 2 or 3PM. I hope I see you there too!
Going to head over to your blog now…Ciao!
Awesome intro! Sounds a lot like myself and what I write about in my blog. I'm scared to leave my 9-5 bubble- except my job is actually retail- so it's 8-5 or 11-8 ot 1-10, and weekends! Yuck!
I'm new to this whole travel world (as you may have seen in my entry to win the costa rica contest), but reading these travel blogs gives me inspiration and motivation to keep going and to stay on top of traveling! (because we all know how easy it is to let money and work get in the way).
Hope I meet you at the travel show and looking forward to reading more from you!
I was there 2 years ago. Amazing isn't? Did you guys take pictures? Please share! I miss Shanghai a lot.
Haha! You didn't have to tell me that. I already knew you were brilliant!
The three I liked most are in the top three…in the same order I picked in my head. I am brilliant.
We were in Shanghai for New Years last year and the entire city was alight with fireworks! It was the most amazing thing I've ever see, great way to bring in the Chinese New Year.
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You caught the contest on the last day! I'll add this to the list and you'll be able to have your friends vote for you tomorrow!
Thanks Neha! I'm so glad to hear you're enjoying it here. Feel free to browse through my blog for posts on Istanbul. I was there last September during Ramadan and wrote a whole series about it. Let me know if you have trouble finding those posts.
Travel feeds the human spirit.
I just discovered your blog (yeah, sometimes I'm slow, like that) and already loving it! Turkey is really high up on my list, hopefully things fall into place sometime this year …
Thanks Adriana! I've never heard of Generacion Y but it does sound interesting. Especially because it's hard for many of us who haven't lived in Cuba or traveled to Cuba to know what really goes on than what the government and news media tell us.
I've heard of “Three Cups of Tea” and I've been meaning to get my hands on it to. Perhaps that will be my next read. Thanks for the rec!
Haha! Yea, I wanted one with a nice skyline view as well but then I left my box and saw that the world was a much better view.
Great book tip! and what an amazing story…
I recently finished (had 5 days off for carnaval here in Brazil) the book based on Yoani Sanchez´s blog Generacion Y (http://www.desdecuba.com/generaciony) about her life in Cuba. Yoani is a brave woman who last spoken out about the horrific reality of life in Cuba, the education system, the sanitation, the lack of freedom of speech, dirty hospitals, etc… She won a prize by Time magazine of one of the 100 most influential people in the world. It´s an eye opening book. Not sure if it´s selling where you live but search online if you are interested. Another great read is “Three Cups of Tea”.
Hi Monica, Thanks for the book suggestion. “Leaving Microsoft To Change The World” by John Wood sounds like a great read. As for the corner office, I used to want that too – preferably with a view over the Manhattan skyline. But “the world”, much better!
Oh…that's a good one. Thank goodness I don't have to pick one. The entire travel community will have their say.
I had a feeling you'd pick that one. It's my fav out of all of them as well.
Ok, well then choose the last one por favor…. “”You learn more on a RTW than a MBA.” Since its an original. Imagine having a winning quote as a writer….that's hot.
stay adventurous,
Craig
Great Idea Monica! Here's my little travel motto… Travel is its own world. It has its own people and it's own language. We're all citizens of the world, but few of us are citizens of Travel.
Yes, I love trying their food. Different cultures serve up foods that hit up a whole different palette. It wakes up my taste buds. Lol
Haha I'd be interested to know more too about my own heritage. There is still so much to learn. It never ends. The fastest way to learn us to go there. I think maybe you should make a trip out to Germany.
Welcome to my new site Lisa! I hope everything is working alright for you here. There are few kinks but I'm working to fix it.
I love to share because I can look back and pretend that I'm still there.
Traveling is a passion of mine. Seeing new places, cultures and trying new foods is very exciting to me!
I wish I was more connected to my German heritage…I mean I know we like to drink beer and eat potatoes, but that is about it. LOVE the image of the dragon. Thanks for sharing.
Love this shot. You, your words, and your pictures so make me want to go. Thanks for sharing as always.
Yeah, I saw that. Very interesting!
Yea, I had absolutely no idea there was such a thing. Someone previous comment on this blog too that there is also a diaspora of Chinese Jews in Shanghai too.
Yea, climbing The Great Wall is really a workout. I went toward the end of December and was gasping for air most of the time. Cold air is thinner and contains less oxygen. Or maybe my cardio is just really bad. I'm pretty sure it's the latter. Lol
Wow. That's really fascinating. I'm going to show this to a friend of mine who used to live in China and now teaches Chinese in DC.
I'd have to agree with #3! I went to China in November, and besides our group of 7 (which was a tour offered by our hostel) there were maybe 10 or so other tourist. Stunning, empty, and at about 40F it was the perfect weather. We worked up a sweat, but didn't overheat.
Thanks! If you've graduated from college already then I hope you saved your school ID. It really comes in handy. Some sites/attractions I've visited in China also gave you an admission discount if you have a student ID.
Great tips! going to bookmark the hostel negotiation bit. Really need to work on my bargaining skills.
Thanks! But I didn't take it. I can't remember where I found it though. We are getting a ton of snow in NYC. I hear there's going to be another snow storm Monday. Good thing snow makes me happy.
Haha! That's awesome! Visiting Istanbul is definitely worth the trip. I was there for an entire week and spent a total of $1270! That's including airfares too! Feel free to read up on my posts on Istanbul. I did an entire series on it.
What a great shot! I heard you guys in the US are getting all the snow. We get a bit of respite this year in Toronto, Canada
LOL!
I am DYING – like DYING – to go to Turkey! In fact, I am so dying that I dragged my whole family to several Middle Eastern and Turkish restaurants around my hometown here in Toronto.
Yes, I did see that movie. I think that's what finally made me say “We have go to Istanbul!” And we did. There was another movie that was filmed there also but I can't remember the title of it right now.
Have you seen the movie The International? A scene was filmed there in the courtyard and then the characters descend into Yerebatan Saray cistern which in the movie is under the mosque… um, yeah. And just around the corner from the Grand Bazaar. well, poetic license I guess!
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I absolutely agree with going abroad and taking 2 weeks between jobs. It's the only way you'll be able to have extended time to travel. If I could I would even take a month off to travel between jobs but then I would be pushing it.
Great post!!! I think everyone should work & live abroad at least once in their life. I also think everyone should take a 2 week vacation inbetween jobs
There are also free podcasts on itunes that discuss working and living abroad. The internet has made working abroad so much easier. It serves as one resource to communicate & keep in touch w/friends and employers. the internet also allows one to work from anywhere in the world. If one keeps their opportunities open, they can live and work anywhere.
Studying abroad or taking an internship abroad during college is also a great way to get started. Something every student should look into while they can.
I got 8 weeks for working in rural Korea. 4 weeks is standard in non-rural positions there.
He doesn't really care what it is. His undergraduate degree was a double major in history and sociology, and he has a masters in criminology, with a specialty in hate groups and domestic terrorism.
Me too! Countries abroad also give more vacation days to their employees unlike the US where we get 10 days. Bleh! I have a friend in Norway and she gets 5 weeks paid vacation days! Do you know how happy I would be if I had 5 weeks?!
Maybe Chris (@theaussienomad) can help you out with that.
What is your boyfriend interested in doing? I'm sure there are a lot of large NGOs that have multiple offices located throughout EU countries.
I really wish I thought about that before I started working at my current place full time. I won't have an opportunity to transfer either. I'm definitely going to be doing that in the future. I also want to take travel for a few months before I start grad school and I figured I should volunteer abroad with an NGO that has offices located in the city where I'll be going to grad school. It's even better if they have international offices. This way, when I get back from volunteering maybe they'll be nice enough to have me on full/part time.
What else is in the way for you?
My boyfriend is a US/French dual citizen and we keep trying to find him a job somewhere that has offices in an EU country, but it's proving very difficult. Congrats on finding one!
I'm a big fan of working abroad. It will not only provide you with capital for your later travels, but it will also really help you learn about the place you are and integrate better with the locals. Having a job integrates you into society almost automatically, and it will help you get out of the pattern of only hanging out with other expats.
Working abroad has been my ultimate goal for a while now. Hence my plan to move to Australia and find a job (doing the working holiday route along the way).
And Candice has a good idea to work for a big international company & try for internal transfers. Speaking from experience, this takes a lot of effort on your part and going through a lot of red tape.
Another good idea, if possible, is find employment with a company that has international offices. The company I work for is spread out around the world, and we're still a relatively small organization, so the opportunity for me to transfer for a little while is pretty good (unfortunately there's other things in my way, but you get the idea).
Hi Oliver!
Oh, I'm glad you specified – sorry. Yes, the Evan Esar one is probably my favorite one for this purpose!! Good taste Monica!
I like the one by Evan Esar. People stop living when they stop learning and traveling is the one thing that never fails to teach me something I never knew.
I should have specified earlier in the post but you can only submit one quote for the contest. Which one would you like to choose? If I don't hear back from by February 23, I'm going to pick my favorite.
Wow – I really like the last one: “You learn more on a RTW than a MBA”
Too bad you can only submit one quote for the contest. I guess I should have specified but hey, this is my first giveaway. Which quote would you like to submit? If I don't hear back from you by February 23, I'm going to pick one.
That's what family is for.
I saw that on Brook's site too. I think I'm going to try to get my hands on that one next. Can you send me the link to your review? Thanks! Would love to check it out.
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Aw glad things are looking up for you! A Map For Saturday is fantastic. Check out his newer one called One Day in Africa, we wrote a review on it at artofbackpacking as well.
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“一人吃饱，全家不饥” is my quote :p
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As a writer and a traveler I put this quote on the back on my business card, “the world is a book and those who do not travel read only a page” – Saint Augustine. On the front I put, “writing tales of travel and adventure to inspire you to take and make adventure in your life.” That's my own.
But apparently today on Twitter, in reference to “”Don't tell me how educated you are, tell me how much you traveled.” – Mohammed, I wrote “You learn more on a RTW than a MBA” Travel teaches and that is why I love it and inspire others to do it too…
stay adventurous,
Craig
Traveling is the means by which I learn. Not facts and figures or even statistics; but the truly important things like tolerance, appreciation, open-mindedness, beauty, adventure. Perhaps adventure most of all. It's hard to find adventure from an office cubicle or a couch and it's too important to not go after wholeheartedly. Traveling has also taught me to love people, in a way I never did before I made travel such a regular part of my life.
My favorite quotes that I call to mind when traveling or wanting to travel:
Life is a daring adventure, or nothing. ~Helen Keller
You can't do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth. -Evan Esar
Do not fear death, but rather the unlived life. You don't have to live forever. You just have to live. ~Tuck Everlasting
Oh that is wonderful! That is exactly how I feel sometimes. It's time to stop being jaded and start being curious about every little thing.
Keep reading Magicant! Read until you can't read no more.
Eating food is one of my favorite part of traveling. But then when I eat too much I want to nap and I end up wasting a whole day when I could have been exploring.
Thanks so much Alisha! Thanks for stopping by and for the RT as well. You guys are doing amazing work on the social media platform.
This is my first giveaway contest so I guess I should have specified that you are only allowed to submit one quote per person. Which one would you like to submit? If don't hear back from you by the commenting ends, I'm going to pick my fav.
It was so kind of him. Totally unexpected. But the travel community in general has been nothing but helpful and welcoming and generous. Travelers have a different outlook on life. They know what it's like to be a human being.
I know that feeling. Nothing beats sleeping in your own bed.
That is so true! When you live less you find more value in things that are less materialistic. The beach-bumming part is the cherry on top.
“To my mind, the greatest reward and luxury of travel is to be able to experience everyday things as if for the first time, to be in a position in which almost nothing is so familiar it is taken for granted.” – Bill Bryson
Life is a book. Once you reach the end, there is no more. You can't keep reading. You are done. But look. “Each stage in your life – going to high school, getting married, moving to a different city, having children, traveling to a new country – is a different chapter. Each chapter holds surprises, joys, and hardships. Look at it that way, and look forward to beginning that new chapter. You can never get on with the story if you don't keep reading.”
Jesse Adams
That pretty much sums up how I want to live my life at all times.
I love traveling because I get to discover new smells and tastes.
I'm loving your blog Monica!
My two quotes that inspire me to travel are:
“I wanna taste the breeze of every great city” – my favorite band, Say Anything
“I wanted to wander the world in a dirty seersucker suit, getting into trouble.” – my hero, Anthony Bourdain
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Seems like 2010 is your year! That's awesome that Brook Silva-Braga got in touch with you and even sent a DVD. That's nice, the travel community is full of the coolest and generally nicest people, that's what makes traveling around so rewarding!
“No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow. “
Read this by Lin Yutang . . . coming home after a trip, getting back to your old room. Makes you appreciate what you've just seen!
Travel for me is cutting old wood, living with less and getting more in return. Also it's a nice way of proofing the misanthrope in myself wrong, that there are in fact heaps of nice people around. Finally, cause of the beach-bumming part, definitely.
@ Shawn if you have to think about being a travel nerd vs a travel geek you probably rank as both. lol.
@Chris – Aussie Nomad I've always wanted to take my computer to a pub, hang out and write but I don't think anything productive would come of it. My attention towards the computer would eventually give out to a good beer.
@Adam hmmm 'for the win' I've always known it to stand for something else….
新年快乐！I'm glad I could save you from cleaning out all the good luck. It was also Valentine's Day today too. Our Mother's Day is in May. Unfortunately we don't have a holiday where everyone bakes buns stuffed with jam and ice cream. I think if we had that kind of holiday, Americans would be happier people. Lol!
And I was thinking of cleaning my flat, good thing I read your post, otherwise i would have swept ll my luck away. Thanks Mon!!
Happy new yeare!! Oh! by the way, in Norway, today is mother's day as well, AND another traditional norwegian thingie where they bake buns and stuff them with jam and whipped cream. dont ask me why, I am not Norwegian in that aspect
Haha! Yea, it's a little too nippy here to leave our doors open but cracking open a window will do. Thanks for visiting my blog. I hope you like what you find here.
thats really interesting . . . though my office is freezing so the door is staying shut!
Awesome! Thanks so much! We can all do our part.
