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Why I’m Glad I Gave Brooklyn a Try

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

Contributed by @kirsten_al


I used to be one of those people who disliked Brooklyn. Ashamedly, I had no air tight reasons for this as I had never even been to Brooklyn. It was a simple prejudice. That prejudice is what led me during my first two visits to New York City to nearly steer clear of Brooklyn all together. I walked the Brooklyn Bridge. It seemed a must since the bridge is a landmark in and of itself, and for an architecture and history buff like myself, somewhat of a mecca. The Brooklyn side of the bridge that sits in the borough is as far as I got.

On my third trip to NYC, accompanied by my best friend, and at the behest of another friend – I finally had to put my Brooklyn prejudice to the test. That visit took me to the Dumbo area of town and started knocking down some walls that, as it turns out, were weak to begin with. We ate at Grimaldi’s Pizza on Old Fulton Street.  I was surprised to find it lived up to the hype, even with an hour wait. After tasting NYC style pizza in Manhattan, Grimaldi’s still became my favorite pizza of the five boroughs.  The atmosphere is part dive bar, part kitschy Little Italy and the owner greets customers in person. There is even a poster on the wall of The Godfather.  The flavor of their thin crust pizza, made with just the right amount of fresh mozzarella is as good as what you’d find in Rome (my best friend attested to this since she’s actually been there).

After pizza, while walking the riverfront, I enjoyed coffee ice cream from the aptly named Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory and it rocked my world.  It was creamy, rich in flavor and tasted homemade in that way which cannot entirely be described. You just have to try it to understand.  To conclude our night in Dumbo, we took in the glittering Manhattan skyline from the beach at Empire-Fulton Ferry State Park.  I couldn’t deny standing on the beach that Brooklyn wasn’t so bad after all. The view was incredible, glittering and expansive, including two of New York City’s many bridges.  Of course, I still wasn’t willing to concede a love of Brooklyn. Even then.

During my fourth trip to New York City, I actually stayed in Brooklyn; overnight and for a week. And survived, barely. If you’ve ever tried getting home from Manhattan via subway at two in the morning on a weekend, you’ll understand why I added “barely”.  My last morning in New York, I attended the Brooklyn Flea Market on Lafayette Street. It will go in my top five favorite flea markets in the country for its diversity of wares and many incredible homemade food stands, as I’ve become quite the seasoned flea market shopper.  After trying a sip of the Apple Ginger Soda from the aptly named Brooklyn Soda Works, I had an epiphany: “I’ve fallen in love with Brooklyn”.  I never saw it coming. I’d wanted to dislike Brooklyn thinking I had no room in my heart for love of any borough outside Manhattan. Such is true with so much of life though; it’s the things that sneak up on us which are most special. When we look to fall in love with people or places, sometimes we’re let down. I’m glad I gave Brooklyn a try. I cannot imagine it will ever replace Manhattan in my heart, but I’ve found there is room for both. They are after all, different – yet, both great.

If you find yourself in BK, as the locals say, I recommend the following places as additional examples of why I no longer hate Brooklyn. For brunch, Tom’s Restaurant on Washington Avenue is a must. Prepare yourself to wait in line, but also to receive free coffee, cookies or fruit while doing so.  The vanilla egg cream made me a believer.  For beer, burgers and bocce ball, Union Hall on Union Street has class oozing out of its pores; it surprised me in the most pleasant way. There’s a sort of English gentleman’s club feel to the place that’s still relevant to a Brooklyn bar.  It also has a concert venue downstairs. For art, the Brooklyn Museum is a must. In my opinion, it doesn’t compare to the MET but it will win you over in smaller ways. It’s known for good visiting shows and has a painting of Niagara Falls the size of an entire wall that’s mesmerizing.  While I was there, they were hosting an Andy Warhol retrospective that was the best I’ve ever seen.  Lastly, a stroll along the Prospect Park Loop is fabulous even on a rainy day!

Traveling Around The World For Love

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Guest post by @kirsten_al


I owe some of my best travel experiences to men I’ve loved, lost and placed on pedestals of all shapes and sizes.  I’ve traveled to England, Colorado, Jamaica, Mexico and to a cornfield in rural Illinois in pursuit of men, to prove something to men or even to get over men.

In 2003, I took a road trip with my friend C to a music festival called Cornerstone. It was held truly in the middle of nowhere Illinois.  We went not just because of our love for music and camping.  We went because the men we were dating had taken road trips to music festivals every summer, purposely leaving us behind because it “wasn’t a girl’s thing”.  C and I attended Cornerstone in defiance to the “no girls allowed” rule we’d painfully endured for years.  That year’s music festival was filled with dirt, bugs, muddy water, sweat, unnamed roads and crappy food. I also heard the most amazing music and made some of the best memories of my life.  I owe that experience to the men who told us we weren’t allowed to ever have it.

In the same year, I fell in love with Colorado; and with an architect named B.  Summer romance turned into a long distance relationship and in the fall, I flew out twice to see him in Denver and Boulder.  We hiked a 14er – Mt. Bierstadt, indulged in a concert at Red Rocks, drank too many mojitos under the sparking lights of a city night and made out in the aisles of Tattered Cover.  B and I didn’t last through Christmas but my love of Colorado lives on to this day.  I owe that love to the architect who quoted my poetry handwritten on monogrammed stationary.

When I was in high school, I went on a number of humanitarian aid trips during my summer breaks.  Though I told every one I knew or loved I was going to Mexico and Jamaica purely to help people, the hard truth is that I was motivated by boys I had a crush on who were also signed up to go.  The trip to Mexico didn’t pan out romantically, but it did open my eyes to the poverty outside my four walls.  In Jamaica, I got really “lucky” and met E from Virginia.  E and I carried on a passionate affair via the postal system for years after that trip.  It’s because of E that when I think of Jamaica I still get warm fuzzies.

Mexico is also where I returned after my divorce last year, to drown my sorrows in sunsets, tequila sunrises and indulge in a passionate affair with a fellow traveler who showed me parts of Mexico I’d not even come close to experiencing as an innocent teenager!  I owe my current love of Mexico to a man who made me reexamine a place I’d previously written off, after a bad experience the first time around.

Perhaps my pattern of male-centric travel is hereditary!  If it wasn’t for my mother wanting to “stick it to” her husband, I might never have stood in front of