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Hahahaha, so great. Especially the Jewish man with the two Blackberrys.
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I have that exact same feeling about Pepsi and India. In the summers when we went to visit my grandparents in India, I would walk to the corner store and buy Pepsis that were dewy with condensation. The intense fizz of the Pepsi would sit on my tongue, awaken me, and refresh me in that torrid summer heat.
Haha! Well Josh, if you ever decide to visit China please let me know and keep me updated. This way I can travel vicariously through you!
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Maybe…maybe not. How can you be so sure?
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obviously you are not nerdy enough!
I’m so sorry! Lol – I’m trying to make my comments appear from the oldest to newest and include threads. #Fail (You know you’re addicted when you use hashtags even though you’re not on Twitter.)
test test test – i can’t help myself I keep seeing the emails come though
@Monica: hahah I don’t know about writing drunk but I do have a post in the works for ya
@Chris – The Aussie Nomad: You know what would be a great idea?! If you wrote a guest post for A Pair of Panties & Boxers drunk! Could you pretty pleeeaaaaaaaassssseeeeeee???
@Shawn: Haha! I need to learn CSS myself. There’s just too much to do. 24 hours isn’t enough for a day!
@Erica: I’ve always known I was a nerd and I’m proud of it. Lol
@Adam: I guess I’m a little behind but what does FTW stand for?
@Andi: There’s plenty for me to learn about my own culture. I’ve barely scraped the surface. I seriously need to return to China. I miss it so much!
Awesome post! Even though I know SO much about Chinese culture, there were still a couple of things in your post that I was unaware of. I want as much good luck as I can get in 2010!!!
It’s really cool that Chinese NY and V-day are on the same day–it’s gonna be a year of love for everyone…
I’m so far into being a computer geek/travel nerd that it’s not funny. I’ll happily bore someone to death on anything tech related and then move onto travel or possibly ask them what gym they go too.
I still walk the line of the typical beer swilling aussie but the nerd hides just under the surface. And who says you can’t write a post while out drinking with mates. I mean hello iphone with wordpress app
My only concern will be taming the nerd so that I can escape my macbook and see everything I want to see overseas. Time will tell…
RTW FTW!
I wonder what the difference is between a travel nerd and a travel geek. I think geek sounds less nerdy. Hmm. I have to say you’re pretty accurate. Right now instead of going out someplace to get some lunch, I’m at this table tinkering with my CSS. Le sigh
And I can see that my effort to change “tweetup” to “twatdown” has failed. Probably for the best.
travel bloggers FTW!
(that’s the nerdiest I’ve got. Oh, and I’m going to a Tweetup tomorrow!)
I haven’t actually thought of travel blogging and travel bloggers as nerdy before, but you make some good points. Interesting way to look at it!
@Melanie@TravelsWithTwo: Thanks Melanie! But you didn’t miss Chinese New Year yet! The first day of the holiday starts Sunday on February 14th. But if you just want an excuse to indulge yourself in sweets, you can start celebrating the holiday now…like I am!
Monica, happy new year to you! I’m mortified to find that not only did I space the SuperBowl, but Chinese New Year, as well! (And I call myself an American…) Thanks for teaching me about what’s involved in preparing for a real Chinese celebration — I’ll be sure to eat some sweets today to make up for lost time!
@Chris – The Aussie Nomad: Thanks Chris! When you make it to China on your RTW trip, maybe you’ll discover some superstitions I never knew of.
Great post Monica. I had no idea about the Chinese new year to be honest. You hear it mentioned now and then but that’s all. That sure is a lot of superstitions I can imagine there are many more depending on who you ask.
Fun stuff – hadn’t heard most of these….thanks!
Cheers,
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I agree! It should be Valentine’s Day every day.
Haha! We’ll, there’s always next year.
Yea, I was pretty surprised myself. I originally set my budget to $2,000 but I kept lowering it to challenge myself. It was kinda fun.
@Arlene: Yea, that is very true. It works very much like a dream board. I plan on hanging up my own prayer flag when I make it to Nepal and the only thing I ask for is just to be happy.
Very cool! I’ve never celebrated Chinese New Year but always wondered about it. Also, if this falls on the US holiday of Valentine’s Day….I think I’d much prefer this to Vday!!
I could get used to the chocolate thing! Although I already fail for the debt.
Hadn’t heard of that site (Lay Your Head Here) before. Also, can’t wait to read up on Istanbul – I have some catching up to do! Can’t believe you did it so cheaply, too. That’s encouraging.
Thanks, Monica, for the link. It worked great. I had never heard of prayer flags but what a wonderful tradition. Something comforting in sending the prayers out to the universe. Kind of like making a dream board and putting goals and wishes out there.
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Ciao Monica,
Just learned that you moved. Good luck.
I love the NYC skyline photo – did you take that?
BTW – I changed your link address. But it seems mine has dropped off your list since I also moved a few months ago. Please fix
Thx
@adam: Fianlly! I found where your comment was. Haha! I hope you enjoy the series! I had a great time putting together. It sort of became a semi-obsession.
@LisaB (LadyWanderlust): Thanks Lisa! I’m still working out the kinks. There are a few things that need to be fixed but I’m really glad you like it.
You’re always so good to me. Thanks for the shout
out on your blog. You totally make this blogging experience worthwhile.
@Jennifer: Thanks Jenn!
@Carrie: Hi Carrie! It’s been so long! How are you?! I’ve been meaning to drop by your site too! I also hear via Twitter that you’ve redesigned it. These 50 hour work weeks completely drain me. I haven’t had the chance to comment much in the blogosphere. I hope you’re doing well.
Thanks for the tip about the domain mapping feature. I’m definitely going to have to put that to good use. Most of my links still direct to the old site.
Interesting
Trying to get used to the new website. That alone will be another adventure for me. I really like what I see.
Oh, BTW, I have a little surprise for you on my blog today. Stop on by and see what it is.
Hugs, Lisa
http://worldaccording2lisa.blogspot.com/2010/02/blowing-sunshine-rainbows-out-my-ass-so.html
Hi Monica,
It’s been a while since I stopped by. I saw your tweet on Twitter today about your new corner of cyberspace and figured I’d better come over, check it out, and congratulate you. It looks great. You’ve done a really nice job with it. A quick tip: If you haven’t already, Wordpress has a nifty little domain mapping feature that works by pointing your old site to your new URL. Within a few months time, your PR will go back up and all of your links will redirect. I think it’s around $10 for the year. Your new site will be down for about 24 hours, but after that, any time anyone searches for your wordpress.com domain, they’ll be redirected here. It’s well worth the money. I did this with MSW and Taiwan Photographers and got all my links back within a month and a half.
Congratulations again!
Hmm…I’ve never thought of that. I wouldn’t be surprised if environmentalist start attacking this Buddhist tradition. I just hope they don’t. They are bigger environmental concerns to be worried about.
Part 7 of 17?! How did I miss this series? Looks like I’ll be reading about Turkey this weekend!
Love the picture! We saw those all over Sichuan in 2006, but despite how beautiful they are, they kinda are messy. I wonder if the environmentalists will go after the Buddhists for littering? Ha.
@Jade Lynn: Thanks Jade!
Love this!
@Erica: If you like watching documentaries about people who climb Mount Everest, you should check out this one called “Blindsight.” It’s about a blind man who establishes the first school for the blind in Lhasa and takes a group of blind Tibetan teenagers to climb Mt. Everest.
Here’s the link for more info: http://www.blindsightthemovie.com/
@Kirsten: That’s my favorite aspect of the prayer flags too. Everything about it is so spiritual. It’s very refreshing to me since living in NYC means I’m constantly surrounded by materialism.
@Gourmantic: I think the colors add vitality to the surroundings its placed in. I love the thought of seeing these flags flap in the wind in front of a blue sky. If you guys visit Nepal or Bhutan or Tibet one day, I’d love to hear all about the local dishes.
Like Kirsten, I didn’t know the whole story. Prayer flags remind me of Mount Everest. Whenever I’ve watched documentaries of climbers attempting to reach the top of Everest, they’ve filmed these prayer flags at the base camp. I didn’t know each colour represents an element and that they’re hanged in a certain order. Interesting.
@Adriana: Thanks for coming by to support my new home Adriana. I’m still working on making it better so please bear with me.
I hope you’re doing well!
@Aileen: Thanks Aileen! I’m so glad you stopped by to support my site. Now you can read all about my travels here. And when I come to visit YOU, I’ll have it all right here.
@Doug: Hey Doug! I’m glad you like the font and the media icons. I like them too. It reminds me of when I was a kid and I was free to write and draw and explore. I wanted to give the same feel to this site. I finally imported all my posts. Manually. Haha! Only problem is that the comments don’t match the posts. Gotta have that fixed soon. Thanks for visiting my new home. I hope you enjoy it here.
@Honey: Thanks! I’m so glad you stopped by.
I just took a look at Mundo Exchange. I’ve been looking for volunteer programs abroad. I’ll take some time later this weekend to explore more.
The Temple of Heaven was my favourite part of Beijing. The only touts I saw were old ladies with postcards at the entrance (Which, if I recall correctly had a great sign about things you can’t do in the part).
I enjoyed the echo wall too and acted like many a tourist did, I also loved the ancient old trees with signs in English and Chinese describing what they were. For me the ToH was the most peaceful place in Beijing apart from the Hutong I was living in North of the Forbidden City.
Cheers for the article!
I just said goodbye to your old site Monica, have followed you on Twitter and am looking forward to going through all your older posts. Looks great here, I’m sure it’ll be a big success!
Wow! I’m so glad I read this post Monica. I’ve always been fascinated with them yet never knew the whole story. This is my favorite part: “When the images fade from the exposure to the sun and wind, it symbolizes that the prayers have become a permanent part of the universe.”
@Adriana: Thanks Adriana! I’m looking forward to filling up the travels through life part. It happens so quickly we sometimes forget to enjoy it. I hope you’re doing well. Will you be traveling anytime soon?
what a beautiful new home! I love the part about travels through life – wich we do constantly
These remind me of the prayer plaques in Tokyo temples, though not as colourful. I like how the colours are not just decorative and hold special meanings.
@Pat: Wow – that is really intense patrolling but I can totally understand why. I’ve yet to visit Australia though I do have a few study abroad friends there I can couchsurf on. Have you ever visited?
Monica! I am superglad to see the dedication and effort you are puting into the site, loving it! Jia you jia you
Love the new site and the layout. Something catchy about the font and social media icons too! It’s always a pain transfering those blogs. Get an intern to do it!
No wonder the Aussies dislike the English, we dumped all our convicts on them and then overran their country with bunnies. UK border control and customs is strict but watching a documentary series on tv about Australian customs control, the officers blocked everything from bringing food into the country to checking the boots and trainers of visiting sports teams for mud. Australian customs is strict but can you blame them?
@GotPassport: Thanks! I miss looking at beauty like this. Instead, I see my computer screen all day. What a bummer.
@Candice: Thanks Candice! It still needs a little tweaking so if you notice anything funky, please let me know.
another beautiful shot!!
Yaaay! Love the new site!
Excellent photography…as always!
@lauren: Thanks for visiting my site Lauren! I was amazed by the architecture when I first arrived in Spain. The buildings we have here in NY are so bland and geometric in comparison. My eyes were in shock but then I realized, architecture is like this EVERYWHERE in Europe.
@Mike: Thanks for stopping by Mike! I’d love to go back to Spain too. I’ve been dying to visit Barcelona for years now.
I love your pictures. I always take pictures of architecture and while I’m not great with editing software I love the basic structures and how massive they can be–especially European ones!
Looks magical! My favourite Photo Friday, so far.
This looks like something out of a fairytale…gorgeous.
I absolutely agree. Like the proverb goes: If you give a man a fish, he’ll eat for a day. If you teach a man to fish, he’ll eat for a lifetime.
Thanks for stopping by Susan. I really appreciate your comment and thanks for the link. I’m definitely going to check it out.
Inner city schools need a sassy teacher like you to put them in their place. Haha!
Oh I would SO love to meet you guys! Please let me know when you do come visit!
Thanks! I love your profile picture. It reminds me of the turtle teacher in “Finding Nemo.” Lol
New York will always have a special place in my heart. It is one of my fave cities. On my bucket list is to live in NYC for one year. I think I would want to work in an inner city school.
Great shot. Thanks for keeping the dream alive with the picture.
I think its especially important for us to realize, on the topic of global poverty, that simple providing funding in the form of aid is not a sufficient solution to ending this on going issue. I have a lot of faith in “ending global poverty through enterprise based solutions. I think that this will have a much more enduring effect on helping poorer nations because it focuses on teaching them the tools they need to become financially independent and grow their own economy.
It’s such a wonderful experience to camp. I’ve never gone camping until after 40, recently in Summer 2009! I hope you get to sleep under the stars, on the beach very soon!
Happy Friday!
It’s Beautiful, Monica. Would love to return to NY one of these days and tweet up with ya! Thanks for the share.
Excellent image!
I slept under the stars when I went to sleep away camp at 14. I had so much fun! It was great chasing fireflies. Not so great when they’re chasing me. Haha!
Thanks Lilian! I truly appreciate it.
Awesome! Thanks so much! We can all do our part.
nice. Will RT
I’ll add this to the list also. Let’s all lend a hand for Haiti!
very nice!
Sounds lovely. Love that picture!
BTW, sleeping under the stars is the best, if you’ve not tried it already.
No problem! I’m glad you found it resourceful! Here’s a link for more info if you haven’t already looked into it – http://www.assateagueisland.com.
Haha! But nature is so beautiful, even at night. The darkness can be a scary place but it can also be very serene, especially when you see nothing but an ocean of stars.
The only bad thing is sand creeping into places where they don’t belong. Then it gets annoying. Lol.
Haha…yes, the power of only one. I can’t do it all but I can do something. And that’s better than nothing. Thanks for such kind words. I wish I had more time to express I have feel about a lot of things. But these 50 hour work weeks really do drain the life out of me. The only thing that keeps me going is knowing that I don’t have to be chained to banks for loans when I go to grad school.
P.S. Pegu is such a funny word.
So true, Monica. I saw it in Cambodia, Thailand, Burma and definitely all over in India.
Your comment reminded me of a refugee boy we worked with right here in the US. This boy had no diaper and no underwear. He too had rashes and pimple like bumps on his pegu, butt, and it was just a matter of parents lacking resources, even here in the US for Burmese Refugees.
I love your writing, very powerful. Every time you take the time to share your thoughts about the things people shy away from writing about, you are opening the eyes of one or two or so on. Keep it up– The power of one, eh??
Wonderful photo! I love B&W, although I’m very bad at…
This has really inspired me to go back to Europe / Spain as I see we have missed a lot on our short trip through there earlier this year. Thanks.
Woah….camping, fishing, biking, crabbing, kayak tours ….. sign me up! Thanks for sharing the destination.
Monica, I love your spirit! Wow, I have to say camping on the beach is just not my thing. I don’t mind a DAY trip to the beach but that is about it. I am an URBAN kind of girl. I love the big city. I don’t mind experiencing nature on vacation, but sand in the craw is where I draw the line.
Maybe I am just too old and to suburban–more than I want to admit.
Thanks so much Doug! I really appreciate it. I hope you enjoy my posts and visit often.
Whoa – a blizzard in Istanbul? Do you have any pictures to share? I’d love to see how the city looks covered in snow. I’ve seen a black and white picture of it in Orhan Pamuk’s book “Istanbul: Memories and the City.”
You definitely should! With your photography skills, I’m sure you’ll come out with some killer shots. All I know how to do is point and click. Haha!
I do work in NYC but I live in Brooklyn, near Coney Island. It takes over an hour for me to get to and from work each way. And it doesn’t make sense to move into the city because it’s too expensive and I spend most of my life at work anyway.
Weekend getaways keep me sane. Lol
Thanks! There were so many ponies on the island. It made the place feel so serene and peaceful.
Wow. Great cause. Thanks for shedding light on this. I am going to RT. First time reader, nice layout.
Whoa—they have WILD ponies at the beach? Now why could I ever find such interesting photography subject like that. LOL. Hmm…Assateague Island sounds like a nice little place to get away to. I’ll have to check that out when considering my next family trip!
Amazing place, no? I actually had a sunny day but cold. It was several days after a sudden blizzard shut down the whole city. Hard to imagine what life was like in those beautiful but stone cold places back before space heaters and Thinsulate!
I didn’t know you had such a long commute. (I thought you were working in NYC.) With a 50 hour work week, weekend getaways make the most sense. I did the same – travelled during the weekends – when working 50 hour weeks as a nanny in Zurich a few years ago.
And Ocean City, just hearing the name makes me smile. As does the photo of the wild pony. Beautiful.
How lovely looking pony Monica. Your photo is so good and inviting to visit this place.
Happy Wednesday!
Thanks April! I haven’t traveled solo yet but one day I will work up the courage to. Thanks for visiting my blog. I’m glad you enjoy my posts. China is a great country to visit. It’s so vast and each place is so different. I’ve only scrapped the surface. I can’t wait to return to explore some more!
The mosaics inside are indeed something really beautiful. The Chora Church in Istanbul also has some incredible mosaics. They’re extremely detailed and I had a bad urge to touch. Good thing I couldn’t reach them.
http://apairofpantiesandboxers.wordpress.com/2009/10/20/chora-church/
I wish I could give to all but there are so many. I hope the boy used the 50 kuai well.
Thanks Lisa. Your posts on Power of Only One is truly inspiring. I learn something new in each and every post!
My friend recently created it as a source for New Yorkers to find events to participate in for Haiti relief. There was so much going on and everyone was pitching in to do their part after the earthquake, he thought this would be a great way for people to stay up to date about these events.
Hey, I just found your website on one of your blog comments and I read this specific blog. It must be cool traveling all by yourself. I admire your free spirit of adventure. I will keep reading your blogs. I plan to go to China soon. Love your ideas on cheap accommodation. Keep sharing your thoughts on travel, love your post!
I will link Power of Only One to this sighte and the Hands for Haiti site sometime this week. Great post and great idea.
Hey Winser! Let’s see how the first repost goes. I just want to make sure I get credit for my work. Thanks for taking an interest in my blog. I really appreciate it.
thanks for all your posts about China Travel. waiting for your reply.
Hi Monica. great meeting you from Twitter. and good to know you are a Chinese too. I like your writing style. I was just wondering if you can contribute some articles related to China travel to my blog? it is the 1st blog in English by Chinese in travel field. looking forward to your response.
I haven’t heard about Hands For Haiti before. Thanks for bringing this to our attention!
One of my favorite places in Turkey. When Mehmet the Conqueror arrived in 1453 it is said he decided something so beautiful could only come from God/Allah. So rather than gouge out the faces which are forbidden by Islam he had them covered with plaster. Thanks to this we still have mosaics to look at!
The picture of the little boy, he appears to be younger than 10 years old. I’d say aboutmore like 7 to 8 years old.
Had I seen him, I’d given him some money too. In San Francisco, i don’t give money to the bums and homeless people, cuz most of them are receiving monetary subsidizies of some from from local cities, or State funds. And the money they obtain on the street is used for booze or drugs.
But in China, I normally give money to poor people, extreme beggers, or handicapped people.
一快，一块，要不要花。 很高兴JC给小男儿50元。踏实了不起的。
Thanks Simon! In a few weeks, Haiti is going to vanish off the front page just like most major events. People forget too quickly but I hope there are others out there who will be a constant reminder to us all that there are plenty of people suffering around the world. Just because they’re not in the news, doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
That’s a really nice post, Monica.
It’s a pity that there’s nothing similar in the main European cities, or at least I’ve never heard about.
I believe that gathering support through the participation to events is a very clever way to involve people and keep them aware in the long term.
Cheers!
Simon
Lol…I think maybe Asians are the ones who invented the concept of slippers.
exactly that’s what Taiwanese, Burmese, Thai, Japanese do as well. In fact, we wear house shoes after we remove our outside shoes in Taiwan. We had that tradition in our other house with tiles too.. but we have more wood in this house so we can go barefoot. We actually have a sign in our house “please remove your shoes!” bought it when we were in Taiwan!
beautiful! I know who to talk to and which blog to read when we make our plans to go to China.
Hey! Thanks for visiting! Can you imagine how many steps have eroded those stones? The structure itself is absolutely remarkable.
Thanks! I’ve always been taught to take off my shoes as a sign of respect, even if it’s to my aunt’s house. When I was younger, I never understood why Americans wore their shoes in the house. The ground you walk on outside is so dirty. Why would you want to bring it in your house?
Me neither. I just happens, like a reflex. Unfortunately, it’s not a reflex all human beings have. When I visited Confucius’ tomb in Qufu, China there was a tour guide who used a loudspeaker to talk and hawkers selling flowers to tourists to put on his grave. Way to respect the dead. Lol
I’d recommend seeing Nanjing for at least a weekend. It’ll take you an entire day to see the Nanjing Massacre Museum alone and I don’t think you should miss the end of the day when they burn incense to commemorate the dead. The music, the sunset and the ashes give the museum a peaceful but desolate aura, especially if you go on a cold day because the massacre occurred during the winter. The museum tries to recreate the feeling of the aftermath when all the streets were dead and souls were lost.
If you are going just to visit the Nanjing Massacre Museum, I think a day trip would do. But there is plenty to see in Nanjing.
You can get from Shanghai to Nanjing by train in about 4 hours or less depending on the type of train you take.
http://www.chinahighlights.com/china-trains/search-result.asp?Txt_FZ=Shanghai&SearchType=A&Txt_DZ=Nanjing&button=GO+%C2%BB
I used the site above to travel through China. It’s really handy. Also, http://www.seat61.com is a great resource for travelers.
I can’t wait follow you back to Shanghai through your blog. It has a special place in my heart because it was there where I my passion for traveling was born.
Nice photo!
For me one of the most striking things about visiting Aya Sofia was seeing how the stone entryway had been worn down over hundreds of years, simply from all the people who had entered it’s doors.
You’re right about the forgotten holocausts, Monica. The more one looks and learns the more appalling human history becomes I think. Numbers and names change but the atrocities never cease to make the knees weak. I visited Cambodia’s S21 genocide museum last year. They did it to their own people. Just unreal. Wasn’t there a similar massacre in Beijing at the onset of the Japanese invasion? I think that was more of a rapid live burial sort of thing. Damn near incomprehensible. I will be in Shanghai in March. Is Nanjing doable as a day trip or do you recommend more time?
Kevin
http://www.themadtraveleronline.com/s21museum.htm
Beautiful details… And I love the pink colour on the door.
Hey there Monica,
I love that picture at the top. It is so majestic and mysterious to me…. that’s how temples make me feel when I am there. I think I understand what you referring to.. whenever we go into churches, cathedrals, temples etc. I feel the need to speak softly, bow my head, and just be a gentle soul- it is a way of paying respect, I suppose. When we were in Taiwan, when we went to Buddhist, I took my shoes off every time even though I was told I don’t have to.. I couldn’t do it..
beautiful post and good historical facts too!
I do the same thing when walking around somewhere that a tomb etc is. Weather I do it out of a sense of respect for the dead or not I don’t know.
When I look back upon it, I’d definitely say that it was worth it. But while I was going through it, I was kicking myself in the ass for going out there when I could watched it on TV with a cup of hot coco and warm blanket.
OMG! How old was your friend?! I hope he knew there were porter potties there. I have to admit, the lines to the bathrooms were pretty long. It was too cold for me to fathom taking my pants off though, even if I had to pee. Lol
I agree! We do need a woman in there. Maybe she’ll have a little bit more balls. Lol.
At that time, watching the inauguration on TV seemed like a better idea. Especially when I lost feeling from my knee down. Lol. DC is a really beautiful city and I love the Smithsonian. I could wander in and out all day. When I visit, I usually stay at the Green Tree hotel. They give warm cookies upon arrival. Haha!
Great post!
I’m impressed with those people who could stand for hours in the cold weather. But, hey, I think they all are witnesses to one of greatest histories of United States, so maybe it worth it.
Wow, you’ve got China covered! Were you only in Istanbul in Turkey? I lived in Turkey for one year — the best year of my life so far — and have been there several times since. There’s just too much to see and I just love the Turks. Check out The Yogurt Man Cometh (by yours truly!) See you on Twitter!
wow talk about tenacity! Quite amazing that you were right there part of History! A friend of ours went and he wore diapers.. I kid you not!
I agree with Lisa.. let’ts get a Woman in there next!
Now that is dedication and you will be able to your children and their children, “I was there when Obama was sworn in. I saw the first “person of color” become President. I was witness to a miracle. I was apart of change!”
WOW! Glad you warmed up.
Hugs, Lisa
P.S. Now we just got to get a woman in office to straighten things out. LOL
Having lived in the DC area for a long time before heading South,I can appreciate how cold it was in January. 5 hours, huh? I am getting goosebumps thinking about that. But you had a front row seat to history being made. Well, I did too – on TV.:) The cold and inflated prices aside, the things I remember and liked the best about DC was how really pretty it is in our capital. All the free museums and the restaurants, plentiful and varied, were fabulous.
I stayed at that hostel in April, 2005 for one week. It was my first trip to China (with a good friend from work) and I really loved the location in the middle of the hutongs. We ate a delicious dinner in A Taste of Home and met Yao, whose mother runs the restaurant. Yao was very helpful throughout our stay as he spoke very good English and gave us advice for our sightseeing adventures. Note that Yao did not work directly for the hostel so I’m not sure if he’s still there. Overall, we had a good experience at the hostel, despite some noisy nights when other Chinese guests were laughing & talking in the halls at all hours.
Does it really take 1/2 a day to get to Texas? That’s pretty awesome. I remember when I was younger, my dad drove the family from NYC to Disney in Orlando, FL. It took us the entire day…24 hours!
Again, I travel vicariously through you. I am so jealous how centrall located NYC is to so many places. You can drive literally for 1/2 a day and still be in Texas. I am about 12 hours from New Orleans which I don’t like, 4 1/2 hours from a nasty town in Mexico, about 13 hours to the ugly part of New Mexico, but nothing cool is close. Jealous of the Big Apple you live in!
Hi Arlene! Thanks for visiting my blog. I went to Shenandoah in January so I completely missed the fall foliage. I can’t wait to go back this fall though. The last time we went, we got lost an ended up in Flint Hill. The town was so small we drove through it in 15 minutes.
Please let me know when you do. I have a feeling after your US trip, you would have been to more places than me.
Haha…I didn’t know there was a song with that name. Can you sing it for me?
I went in January so I completely missed the fall foliage. I plan to visit again in about 9 months.
When I lived in Maryland, I often took that drive in the fall. That is when it is at its best. I loved the little towns and crafts you find there.
I really like to read about your different trips. Since I’ve wanted to travel through the U.S. for a long time, this gives me a lot of inspiration of places to visit!
Sounds like a cozy place. I think I had to do a project in high school English on the song “Oh Shenandoah” and I haven’t looked at photos since.
Really a beautiful area, especially during the fall months.
I’d be so happy if I could have a non-stop world tour and I’m so glad that you’ve made it a lifestyle for your child as well. Way to live!
Haha…you’re probably healthier than I am. I sit on my butt all day at work. Will you be visiting China anytime soon?
It really is spectacular isn’t it? Thanks for the memory.
We loved it and all of Turkey! One of our fave countries on our open ended, non-stop world tour!!
the great wall is one of the wonder on my list too but, now that i know, i will have to get fit before for all those steps!
Thanks for dropping by! it’s one of my favorite photos of my travels in Istanbul too. The colors just pop!
Thanks Chris. I tried to get as up close as I could. I actually had to stick my camera through the holes of the wall to get the picture. I still marvel at how vibrant the colors are especially when the Hagia Sophia is about 1,500 years old.
H Alessandra! I really enjoyed traveling in Istanbul. It felt like a dream. I would love to go back to Turkey again. There are still so many places to see. I’ll follow up with your blog as well so I can live vicariously through you while you are in Istanbul and show me all the places that I missed the last time I went.
Thanks so much for the kind words Simon. You’re so very sweet. I truly appreciate it. My goal when I write is so that my readers can try to feel what I feel. Sometimes I fail, sometimes I succeed but I try anyway because I hope that people see more than just the materialistic world.
Thanks for stopping by Christine
. It’s always when we look back that we realize what we should have savored.
Mystically beautiful photo! It’s one of fave photos in travel blogs this January. Thanks for sharing!
Nice picture, the mosaic colors are just amazing
Hi Monica!
I’m so happy to found your blog! It seems like you love Istanbul so much, like me!
I’ll follow your blog, and hope you’d like to do the same and share with me other experiences and ideas about this magic city.
Keep in touch!
I loved that post, Monica. Not only because of the theme, but for the way you wrote this story and interview. It’s incredibly involving, and I could feel that it’s a post that comes from the heart.
It tells a lot of things about ODW – which I believe is a great way to manage a NPO – but it also tells a lot of beautiful things of you.
Your post points at a great truth, that is ‘there can be no solidarity without sincere emotional participation’.
I believe you should share this post again and again.
A big hug,
Simon
Gorgeous photo and beautiful sentiment.
This struck a lovely note for me. Even the bittersweet should be cherished.
hahaha yeah I’ll admit I’ve have been thinking the same thing.
It absolutely is. I wish I could have inspected every little detail but it was a really packed day when I visited.
The Hagia Sophia is massive. I read in Rick Steve’s guide that the Statue of Liberty could do jumping jacks in here. No lie.
Thanks for dropping by. I wish I could have gotten a closer picture but this was the best I could do. I love how vibrant the colors are even after over 1,500 years.
Lol…I was contemplating how to get to that little island without swimming in the Artic water.
There is something relaxing about watching a sunset. A contemplative moment where you can reflect and just be with yourself.
I can tell you, the inside of this building is simply wondrous. One of my favorite places in the world. Just how old it is will get you, then you realize its history – a fascinating museum.
Can’t wait to see this in person!
When knowing now that it is mosaic, then I appreciate it more and more. Cool photo.
Nice picture!
Good luck with your GMAT!
And yes, I have some travel plans… so far the only definite one is London but I hope there will be much more travel.
my mandos still a work in progress, so i have to say the pinyin and then guess the closest canto word… which gets me a handful of words… (i find it fascinating to see the contrast of middle Chinese w/modern chinese)
The above friend briefly summarized the poem, but couldn’t figure out about a third of the characters. These characters definitely belong to the upper echelon of Chinese characters that are rarely used…
A different scholarly friend informs me that the inscriptions at Tai Shan are also found in Robert E Harrist’s The Landscape of Words: Stone Inscriptions from Early and Medieval China book, specifically chapter four.
amazon
A photograph of Qianlong’s inscription is included as plate 20.
so im adding that to my list of books for my china tour…
He also offers this translation…
Meandering peaks embrace deep vales;
Twilights are often received exclusively.
That’s why the name Early Morning Sun,
Is used to name many a famous mount.
[Middle verse harder to translate...]
Having faced danger, it’s pleasing to find peace.
Having rested, it’s time to resume proceeding.
The current scenery is enlightening me to learn,
That the infinite sky forbids procrastinating.
I got u wong.
thats awesome, nice work darrick
Thank you SO much Darrick! You’re awesome! Tell your friend I said thanks too. I really appreciate it.
It’s my pleasure I discovered your blog and thank you for your reply! Unfortunately, it’d be all greek to you on my blog, as it’s written in greek! Translating parts of it in english is in my plans, but it won’t be easy, as my english isn’t very strong! I’m gonna try and meanwhile I’ll be twitting (http://twitter.com/Pyksida) parts of it! Nihao!
a friend converted to pinyin
http://www.nciku.com/ is more helpful than zhongwen.com or google translator…
乾隆皇帝, Qian Long Hong Di
回峦抱深凹， Hui Luan Bao Shen Ao,
曦光每独受。 Xi Guang Mei Du Shou.
所以朝阳名， Suo Yi Zhao Yang Ming,
名山率常有。 Ming Shan Lu Chang You.
是处辟云关， Shi Chu Bi Yun Guan,
坦区得数亩。 Tan Qu De Shu Mu.
结构寄幽偏， Jie Gou Ji You Pian,
潇洒开窗牖。 Xiao Sa Kai Chuang Shan.
历险欣就夷， Li Xian Xi Jiu Yi,
稍息复进走。 Shao Xi Fu Jing Zou.
即景悟为学， Ji Jing Wu Wei Xue,
无穷戒株守。 Wu Qiong Jie Zhu Shou.
from: http://www.mount-tai.com.cn/3792.shtml
google translations a miss…
some of the characters are like 2nd or 3rd meanings which make it harder. also, some words were not allowed to be used due to laws and superstitions, so they had to use uncommon characters…
朝阳洞
迥峦抱深凹，曦光每独受。
所以朝阳名，名山率常有。
是处辟云关，坦区得数亩。
结构寄幽偏，潇洒开窗牖。
历险欣就夷，稍憩复进走。
即景悟为学，无穷戒株守
Thanks Pearl! It’s kind of surreal.
Haha! Well Josh, if you ever decide to visit China please let me know and keep me updated. This way I can travel vicariously through you!
Oh my God.
Such a lovely photo.
I feel like I’m…there…
Hmm…that’s interesting. Do you remember what the show was called? Maybe I can catch it online.
Hi Penny! I’m very glad you took the time to read my post and I hope its place you might be interested in visiting one day if you ever decide to take a trip to China.
Hey! Thanks for stopping by my blog. Sorry for the late reply. I totally overlooked your comment.
Let me know if you’re planning to visit soon. This way I can follow your blog and travel vicariously through you. I had a great experience traveling through China. There’s still so many more places I have to go.
Will do…if you know someone fluent in reading Chinese, please send them this link.
I’m looking for a translator right now. I’m really curiously to find out what it says too. The calligraphy is beautiful.
Hi Kirsten! Thanks for taking the time to comment. I truly appreciate and I’m very glad you liked this post.
I love waffles too! But they always make me want to take a nap after I eat them. Haha…there are plenty of places I’d like to visit in the South. I haven’t seen enough of this country yet. Work and my commute didn’t take up half my life. Lol. Whatever life I have left is for GMAT. Good thing is, this is only temporary. Just have to prevail until then. Lol.
Hey Erica! Happy 2010! Hope the new year is treating you well so far. It’s always nice to get away from the daily grind.
I’m still blogging about my travels but right now it’s not a priority. It’s more of a way to keep me sane with my 9-7. I’m preparing for my GMAT now. And yes, I did get your reply to my question. Thanks for always being so helpful.
Do you have any travel plans for 2010?
Southern Pancake house…hmmmm, could that be the Waffle House. I LOVE Wafflehouse! I am glad you crossed the Mason-Dixon Line and experienced the South. LOL
Keep ‘em coming!
I feel the same way. 2009 flew by faster than I thought possible.
Did you take that photo? I like the composition with the scyscrapers between the trees.
Same here! Such beautifully carved poems.
Hi Monica,
Hope you’re doing well. Sounds like you had a great, eventful weekend. Must have been a nice change from the working, school and studying.
How’s your travel (writing) aspirations going by the way? Did you ever read that comment I wrote to your question about job suggestions on my blog last year?
Beautiful words. And the photograph is not too shabby either. So glad I stumbled upon this post, what an awesome morning treat!
found your site today and really liked it.. i bookmarked it and will be back to check it out some more later ..
Well, I believe Kaifeg was an unknown word for most of us until we read these articles!
Well, this is something I had never heard about. But I have watched this documentary on History Channel about a chinese city, which citizens believe they are of ancient Roman origin…Keep up the good work!
Haha yea…we all get paranoid when we eat garlic and onion but sometimes it’s okay to live a little. I like my garlic and onion. Plus, they’re actually healthy for you.
Aww Lisa…I’m sorry it made you cry but I’m glad you liked it. Passion makes us human and I think more people need to find theirs.
Haha! Yea, I’ll never forget that feeling.
Next mountain I climb will be higher than Taishan.
Shanghai, China's New York City .Thanks for nice post.I added to my twitter.
Funny post, I like you down to life type of style.
Well, being away from self conscious America for two years, I think it is normal.
Heck, I know westerners that avoid garlic and onions, oh my gosh—bad breath. And the deodorant thing is very unhealthy. I guess that what I like about the Arab style, much more down to earth.
Monica, you constantly amaze me with your insight and depth of feeling. That was one of the most beautiful posts I have read. It made me tear up.
I was just commenting on another blog about how much my children have changed; one day they are toddlers, the next tweens. I miss some of who they were and what they were like. I feel like time has just sped by so quickly.
You are an amazing young woman. Keep your passions and follow your heart, and you will always have the magic of the snow.
Hugs, Lisa
what an adventure Monica! sounds amazing. I like what you said “I felt taller than 5′2″ I can relate!
When you get this translated I’d love to know what it says.
That’s the best part thought, the weird and awkward things you encounter. They make the best travel stories and you never forget them.
I wish for no one else to experience what I’ve experienced when taking care of business in squat toilets. It does make for a great story though and it’s one of those things I’ll never forget about travels.
Thanks Adriana.
Maybe I’m getting old but I feel like time just flies by now.
Oh mate that’s not a toilet story I hope to ever top. However so going to visit Confucious birthplace at some point.
Great idea, thanks for this tip!
beautiful picture… I love how you made a parallel between snowflakes (which don´t last long) and moments that can also fade away quickly.
Confucius also said “a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” So I think you can climb a mountain. You just have to take it one step at a time.
I like the poetry Friday idea too. I wish I could translate that poem though.
I totally agree. I think that’s a way of showing respect to the people and their culture.
I might prefer the chinese proverb of walking 100 steps after each meal and live for 99 years today, I am not sure I can climb a mountain…well i guess I’d give it a try. And I like the idea of poetry Friday…Many great Chinese poets too…
stay adventurous,
Craig
I think its best to accept their way of life when living overseas. I’d expect people coming to australia to attempt to fit in and flow with our lifestyle. So it would be hypocritical of myself to expect any less of myself when I travel.
you’r very welcome. I am now living in york pa, another good place.
I’ll let you slide for not showering for a day but how many days do backpackers not shower for?
I always catch people on the subway doing similar things. Just a fact of life, I suppose!
Also, is it bad that I didn’t shower today? In my defense, I’m just practicing for the backpacking “culture.”
Oh dear God. That is so pretty, I definitely need a trip to China now. Like, really need. Need so much, just so I can take pictures.
LMAO! To fling or not to fling…hmm…that is a very tough one. I’d definitely fling. It’s just a natural girl reflex to want to get gross stuff off me.
It’s one of those universal laws. People always catch you doing something you’re not suppose to do in public even though you think you got away with it. Like when you pick your nose or fix your wedgie. Someone sees. Someone always sees.
Yes, there seems to be some weird magnetic attraction between my eyes and a person’s finger in their nose. I’ll turn my head but my eyes won’t move with it. So strange!
To pick or not to pick is always a difficult question, I face a similar one often (to fling or not to fling, poo that is). I think you made the best choice, that is unless she ended up being your waitress later on that day. “Madam, there is a boogie in my soup”
Do people really look when they catch you picking your nose? Geez, I better be more careful
I don’t know if I’d tell her NOT to pick her nose in public. LOL. I guess when you want something out, you’ll find a way to get it out, no matter where you’re at.
Still, when you see people picking their noses in public, you can’t help but look, right? (I know I do!)
Thanks for the advice John! I’ll definitely remember next time I visit Hangzhou again. It truly is a very beautiful place. I miss it a lot. Where are you living now?
Thanks for taking the time to read my posts Adriana. I really hope you enjoy them.
I’m glad you liked it! I hope you find the tips useful in your travels. Happy travelings!
Your article provoke my home-sick. I am a native of Hangzhou and I rowed boats with friends many times when I was a kid. I hope next time you will ride a bike during spring or summer, along the “Su-Di” and “Bai-Di”, when sunny or light rainy. You will have very refreshing experience.
looking forward to reading all of them!
i like your post about your travel secrets
thanks for sharing
Hi Aoife. Thanks for taking the time to read my blog. I haven’t been to India yet so I can only imagine what poverty looks like that out there. I’m sure to a degree, it’s universal around the world. I completely understand that feeling of despair when you see how ugly the world can be. I constantly remind myself not to sink into to as well…even when I read the newspaper.
Thanks Rich!
Thanks Shawn! I’m glad you enjoy them. How is everything in Bulgaria? Any travel plans for 2010?
Thanks Susan! Starting a travel blog is really working for me as well. I try to travel when I can but it’s not easy. Any travel plans for 2010?
Hi Monica,
Thanks for sharing this. I’m in India at the moment and have had a pretty similar experience. It ain’t fair that some of us have plenty and others have nothing. I’m tryin to stay positive though and think of how to help and not sink into despair at the situation. There’s lots of ways to help, and I’m sure you helped that child that night.
Great story, Monica. Very touching.
Excellent posts, I really like your posts and experience in China.
I started a travel blog for the exact same reason, and it has kept travel in my life as much as possible. Love your list of top posts!
Thanks! That’s how the newer MTA trains look like. I haven’t been to London yet. My bank account isn’t big enough for a trip there.
I really like your picture, it’s remind me about the underground in London ( the tube)
Maybe they need to import more rabbit hunters :/
Thanks for the holiday wishes! I hope you enjoyed a stroll down my memory lane while I was in Shanghai. Sometimes, I wish I could rewind and go back. You never really learn to savior the moment until it’s long gone.
Lol…Thanks for commenting Candice. I wish I could have taken a picture of his face. Priceless.
Hahahaha, so great. Especially the Jewish man with the two Blackberrys.
Thanks for visiting. I like your entry about the two passengers who thought the previous people kept their seats warm for them. I would have guess maybe someone with a big behind had just gotten up. Lol
That’s awesome! Just another day on the subway! Check out my page for similar thoughts.
Oh, you know I am going to read old posts about Shanghai now after you teased me with this photo. Monica, you are a truly delightful and insightful woman who blogs with heart. Merry Christmas to you, JC, and your entire family. Lisa
Thanks for stopping by Dave! Hope you enjoy the holidays!
Thanks Lisa. You’re always so kind. I bet Santa has you permanently on his nice list.
I was actually thinking about making this sort of my niche. Blogging about global issues as I travel around the world instead of all the sights and tourist attractions most travel bloggers write about. It’ll make my blog a little different.
P.S. I hope you’re having a very, very Merry Christmas! <333
Hilarious – hope you can share more of these snapshots of urban life!
Monica, This is why I love your blog and your stories. This site is not about a young girl who travels, checking things off a bucket list as she races through 23 countries in 14 days. You go and immerse yourself in the moment and the culture.
These are stories about a young adventurerer who finds the heart beat of the region and shares the stories of real people. You care and it shows. Thanks for sharing this with us all. People like me want to know what they can do make a difference with the limited resources at their disposal. Thanks for opening a door for people like me.
Hugs, Lisa
I think getting lost is the funnest part of traveling. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like while I’m trying to find my way. But then when I look back on it, it’s makes for a great travel story to share.
Thanks Lisa! I think I might be running out of travel blog posts. You know what that means. I need to plan another trip!
It was yummy! Definitely reminded me of home.
Thanks for the commen Ayman. I really appreciate it.
Where have you traveled to?
Sounds like a truly lovely adventure of getting lost and finding the real Madrid!
Cheers, Lisa
I am finally here to comment. Better late than never. Spain seems so beautiful. Keep sharing the stories.
Lisa
those Chinese food look yummy
I saw your blog link on twitter
and i have to say now i really wanna go to all places you went to 
hope I’ll be like you oneday
Your blog is really well-organized and easy to check. I’m still studying at university and only traveled to few places, but I have a to-visit list to go when i have the money
thank you for the nice posts and keep traveling
Yea, it’s beautiful. I’ve never seen a sky like that before. I gotta travel more!
I like to linger and I hate the feeling of being rushed. I don’t want to be there just to be there, you know? That’s why I always stay away from tour groups. I don’t want to be herded like cow.
I really like this picture, especially the reflection of the clouds.
Oh, this sounds lovely! I hate it when guide books says 2-3 hours. I usually double that time, knowing there is a difference in speed touring and glancing vs. being present and taking in the mood, the ambiance, the adventure.
Sounds like a lovely day. Lisa
Let me know when you go Akila so I can travel there vicariously through you!
I thought the name of this park was Parque de la Montana. Am I mistaken?
Gorgeous photo of that temple! I don’t think I have been to that park in Madrid. I will definitely have to check it out next time.
Amazing picture!I love Parque de Rosales,for me one of the best parks in Spain.
The Met is like my second home. I haven’t visited it in a while though. I can get lost there for hours, especially on a rainy day.
Wow! Gorgeous photo of one of the most beautiful presentations of an Egyptian temple in the world. Another memorable presentation is that of Dendur at the Met in NYC.
Oh, so that is the reason for the title! Kind of like a Jack and Jill Travel theme, but way more interesting and creative! Great, great, story!
Hahaha! You’re not a dork – you’re just young at heart.
Lovely park, but I am so like the Freshman I teach. I keep giggling when I see the juicy tushy of the statue on the left. LOL. Sorry, I am such a dork.
Lisa
I always have that kind of itch – lol!
It is! Stay tuned for more pictures! I think I might have one during the night.
What’s up all, I’m new to the forum and fair-minded wanted to roughly hey. hi leaning touch to recollect new pepole and share things with them
suffer with a jubilant year
I feel an itch…a travel itch… to go to Spain. Love the picture. It sounds absolutely phenom!
Lisa
Sounds so picturesque and so vibrant. Thanks for sharing.
Aspiring…(don’t laugh) Can’t get the travel bug out. Hope you’ve been well.
Nice site….travel writer?
Thank you Mattew for the encouraging words.
You are Live at ALENOW.org Welcome aboard.
Great! Please let me know when it goes live.
Consider it done Monica.
Matthew
ALENOW.org
Hi Matthew, this is the first post I’ve written about human trafficking. I usually blog about my travels but I am very passionate about globals issues. Peter from Rowing Against Slavery contacted me and asked if I knew anyone interested in writing about his cause. Feel free to re-blog this current post if you’d like. I’d really appreciate you getting the word out.
Thanks!
Monica
Monica, I would love to reblog any posts you have on this issue. I am always looking for bloggers to contribute content. Have you written about your travels and Human Trafficking? You are welcome to send a post on these issues anytime.
Matthew
ALENOW.org
Hi Adriana. Thank you for stopping by. Please share this with your friends & family. Peter and his team would really appreciate all the support we can give to him. This is only his second day rowing on the Atlantic. He’s got a long way to go.
Hi Matthew. Thanks so much for dropping by. You’re blog is really incredible. Thank you for highlighing the injustice the voiceless have to suffer through every day.
Maybe…maybe not. How can you be so sure?
Hey Anson! Thanks for stopping by. That sounds really fascinating. I’ll definitely check it out.
truly inspiring! thanks for sharing this amazing story!
Monica, Thanks for blogging on this very important cause and evil crime Modern Day Slavery
ALENOW.org
You should probably bear in mind that this child will not get anything out of your 50 yuan. Or maybe just a yuan or two.
If you’re really interested in the Jews of China, the Sino-Judaic Institute has been working in this field since 1985.
Please visit our website: http://www.sino-judaic.org — right now it just focuses on Kaifeng, but soon it will include information about all the Jewish communities of China, past and present.
Thank you Adam for supporting the cause and spreading the word about Rowing Against Slavery.
Thanks so much for the inspiration & the encouragement.
I’m looking forward to having a career in non-profit one day and I hope I can do everything I can to make the world a better place.
Wow. Thanks for sharing some information on this great cause!
Hi Monica:
Amazing stories. Poverty is everywhere in the world. I admire your courage to keep pushing yourself to take action and educate others through your stories. Keep going!
This is an incredible cause you are supporting. I agree that some days I feel so overwhelmed that I can never do enough. Then as I am reminded repeatedly that doing SOMETHING at all is better than nothing. This is why we support so many causes locally and around the world. If all us do take action, do what we can, there is a ripple effect and drops turn into buckets, buckets can eventually turn into an ocean of help, assistance, support, etc. etc.
Good for you for taking action.
Yes, that is so true! I LOVED the color and texture of this building. It looks so clean and pristine!
Don’t you just love architecture? I was AMAZED and in awe the entire time I was Chicago. It’s so incredible how a building at just the right angle can capture you heart or your wanderlust.
Lisa
Haha – I’m keeping it real.
Atta girl. Take me to places far away and sprinkle in the REAL story, the part that brings heart to the piece. Thanks as always, Lisa
The round trip tickets were a good deal considering the time I was able to have off for this trip to Madrid. I think this entire trip cost me less than $700 – including food, accomodations, train travel and the little extra stuff. I was there for about 5 days. I really wished I stayed longer. I was trying to make a trip out to Granada but I’m planning to go to Barcelona this coming February. Hope I can make it out there. Fingers crossed! How long were you in Madrid for?
Yea! I love the grafitti that were plastered over the tunnel walls when I took the Renfe to Toledo and the random art pieces are always a plus.
Hey Jennifer! Thanks for stopping by. I’m glad you like the photo. I’ll try to dig up some more for you.
I have to ask – did you go because of cheap airfare? I flew into Madrid a few weeks before you and the flight was packed – I overheard so many people what a good deal on airfare they got and that’s why they decided to take the trip. How can you pass up a $240 round trip flight from NYC!? Must be something about Madrid in November. Anyways, I really enjoyed reading this since I saw the same sights (traveled by the book) It was a great time, even if I had to wear a hat to keep warm a few days
love it!!! so much street art in Madrid and Barcelona… from grafitti, to sculptures, to random art pieces…
I love this photograph. There was nothing like this (that I can recall) when I was there. Of course, that was ages ago. I’d really like to see more photos of the randomly placed art in Madrid, Monica!
Great Post
Thanks
For your Sharing.
Yup! The wall was massive. There are so many pieces of artwork just randomly placed in Madrid.
Thanks for stopping by Kevin!
Haha! That’s because it seems like everyone else tends to write about the logistics of traveling than the experience and stories that come from it. Traveling is a life lesson. It’s suppose to open our eyes, not just our wallets.
Is that a wall of flora? Wow, it’s impressive.
Lisa
Authentic words, some true words dude. Totally made my day!
As always, love your travel tales of architecture, history, and adventure. But what sticks with me this time are the images of tongue-clicking French matrons,of my sweet little Monica burping like a monster, McDonald’s in Toledo, and a polygot Bangladeshi serving kebabs at midnight in Spain while gettin’ down with the Pussycat Dolls. Now these are the stories you don’t find in Fodor’s and Frommers. Bravo! Lisa
Oh, there are plenty of places to see in China. I’ve written about them all on this blog. Not to be self-promotional and all (haha) but I’ve listed it all here: http://apairofpantiesandboxers.wordpress.com/where-ive-been/. Feel free to leave a comment if you have any questions. Thanks for dropping by my site.
Hi Monica! Stumbled here through a comment you left on my blog. Sorry, I’ve been on hiatus and I just saw the comments! I’m glad to see a fellow traveler and your posts inspired me to start writing again. I’ve only been to Shanghai, and I wish I could see other parts of China as well. Any suggestions?
HAHA! Hey…I was too jet lagged to make an attempt to speak Spanish. I haven’t taken Spanish since high school! I’ve never been to Chicago but I know the Art Institute there is one of the finest. I can’t wait to go.
Thanks for bookmarking my blog! I’m glad you enjoy what you read here.
Cuz you know nothing says “ESPANA” like Burger King! LOL You know, its amazing how witnessing and being in the presence of powerful artwork can define an entire trip and/or experience. I cannot describe how defining it was when I went to the Art Institute in Chicago. Uh-may-zing. Okay, girl. Keep ‘em coming because you know I live vicariously through you.
Ciao, Lisa
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I’m dying to go to India. I haven’t been there yet. When do you recommend the best time to go?
Thanks for stopping by MJ. I’m planning to go visit the Great Wall again. I’ve only seen Badaling. It would be nice to check out the other parts of the Great Wall and have a comparison. Which part of the Great Wall did you climb?
Yay! I can’t wait to read your 3 best kept secrets. Please let me know when you visit China. I always get nostalgic when people write about places I’ve visited before. Makes me long to travel even more.
I’ve never traveled alone before. I guess I’m a little hesitant because I’m a girl but I should probably do a little more research on that. I know there are plenty of women in the travel community who have traveled solo.
Beijing always reminds me of roasted sweet potatoes. You can buy them on the streets and the keep your hands deliciously warm. We went to Northern India – Musoorie, Shimla, Manali – in the Summer. It was beautiful, quiet and a lovely escape from the heat of the plains. In Rajasthan, you must go to Pushkar. A lovely little gem of a city.
Love your comment about the great wall in the snow – couldn’t agree more. It has a whole different feeling then.
Wonderful list of secrets and great advice! The photo of Kaifang is beautiful – that will be on our itinerary for our next trip to China. Also, thanks for nominating us in Tripbase.com’s game…we will post our cultural travel secrets soon!
The architecture in Madrid is amazing! It’s like that all over Europe. I’m glad my blog can take you away from the everyday even if it is just for a few moments. I’ll be sure to keep up the work.
Oh, abso-freaken-lutely! That is without a doubt.
I was there for about 5 days back in August 2006. I’d love to go back to visit the Reina Sofia museum which I’ve heard is even better than the Prado. Hard to believe, but I’d have to see for myself!
So, when I win the lottery, can I hire you to take me to Lisbon, Madrid, then to Istanbul? How beautiful and fun this must have been.
Cheers, Lisa
So, when I win the lotter, can I hire you to take me to Lisbon, Madrid, then to Istanbul? How beautiful and fun this must have been.
Cheers, Lisa
Oh, I am the first post-er of comments on this blog! Suh-weet. I really look forward to your pictures on Friday so I can take my mini vacation after a loooooooonnnnnng week of craziness. This is uh-may-zing! I so want to got to Spain now, after Lisbon of course. I am so impressed I am gonna click on your related posts link right now.
Cheers, Lisa
Monica
What a great idea, I have always considered myself a seasoned traveller, but if I were asked to pass on tips well thats another matter.
Things that immediately spring to mind are:
Travel independently, avoid package stuff and consider just travelling alone.
Use local transport wherever possible-much more fun and revealing.
Try and learn a little of the local language before going.
Research, research, research using lots of different sources before you go.
Hi Addy! I feel the same way you do when I read travel posts about places I’ve been to. I always wish I could go back. I get very nostalgic.
Hey Adam! Thanks for stopping by. The Prado Museum IS incredible. I’d love to go back and spend the entire day there. When did you last visit Madrid?
I love Madrid so much, I could cry. I miss it even more… I wish I could go back. *Sigh*
Thanks for writing about your trip to Madrid!
Hi Monica – nice photos of Madrid. Excited to see what else you see and do while you’re there. The Prado Museum is amazing!
Haha – I was afraid it would do a lot of damage to my wallet too. Luckily, I was able to resist. Thanks for taking the time to read my Istanbul series. I really do appreciate it.
Excellent post – the Grand Bazaar is a favorite site of ours (but not of our wallet!). We will miss your Istanbul posts – it has been a wonderful series!
Thanks for dropping by Adriana! It did smell really good there. I wish I could have bottled it up and brought it home with me. I probably could have but I was repelled by the massiveness of the crowd.
No problem! It was my pleasure…:) Thanks for visiting Sophie!
The Great Wall during winter! Why have I never thought of that? Must be absolutely stunning. Thanks for the tip, Monica!
I loooove the Grand BAzaar! I could almost smell those spices with your pic!!!
great blog!!
It did smell really really good. But there were so many people jammed into the market. It made the scent a little difficult to appreciate. I wonder when, if ever, the Grand Bazaar and the Spice Market isn’t packed with people. Lol
Wow, the grand bazaar sounds awesome…also sounds like it might take a few days to see!
The photo from the spice market is great, you can imagine exactly how wonderful it probably smelled there.
Lol – thanks Michael! Just because Jersey’s known as America’s armpit doesn’t mean it isn’t worth exploring.
Hey Jack! I don’t think they’d let you bring skis up to the Great Wall but maybe if you wore shoes with less traction you can improvise. It was really fun gliding down the Great Wall though. Definitely recommend it.
Haha – were they selling Tsingtao beer? If you hike the Great Wall when it snows, you won’t have to carry water. You can just eat snow!
Nice ideas… makes me want to visit the Great Wall and ski down it
LOL I love that you have jersey in there. Seems completely out of place.
You have your blog very well organized. Keep it up!
Interesting! Didn’t think about Great Wall while it snows. I did it during China’s summer hiking the 10k bit. Not many tourist really but MEGA hot. The main tourist spot I stayed away from since I heard it’s terrible and too touristy. Just every now and then during the hike someone’s selling beer along the wall and me question why I’d want beer after hiking for 3 hours of hiking while all I wanted was water lol. Great article!
Yea, I really like Lisa’s tip. Problem for me is that I want to go to every nook and cranny.
Mine too! It’s sometimes very mysterious. I like mysterious
This is beautiful. Night shots belong to some of my favorite photos.
Terrific travel secrets! I especially agree with asking for lower rates when hotels or hostels give you a daily quote. I’ve found this to work for me very well in the past.
And, by the way, I love Lisa’s tips too. “Go somewhere that calls to your heart.” is one of the best suggestions I’ve read in a long time.
Hi Katie! Thanks for visiting my blog.
The Tripbase blog tag is such a great idea!
Great secrets Monica, thanks for sharing!
That photo of Kaifeng is like something out of a story book!
Hmm…I’ve never been to Peru before. How is it over there?
Hey Jason! Thanks for dropping by. I’d love to add you to my blogroll.
Love those tips! I definitely agree about packing light. Jeans, t-shirts and slip on’s are all I really need. But I get cranky when I don’t get enough sleep. I can’t help it. Lol.
Thanks for the encouragement Rebecca! I wish I could travel more often but a 9-7 doesn’t leave much room for anything else. I see that you’re a travel journalist. Any constructive criticism to offer?
Hey Natalie! Thanks for visiting my blog. Your post about the diversity in India is awesome. Very interesting.
I LOVE street musicians. My favorite were the Peruvian flute players in Munich. Talk about a double take!
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for dropping by! I hope you stick around.
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2.) Don’t sleep late. Life is too short and vacation is even shorter. You can catch up on your sleep during the weekends when you get home. Hit the pavement early, miss the crowds, and have more time to explore.
3.)Pack light and wear comfortable shoes. It’s vacation or it’s an adventure. It is NOT a fashion show. You will always remember the sunset on the shore or the local you met in a pub. I swear you will not remember one outfit that you packed. If that is what you remember from a trip, then you are doing it all wrong!
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I *so* admire your adventurous spirit. Wish I had used more of mine at your age! Go, girl!!
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Very nice blog! Keep up the good blog!
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Yes! Sometimes that’s exactly what I ask myself after leaving tourist sites. I think I should follow your model from now on. No expectations, no risk of being disappointed. Great tip!
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I feel the same way about less explored sites. I think many tourist sites are too hyped up and leave travelers feeling disappointed, wondering “What’s so great about this?”… or something similar.
A few years ago I decided to travel without any expectations – no matter where I go or what sites I will visit. Much more fun that way, because there’s no risk of getting disappointed!
I think your mom is right. I believe in karma. Hence, Hiroshima & Nagasaki.
the japanese are not going to apologized to the chinese they are stubbern the don’t know how many lives the distroyed and they should just admitted to whaat they did, but like what my mom says what goes around comes around.
Thanks for visiting! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
Thanks for always stopping by Lisa! <333 My Istanbul series is almost over. I'm working on my Madrid posts now.
It was fun. I had a great time. The great weather was definitely a plys too. It was almost always perfect – not too hot and not too cold.
thx for sharing, great music
Still enjoying your trek through Istanbul. I got RE-caught up, AGAIN. Lovin’ your blog as always.
Hugs, Lisa
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Haha! You have a pretty good memory because this is exactly one of those sites that wasn’t being reconstructed before the Olympics.
Have you been back after the reconstruction?
Thanks for stopping by! Funny you say that because I’ve always thought that about my friend/photographer’s pictures. I’ll pass on the compliment to him.
I vaguely remember this temple. It was one of those sites I couldn’t get close to because of the enormous crowd surrounding it. It was one of the few things that wasn’t being reconstructed prior to the Olympics.
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nice photo, looks better than many postcards
I love having you here Lisa! <3
It use to be a church before it was turned into a mosque during the Ottoman Empire. The iconic images were covered in plaster during the Ottoman reign. I think maybe that’s why some of the mosaics and frescoes have been damaged.
You’re so right! They do look like sea faeries!
I think I blog for the same reason. Writing about my travels is the closest thing I can do to reliving it. You always have such kind words for me about my posts. Please don’t be afraid offer some constructive criticism. It’s the only way to be better.
Surprisingly, the owner of the restaurant actually sent me an email to thank me for writing about his restaurant. I hope he remembers me next time. Maybe he’ll offer me a free meal. Lol…or dessert if that’s pushing it.
As always, LOVE the blog and the pictures!
Glad to be back. I feel like I am traveling when I come here. Lisa
Oh, my gosh. That’s it. Someone SO needs to open an Ottoman Empire Cuisine Bistro in Austin. My mouth is watering from all of the tasty bites you described! Wow. You tease me with each story of Istanbul.
Good job!
Monica, sounds lovely and interesting. Question…I thought Mosques could not have images of people…so why did they keep the saints on the cuppola? Hmmmmm
Like little sea faeries dancing on the water, luring us all to its beauty! Sigh. Lisa
Mea Culpa, My fellow blogger and friend,
I have gotten so behind in blog reading. I am taking tonight to get caught up only on yours. I feel like I travel each time I read your stories and adventures. This is no different. Sounds like something I would really enjoy!
Cheers, Lisa
Yes, I’m Chinese and I was born in New York City.
Thanks Erica!
I wrote about my visit to the Hagia Sophia here: http://apairofpantiesandboxers.wordpress.com/2009/09/24/istanbuls-hagia-sophia/ and answer your question…
Inside, there are eight huge circular wooden boards. Each one has the name of Allah, the prophet Muhammad, the first four caliphs Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman and Ali, and the two grandchildren of Mohammed, Hassan and Hussain, written on it.
Monica
Sounds and looks like the Asitane Restaurant was well worth visiting. I didn’t know you were Chinese by the way, Monica. But you were born in the U.S., right?
Such a beautiful photo! I love pictures with natural light as this one. I wonder what those golden signs mean though.
Hi Cyra! Thanks for stopping by my blog. Istanbul is an amazing city to visit. Please let me know when you decide to go to Turkey. I’d love to follow your footsteps there.
I enjoyed catching up on your posts today. Are you going to be in NYC for Halloween? We are going to have a cool blog entry about Halloween in NY soon. You should check it out!
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hi.. nice blog… Turkey is in my list of countries to travel.. Hope it will be so soon..
Cheers
Thanks for stopping by! What’s cms?
Excellent post, what cms do you use in your blog ?
Thanks! There will be plenty of pictures. Stay tuned!
Haha I guess the Chora Church was made for rainy days. The detail of the last image is even more defined in person. It’s art like this that’s so irresistable. I always have really bad urges to touch. I get too curious when it comes to art.
Wow!!! Super nice! Those images inside the church were simply amazing.
Keep ‘em coming. 
just on the far right side of the site… under blogroll.
I think it was raining during our visit to the Chora church too!
This site is definitely one of my favorites because of its incredible mosaics. Your image of Christ (last image) shows the change in the Byzantine mosaic style as it evolved from a flat representation to one more detailed and naturalistic — really beautiful!
Haha! Yea, they were kind of creepy. They stared at us when we passed by until we were out of sight. Wish I could have taken photos but they were very explicit about not doing that. I guess it’s just precautions against spies.
The cruise is a great way to see a nice tour of the Istanbul coastline for pretty cheap (or just get around town). The soldiers were probably conscripts looking grouchy after a few months of military life!
Thanks for the translation Anil. Wish I had posted this photo while I was there. I kind of still wish I was still in Istanbul too.
I was very amazed to see such an active body of water. It is very much like a city on water. No matter what time I went up to the hotel terrace to look at it, it was always full of trade ships.
This is one of my favorite views in Istanbul. I love seeing all of the ships waiting to enter the Bosphorus – it is like a city on water.
Of course we can! Can you show me where your links page is? I couldn’t find it.
Thanks!
Monica
Hi Monica
Can we swap links?
I sent you an email
Rishi
Hey Marc! Thanks for the kind feedback. I’m really glad you enjoy reading my blog.
Thanks dude! Traveling does make me feel like I’m in another world. I really miss it. How’s your new job going? Planning any adventures anytime soon?
Thanks Talen! I wish I could make a trip out to Thailand. I could spend months there. I’m planning to do a Southeast Asia trip before I start grad school. I’ll definitely be reaching out to you for tips and such when the time comes.
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As always, your photos are freaken amazing … it really does seem like another world.
“Virtue is a holy cow.” Not sure where it comes from though my guess would be the Koran based on the time of year and above the mosque.
What a beautiful tower. I’d love to get to Istanbul some day and see some of these great sights. Awesome photo’s!
Thanks for stopping by Atul. My photos don’t compare to yours.
Thanks Toby! Hopefully I can crank out part 8 by tomorrow.
Hi Mark. Thanks for stopping by!
interesting intro, lol!
just “stumbled” across your blog, great photos, keep it up!
Great looking panorama. Can’t wait for part 8.
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Hi monica..
Hey Bill! I’m glad you like the blog. To add my blog to your reader, click on the RSS icon on the right and select the reader you prefer to use. For example, if you use Google Reader to read your subscriptions then click on the Google icon. That should do the trick.
Thanks for subscribing to my blog.
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Basilica Cistern is great.
Blue Mosque is great.
Hagia Sophia is great.
Istanbul is a beatiful city.
Thanks for stopping by. I see you’re just starting out on your blog too.
It makes me very nostalgic of Istanbul. I wish I was still there.
I wish I knew what Avatar is.
Hi Monica,
your blog is great, useful information and beautiful pictures…keep on writing! As soon as possible I’ll public a post about the Yerebatan Sarnıcı in my blog, if you want have a look!
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It’s so dark in there. The picture reminds me of a scene in the Avatar. haha
I removed the “Recent Post” widget that Wordpress has and replaced it with just a text box. I hyperlink the images and include the title of the blog posts. It’s not easy trying to get creative with a free generic Wordpress template. Haha!
I was quite surprised myself to find a Jewish diaspora in Kaifeng. It’s not a place many foreigners visit in comparison to cities like Beijing and Shanghai. One of my readers above commented that Shanghai has it’s own Jewish diaspora too. Pretty cool.
Thanks for the tip. I stopped by the bazaar near the Blue Mosque and it is much more comfortable to browse through the stores. There is definitely so many hidden jewels in Istanbul. I wish I had more time to find them all.
Hi Dian, thanks for stopping by. Permission granted to re-post parts of my blog. Just let me know when your blog post goes live.
Can’t wait to check it out!
Hi Monica, random Q: in your “Recent Posts” column on right, how do you show pics instead of text? First time I’m seeing it and would love to learn how to do it. Thx, dian
How fascinating!! Never heard of Chinese Jews! Thanks for sharing such interesting history. I’m partially Jewish so it would be interesting to trace the Jewish diaspora all the way to China one day! ciao, dian
Hi Monica, great insight!! Bravo! I’m trying to compile a list and individual blog posts on UNESCO World Heritage Sites which of course includes Hagia Sohpia. Can I have your permission to re-post partially your blog post? With proper credit of course. Thanks much. Pls visit us at http://www.uniquetraveldestinations.wordpress.com, http://www.enchantingeden.wordpress.com, http://www.endangerededen.wordpress.com, and uniquetraveldestinations.net/blog. Thx much. Ciao, dian
The Sultanahmet area is by far Istanbul’s most important place for tourists. All the biggest attractions are here: Hagia Sophia, Blue Mosque, Hippodrome, Cistern Palace, Topkapi Palace, and more. Plus it’s a short walk to the Grand Bazaar and the Archaeological Museum. While of course I love the main attractions (and they shouldn’t be missed), I also really enjoy walking around and exploring the seemingly minor nooks and crannies. Some incredible finds can be had in doing so. One of my favorite discoveries is the Cefer Aga Medresesi which I write more about in another tip. Additionally, on the other side of the Blue Mosque a little down the hill, there is a wonderful collection of shops in an old bazaar. While not nearly as famous as the Grand Bazaar, this are is a great place to really shop as it is much less crowded and I usually seem to find better bargains as well.
Yeah, 6 days is pushing the limit BUT we were bushwalking (multi day hiking) and our packs were heavy so we had to sacrifice some weight at the start!
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Haha! Hmmm…I had no idea there were FOUR ways to wear the same underwear. I don’t know if I’m brave enough to give that a try. But I guess I’ll never know till I’m tested. I can’t believe you wore them for 6 days.
Great photo!
And yes… great interior shot of the temple!
I like your story at the end!
Arrhg, old fogey here. Love to subscribe by email (pushes stuff to me) Any change of adding it to your feedburner thingy?
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You can get 4 days out of em if you try. Inside out and back the front works (just watch it on day 4 when you do up your shoe laces!)
Enjoyed exploring your blog – GOOD LUCK with your dreams
Frank (recently finished a hiking trip wearing ONE pair for 6 days…..) Well they ARE dirty after a couple of hours
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I loved sultanahmet and istanbul.
Sultanahmet square is great.
Hagia Sophia is fantastic.
I will return.
hahahahaha! He’s not very bright, is he? LOL!
Aww…you two will have a great time in China. How long will you be there for?
Thanks for the information on the obelisks in Istanbul – the comparative photos are great! As the Rome of the East, it makes sense that the emperors of Byzantium would carry on the Roman tradition of “importing” obelisks from Cairo.
Beautiful View. We are heading to China on this trip and are looking forward to enjoying views like this. Keep em coming!!
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I have been there! And they day was as sunny.
I will go there again.
The only adventure on my horizon is NewGuy. And, trust me when I tell you that dating in my world is like going to a foreign land.
I am going to the Texas coast on Friday, not too exotic, but at leaast it’s getting away from the daily grind.
Lisa
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I think so too! For some reason when I travel, I always want to go out of the States but there is so much beauty here that I’ve yet to discover. Maybe we do tend to romanticize these far away lands because they’re much more foreign to us. Sigh…I have the sudden urge to pack my bags and go…anywhere and everywhere. Lol.
Do you have any travel plans coming up? Maybe I can live vicariously through you and your blog. Haha!
Thank you Lisa. Those are very kind and very encouraging words. I can see why you became a teacher. 8D
Good question…I was wondering about that too. From what I’ve gathered online, sources say that it was first brought to Athens before it was shipped to Turkey. Here’s a link: http://www.livius.org/cn-cs/constantinople/constantinople_hippodrome_3.html
Haha…I’m sorry you had to endure the smell of feet while reading my post. Definitely not my intention. I’m very glad you enjoy reading my ramblings. It feels good to know I don’t suck. Lol.
Ahhhhhh, the beauty of exotic lands and far away places. Yes, I know. We have sunsets here, too. But, they always seem to be much more magical in foreign lands. I think we tend to create romantic back stories in our minds when we see such pictures.
Cheers, Lisa
Monica,
History is way more than dates on a timeline. It is all about cause and effect and connections to other people, other places, and other times. Your blog, day after day, does all three. I find you to be a Philosophical Historian or a Poet Historian. Your words are beautiful and you bring time, space, and history alive. I look forward to your posts every day.
Keep doing what you are doing, Lisa
Monica,
You say you are not good at social studies and geography, but the way you write, it’s clear that you actually get the “big picture.”
History is way more than dates on a timeline. It is all about cause and effect and connections to other people, other places, and other times. Your blog, day after day, does all three. I find you to be a Philosophical Historian or a Poet Historian. Your words are beautiful and you bring time, space, and history alive. I look forward to your posts every day.
Keep doing what you are doing, Lisa
how did an egyptian obelisk wind up in turkey?
Like the one Calvin has. And it is super expensive hahaha
Love the story and I can smell feet. I so envy your experiences. But thank you for sharing. I really enjoy how you transport me there.
LisaB
I don’t know what a DSLR is but it sounds expensive. Lol.
The ceiling of the mosque is amazing! You need to get a DSLR for all your subsequent adventures.
And I’m so glad that nothing has rivaled my squattie experience in China as of yet haha.
Haha…I’m glad you like it. I can’t wait to visit you up in Norway. Perhaps in the summer, when it’s warmer in Norway. Haha! 8D
It is so great to read about your adventure in Turkey, Monica! I am envious. Can’t wait for the next part, it is great entertainment during working hours
Thanks for stopping by Mike. I’ve added you to my blogroll. Can you show me where your links are? I can’t seem to find it on your site.
Thanks!
Monica
Monica,
Great Site! I have added you to our blog roll.
Would you do the same?
Thanks!
We went to Istanbul this past April and just loved it! The history and culture really speak to you.
Hi Dwight! Thanks so much for stopping by and what you’re doing for the Thailand community is amazing. You’re an inspiration. When I come to visit Thailand I’ll definitely get in touch with you. I’d love to be involved in your causes.
I hope you guys do make it out there. The weather is great and I’m sure you’ll love it as much as I did. I spent 8 days there and feel like there is still so much more to see and do. Let me know when you do make it out there. I’ll have to follow along vicariously through your blog posts.
I will share this link with my gf… She is always a fan of Turkey; we actually planned to be here some months back but we were not able to get some synchronize schedule out of sunny Singapore.
Thanks!!
I love all the detail in the story, especially regarding the people you saw and met. I hope you keep sharing about these off the beaten track, priceless adventures. Your experiences will help encourage people to also spend time helping teach or spread the word about these migrant communities. Thanks.
I love all the detail in the story, especially regarding the people you saw and met. I hope you keep sharing about these off the beaten track, priceless adventures. Your experiences will help encourage people to also spend time helping teach or spread the word about these migrant communities. Thanks.
Haha…yea, who else would it be. He’s a big kid himself.
Aww…I must admit, I teared up a little writing this post myself. I wonder if any of those children remember me. But I know that if I were to return soon, not many would have remained. I’m sure their parents have already packed their bags to go where ever there is work.
Thanks for always stopping by.
Amazing.
P.S. Is that who I think it is in the red sweatshirt and baseball cap?
Monica, God bless you for you loving efforts with then beautiful children. I have tears because your words have moved me. As a teacher, I just want to pack up and save each one of them and give them the gift of education. I know education makes all of the difference. Many of the students I have are “at risk” but trying to “hook them” into the educational experience is so challenging. I, too, hear “I hate school. It’s boring. I can’t wait to til it’s over.” I wish my kids could meet your kids. Maybe a miracle could happen.
From one teacher to another, thank you for your loving efforts with thouse beautiful children.
Lisa
trust me it’s paradise. it’s where the hungry comes to feed. for mine is a generation the circled the globe looking for something that we haven’t tried before. so never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never outstay your welcome. just keeps your mind open and suck in the experience; and if it hurts, you know what, it’s probably worth it
Stunning!
Haha…uh, thanks.
I’ve never been to Cambodia or Southeast Asia for that matter. But trust me, it’s on my list of places to go.
hey monica this has nothing to do with your travel but you are HOT!!! sorry if i sound like a jerk but i’m just saying that’s all. anyway have u ever been to cambodia? man o man it’s beautiful.
Haha…it’s not hot in the Hagia Sophia but it’s not really that cool either (temperature wise) When we go to a museum here, we get a blast of air conditioning. It’s not like that in Istanbul. The air conditioning is barely on. If you climb a flight of stairs on a warm day, you’ll start to sweat a little.
The weather is great though – between the low 60’s and low high 70’s. It does get hot but only if you walk in the sun. It’s very comfortable walking in the shade. The good thing is that when it’s hot, it’s not humid hot. But the sun can be really strong. I forgot to put SPF one day and came home with a slight tan.
Thanks! The weather is absolutely beautiful. The morning’s are a little foggy but it clears up as the day goes by. The entire time I was there, the sky was blue, crisp and clear almost every single day.
Thanks for always stopping by. I hope it doesn’t take forever for me to crank them out. The next one is going to be about The Blue Mosque!
appreciate day 2, thanks. and the sweating made me wonder – how hot is it there in Sept?
cool pictures. always wanted to visit turkey. how’s the weather over there?
Thanks for sharing as always. I look forward to the other 15 installments!
Lisa
The first picture is one of my only good picture. I’ve got to work on my photography skills but I’m determine to do it without PhotoShopping and editing.
Haha…thanks! I’m glad it made you laugh.
When I went to Beijing last time, I saw a million of those tour groups too. I feel that seeing them kind of detracts from the whole experience…
But that first picture is amazing!
You’re absolutely right. China isn’t a reflection of all non-westerns.
Bringing in an umbrella is an excellent tip. I never thought of that. Except a lot of the squat toilet stalls are very narrow. Sometimes I bang my head on the door getting up.
Haha…who knows? I never had to shower on top of a toilet before. That’s one for the books.
I’ll help you plan your next trip only if I get to come with you. Haha! That terrace was a pretty damn amazing. I forgot the mention that I had a view of the Hagia Sofia to my left and The Blue Mosque to my left. I’m going to have to insert that into post now.
But if you ever do plan to visit Istanbul, the Hali Hotel is THE hotel to stay in. Ask for Hip Hop Hasan or just Hasan. He doesn’t know I call him that.
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“As usual, with any tourist attraction, the weekend is war. Every other day is fair game. Just don’t go on Mondays. It’s closed.” – This one cracked me up! Very funny and very true!
I hope to visit Istanbul someday too. I’d love to see the Hagia Sophia!
WOW! $80 a day! You are SO hired for my next trip! I must confess. I am a total goober when it comes to planning for vacation. I am not good at math and I stumble through EXCEL. But I make a mean Word Document with a Table inserted. I love me some planning.
I am also WAY jealous about your lovely evening on the terrace. Sounds lovely and a chance in a lifetime.
Josh! You’re on Wordpress too! Should have told me sooner!
Hey Craig! Thanks for dropping by. Oct-Nov is a low season in Istanbul. I have a feeling you’re going to snatch some pretty good deals. Let me know when you book your tix! I’ll have to live vicariously through you because I miss Istanbul already.
About your quote ‘We, being Westerners, have an innate sense of privacy that non-Westerners don’t recognize. ‘
You shouldn’t call it non-Westerners, not ALL non-westerners do not recognize privacy, China does not represent ALL non-westerners.
Anyway, it’s just something used to be very common in China and we, Asians, already knew about their cultures so we always brought an umbrella to block it at the ‘cubicle’ whenever we visited China toilets.
Thank you, intrepid traveler!
There is a great chance I shall be on my own Turkish adventure delight this coming October – November. I look forward to learning about through your eyes….
stay adventurous,
Craig
Tsk, tsk, tsk. Don’t let it happen again. As punishment, you’ll have to write about your trip to Taiwan & Hong Kong.
This is only one monument worth-seeing in Nanjing. This city in China has an extraordinary cultural and historical load.
Looking forward to this series…
Love it! I’m so sad I missed it
Disney songs.
A great story indeed! I’m glad I didn’t have to experience it myself though.
I just read the blog post you linked to by the way. A shower head above the toilet!? Haha! I wonder whose inconvenient idea that was.
Calling them pot holes is just being way too kind — but I love it! haha
Omgosh, I thought it was only Asia that had ridiculous toilets! You’ve got a great story yourself!
You’re welcome. I speak Mandarin but it is a bit rusty now.
The baby wasn’t wearing diapers and the back of his pants were split open revealing his butt cheeks and rashes.
No, I can’t claim the rights to this one. It’s by Dragonroy. If you can click on the image, you’ll see an entire gallery.I thought this was a very strong picture as well. It definitely made a statement. What’s interesting is that the guy in the left corner looks like he’s about to hock a loogie on the poor old man and the lady just looks disgusted.
Remember that mom and her baby eating out of a garbage can when we were walking out of McDonald’s in China??? That was so upsetting.
Did you take this photo? I absolutely LOVE it? It is honest, powerful, and this poor soul still seems to have an air of dignity to him. Really a strong picture!
Thanks so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it. Do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?
Yea, sometimes even the western toilets have footprints on the seat. Some Chinese people aren’t accustomed to sitting on a toilet so they stand on it to poo and pee.
I just had breakfast right before I read your comment and right now, it’s not sitting too well in there. Haha! Funny you mentioned shower stall – when I first arrived in Shanghai, the hotel room I stayed in had a shower head right above the toilet (western toilet). It was the dumbest place to put it because I had to stand on top of the toilet to shower.
You can read about it here: http://apairofpantiesandboxers.wordpress.com/2009/07/18/hello-shanghai/
I do not miss those pot holes at all. I remember the last time I went back to China, the mall we were shopping at was so clean and big and simply WOW. It was so modern. Then we went into the bathroom and there they were – pot holes. -__- haha
Monica:
I love your blog! Like you, I also studied Chinese in China and am also 1/4 Chinese. Your blog brings me back to those times!
Awesome Adventure. Now you have great story to tell, even if the adventure itself was less than private! I too found a similar bathroom in France on a drive to the country (at a local rest stop). It was like a shower stall with foot pedestals raised upon the ground/aka recipient of human waste. I had to balance why hanging out the girl goodies (or so it felt). Then there was a “flush handle”, hanging chain and pulling it brough a rush of river rapid water to wash away the waste. Luckily I saw it coming and jumped back onto dry & sanitary ground. Otherwise my legs/feet might have been swept out to sea by a tsunami of waste water rushing toward the drain. Ick! BUT I WAS in France and I have a story to share that always brings giggles.
Thanks! All the pictures came out looking amazing. Guess it’s just part of the magic up there.
The sun came up about 10 minutes before we reached the top.
That’s a nice shot you have there.
Did the sun come out just when you guys got to the top?
It baffles me as well. It might be controversial to say but perhaps the events of Nagasaki and Hiroshima was karama at work.
I don’t there will be any kind of apology from the Japanese government anytime soon. They don’t recognize the existence of these events. They even tell their own citizens that The Rape of Nanjing was made up by the Chinese government.
There are simply no words…. I cannot understand what causes one human being, supposedly composed of the dame DNA as the rest of us, to commit such atrocities, particularly directed at the weak and vulnerable. I weep for those 300,000 souls and pray for their eternal peace. For those who are responsible for these atrocities, I hope they face Eternal Justice.
Very illuminating. Was there ever a formal apology (whatever it’s worth to the victims and their families)?
“Dr. Sun Yatsen traveled the world knowing that it was the only way to acquire the knowledge and ideas he needed to promote unity amongst the Chinese people and to further develop China as a nation.”
- This is certainly a very good reason to travel.
I think there are also a lot of Filipino-Chinese who hails from the same province as D. Sun Yatsen. And they have built schools here and named it after him.
Haha…that is a very hard question to answer. But if I had to choose, I’d say The Great Wall. I plan to walk every inch of it from beginning to end. And when I’m done, I’m going to travel along the Silk Road.
Monica,
Only five days in Beijing? That must have been torture trying to cram everything in. It looks like you managed to get in all the great attractions. Beijing is one of my favorite cities and I’m quite anxious to go back. I lived in China for three years and spent a lot of time in Beijing. It saddens me to learn that they are tearing down the hutongs. They are definitely a main attraction for me. My husband and I spent hours wandering those beautiful old streets. It’s like stepping back into time. Just curious – I’m sure it’s hard to answer, but what was your favorite attraction in Beijing? I love the hutongs and the bustling street life near Wangfujie.
Amen.
Thanks for the encouragement Lisa. I try to do what I can with a 9-7.
I’ve seen pictures of the Summer Palace during the spring and summer time. It’s a very charming place. I can totally see myself living there like an empress. Haha!
Haha…actually, I’m not fit at all. I’m on my ass 9-7 and I do yoga once a month. I don’t know how I climbed up that mountain but like Confucius said, “The journey of one thousand miles beings with one single step.”
It’s only breaking the law because the government says so. And they make the rules so I guess we have to play by them.
I can’t take credit for the picture. That’s all my friend Jabari.
Thanks Richard! China is amazing and I feel like I’ve only scraped the surface. I didn’t take all of the pictures so I can only take partial credit. Thanks for stopping by.
As always, I enjoy the story and the photo! Keep up the good work. I really felt the cold as you told the story!
When I was there — it was early summer and the Summer Palace was a great escape from the city! Beautiful vistas of the lake, a breeze fluttering, waves gleaming and willows kissing the ripples of a well manicured shoreline! Just a beautiful area (weather permitting)!
Yes, the photo does say it all.
And no, I wouldn’t say that taxi driver is a criminal. Some rules are meant to be broken. Sometimes, people need to break the law in one way or another to serve a better purpose. In this case, to provide for his family.
Terrific definition of tourists vs travelers by the way.
Hi Monica – I just came across your site now and wanted to let you know your photos are stunning. China looks amazing.
Wow, this is awesome! 7,200 steps?! You really must be very fit to have conquered that. Really such an extraordinary experience.
Love the story, Love the perspective of the picture, Love the colors!
Wow – great “about” page! I like the EE Cummings quote. Will be reading….
I really hope you get a chance to go. If you do, let me know. I just might join you.
China is really vast and I’ve only scrapped the surface. If I could, I’d probably spend a couple of years there just exploring. That would be a great life.
Absolutely beautiful photos. I think that part of the wall could possibly kill me if I didn’t prepare to walk it. It has to be awesome to have the wall to yourself sans tourists.
I’m really hoping to visit China in the next few years and the Great wall is on the top of the list of things to see.
I’ve been to West Lake in Hangzhou but not the Great Wall. China is just too big to explore all places.
Love your last photo of the snowman.
Thanks for the link exchange!
Sounds like Datong is the less traveled route. I might make it my next trek on The Great Wall. Thanks for stopping by.
Haha! Thanks Lisa.
Monica—proving that if a picture is worth 1,000 words—both are greater than the sum of their parts. I’ve fond memories, too, of the great wall—particularly outside of Datong, where it’s little more than a derelict hill of mud and bricks traversing some rolling hills. Thanks for sharing!
Monica,
You would have passed my class with an A+ because it’s not remembering facts, its understanding relationships on the globe, including cause and effect. You are so brillant and you don’t know it. I plan to stick around because I can live vicariously through you.
Thanks so much for your kind words Lisa. As a student, I would have failed your class. Geography, History and Science were my worst subjects. I’ve always hate remembering facts because they mean absolutely nothing to me. Anyone can write about the history of a location. Google is our best friend.
But I never travel with the intention of remember names and places. I travel with the intention of understanding the cause and effect of everything around me. I’m more of a hands-on kind of student.
Thanks for dropping by. I hope you stick around.
I think it’s a great idea for local businesses to donate a portion of their profits. Perhaps as a result, children will have a better chance at receiving an education, which is crucial in relieving poverty. But there’s such a great disparity between the rich and poor. Unlike the US, education isn’t free in China. Many families can’t afford to send their children to school. It’s even more difficult for migrant families, which are plenty in China.
Thanks Carrie. Wow, three years? I wish I could have a career that would take me all over the world.
I visited Kaifeng the middle of December. I don’t remember it being very cold but the fog was no joke.
Okay, as a geography teacher, I enoy the location. As a fellow blogger, I love the beauty of your pictures and the stories you tell.
A very touching story, Monica. Poverty is something that we should never turn a blind eye to, especially when we are traveling. We are all in a position to help, even if it’s just a small donation of food, clothing or time. Some countries with a high number of street kids (like Cambodia and Vietnam) have set up restaurants or laundry services which donate half of their earnings to keeping kids of the street. I’d love to see this happen in China.
Great post Monica. My husband and I lived in northeast China for three years. Heavy fog like this was a common occurrence during the winter. What time of year was this?
Haha! I know. I messed it up. I look like I’m about to choke it. Too bad I don’t know how to use photoshop.
I haven’t been to India yet. Hmm…I might make that my next trip. Which part of India did you visit? I was thinking about going to northern India…Agra, Delhi, Rajasthan. When would you say is the best time to go to northern India?
I think the Great Wall actually looks better with snow
Love the snowmen – now, if you can only just photoshop out the hands! LOL
I have that exact same feeling about Pepsi and India. In the summers when we went to visit my grandparents in India, I would walk to the corner store and buy Pepsis that were dewy with condensation. The intense fizz of the Pepsi would sit on my tongue, awaken me, and refresh me in that torrid summer heat.
Haha…yes they are. Sometimes they’re better than postcards.
Lol, well yeah, the experience is everything but photos are cool too!
Hi Pepin,
Each blog serves a different purpose. Some highlight pictures and others focus on the logistics. But for me, I’m not a photographer and I don’t have a very good memory when it comes to mundane stuff like pricing. And even though logistics and expenses are very important, I value my experiences much more. It really doesn’t matter how I get there and how much I paid. Just as long as I’m there.
Anyway, thanks for stopping by. I’ve added you to my blogroll as well.
Happy Travelings!
Monica
Interesting post.
I’ve been wondering how to make my travel blog different from the other million ones already out there.
You’re right about telling about the experience aside from just talking about photos and prices. It brings out the personality of the blog.
I hope you don’t mind if I put you in my blogroll.
Thanks!
-Pepin
adventuretravelasia.blogspot.com
I can’t believe you went all the way to Beijing for KFC. Haha!
There’s a restuarant in the city that serves it – http://www.pekingduckhousenyc.com. I’ve never been there though.
LOVE this post.
My experience: best meal in the whole city (excluding Peking duck) was the KFC bucket we got on the train ride back to Shanghai.
LOVE peking duck.
Thanks for stopping by Jokin! I’m glad you like it here. Hope you stick around!
I don’t want to bring the discussion down, but I was once taken out for a very nice lunch here:
http://is.gd/2B3F5
They even have an info page, complete with cheesy music:
http://is.gd/2B3Jx
Just to show that the story is known about!
That’s one of the best fog photos I think I’ve ever seen… Thank you!
Thanks for stopping by and exchanging links. I really appreciate it.
That sounds very similar to The Rape of Nanjing – the rape, the murder, the beheading contests, etc. The Japanese tried to imperialize Asia but they failed.
Thanks for kind wishes. I look forward to learning everything that the educational instutition fails to teach us.
This is such a moving piece, Monica. I felt angry and sad that those Longmen Grottoes were “beheaded”. Which kinda reminds me of what happened here in the Philippines during the Japanese occupation (World War 2). The atrocities of the Japanese army – how they used their bayonets to behead Filipino civilians as well as soldier, how they raped Filipina women and treated them as sex slaves – these are not written on most history books, too.
May your journeys continue to bring you to other interesting places and open your eyes and your heart to what others don’t always see and feel.
Hi Monica!
I’m glad you’ve followed us on twitter. I’ve been checking your posts and really liked your adventures and writing.
Definitely, I’ll keep an eye on your blog and twitts
My friend who has been around China since the mid-’80s tells a great story about being invited to Shabbat dinner in Kaifeng. He still has a yarmulke that they gave him. Unfortunately, I never made it out there…maybe next time I visit.
Hi Sunday! Thanks for stopping by. I have only scrapped the surface in China. I’m looking to go back again. But it seems like you do your fair share of traveling too. I’m very jealous.
Sad…I wouldn’t be surprised if some were even sold in the black market.
Love your site! We will add your links to ours as soon as we get back online!! Keep up the good work!
I am enjoying all your shots of these beautiful places in China. They are indeed surreal. It is a goal of mine one day to traveling throughout the depths of China and capture the historical essence of the country and land. For now, I will continue to read and awe at your travels.
- Sunday
In my weekend travels the past two weeks, I saw plenty of decapitated Buddha statues…
Most of these are probably in the museums or in the homes of antique collectors.
“The beauty of traveling through China is that sometimes, I feel like I’m in two places at once – the past and the present.” – Love your caption! And I love this photo! Epic
Wow…that’s pretty amazing. I wouldn’t even know how far back I can trace my roots. I never tried to but perhaps I should.
I had no idea there were Jews in Shanghai. Now I feel kind of jipped. I studied abroad in Shanghai for half a year. I guess I was too busy discovering other parts of China that I never really saw past the nightlife and bright lights.
Oh well, now I have an excuse to go back.
If I could I’d do it all over again. And this time, I’ll be prepared for that 4 hour trek with some Lucky Charms minus the cereal.
Monica, your blog is beautiful! And that is the most serious fog I’ve ever, um…seen!
My mom, a genealogist, has traced our Jewish family back to Persia in 1170, and has found clues that some of our ancestors were part of the merchant diaspora who settled in China. Who knew?
While Chinese Judaism might be gone from Kaifeng, there are still traces to be found in Shanghai…and it turns out you can book a tour to see it.
Check out this website for more information: http://www.shanghai-jews.com/
I did wonder about the story behind the blog title.
Sounds/looks like you had a great day, despite the long trek!
Hi Shelyn,
Thanks for the link exchange. I’ve already added you to my blogroll.
Hi, thanks for visiting my site and leaving me comment.
I’ve added your link to my website. Can you add mine also?
Happy traveling!
Of course there was but we were afraid it wouldn’t dry in time to wear in the morning. Lol.
Thanks! Just for you, I’ll see what I can find.
OK – funny story…….but, was there no sink for hand laundry in your room? ROFL
Absolutely gorgeous photo. I’d love to see more photo’s from here.
Great introduction Monica! Thanks for contacting me. I can tell by your writing that you have a zest for life and I’m looking forward to reading more about your adventures. Keep ‘em coming!
Thanks for sticking around to read it all. A little goes a long way if every one does a little about it. But for me , a little isn’t enough. I’m looking to do more. Just have to figure out how.
I hope you enjoy the rest of my posts.
Thanks for dropping by Osman. Glad you like the photo.
That’s so tough to read, especially about children and poverty. It tears at your heart to witness how the young (and old) struggle, but it seems more painful when it’s a child. I’m glad you were able to do something to help the little boy out, even if it’s just a little. Remember, a little can go a long way.
(I’m slowly reading through your posts, so bear with me!)
Monica you have a wonderful blog and I like your words about travel!
That’s such an impressive photo!
Let me know when you do. I just might come with you.
Amazing! When I travel to China, I’ll be sure to visit this.
Surreal
Hey there, thanks for dropping by!
Nice entries…. photos look great. I have never been to China before, your posts definitely make me wanna check the country out! Maybe someday soon, maybe next year!
Hey! Thanks for dropping by. There are so many more pictures I wish I could put up but I’m redesigning my site right now. The new look should be up in a couple of weeks and when I get everything working right it will be pictures galore. Stick around! ;]
Hey Wynnii! Yes, let’s definitely keep in touch!
Hi Monica! Thanks for writing to me. I’ve added you onto my blogroll.
Let’s chat. I’ll send you an email.
I like the inspiration behind the title.
I’m in love with your blog’s pictures. It’s the trip to China I’ve never taken.
Hey Suhasini!
Thanks for stopping by. I haven’t been to India yet but I do look forward to going sometime soon. I’m not a millionaire and I know that I will never be a millionaire but I’m trying to find a way to travel as much as I can and still make a decent living.
Do you know of any volunteer traveling in India?
Hey, I love your blog….
“Life should be lived with passion. Traveling makes me feel that way. It makes me feel alive to discover bits and pieces of myself and of humanity along the way. But sometimes, I forget. I forget because I’m afraid of being financially unstable.”
– very beautiful lines indeed.
I too love traveling like you. Had I been a millionaire, I would spend all my life only on traveling.
Good work. Keep traveling and writing.
Btw, have u been to India?
Regards,
Suhasini
http://indiancolumbus.blogspot.com
A unique travel blog
Well, at least you have a better chance of seeing Portishead than I would.
China won’t be for a while … ah ha ha – South America first if I can manage it … Sweden & Finland actually – need money first … it’s always money …
As per usual, I friggin LOVE your photographs – your first one is absolutely amazing. I can’t really describe how you do it … light, angle, crop – don’t know, they’re just brilliant.
Ha ha ha – I learnt early on that looking good at any concert isn’t worth it when you end up sweating your ass off after jumping up and down for hours … I would friggin love to see Tool live (I probably won’t get an opportunity now that I am living here … bah ha ha)
Yea, I heard that they had a moving exhibition in London. It doesn’t beat seeing them ALL in one pit though. So crazy! They’re still digging for more.
Maybe China can be your next trip!
That shit is amazing … I have always wanted to see it, they were in London for about a year – and I kept delaying seeing it.
It just means I have an excellent excuse to go to China (other than the food!!!
Great stuff. I hope you liked Xi’an. Thanks for stopping by my site.
How fitting the lyrics…<3
I’m sure there will be another trip you’ll make to China somewhere in the future. Maybe make a pit stop when you go to Taiwan later this year.
“Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away…..”
That was a great picture of an amazing sunset.
“Shine on forever
Shine on benevolent sun
Shine down upon the severed
Shine until the two become one”
- from Jambi -
enjoy the day……
That’s so pretty! I don’t remember my Hangzhou pictures being that nice….granted, I probably didn’t enjoy my trip as much as you did b/c I had a final the day after…..haha
Hey Jen,
Thanks for stopping by! I’ve been following your blog for a while now on Google Reader. That thing is like crack. Haha! I’m glad you’ve enjoyed my posts so far.
Traveling through China feels like being caught between the past and the present. Especially for me because I’m Chinese. I feel like barely scrapped the surface. There are still so many places to go see.
Hi Monica,
I’m new to your blog and I can’t wait to pillage your posts on China. I’m of Chinese descent but am sorry to say that I haven’t been to China yet. Soon, I hope!
That almost made me cry. And it took me a while to figure out who JC was, lol.
Aw, I wish I could take that compliment but those photos aren’t by me. If you click on the image, it will take you to the source. But in case of future confusion, I added an image source to bottom of the photo…just to be clear.
Again, photography is amazing …
You’re a magnificent Photographer … shit! I hope to get there one day. You make it sound like every other major city, but I guess they all start to be the same when you’ve seen them all huh.
Love it!
Great idea to start a travel blog to keep the travel bug alive! Glad you liked our blog, I started ages before our trip as a way of keeping the excitment in check. It’s good to have that to work on when there is not much else I can do for the time being. Looking forward to seeing how your blog develops.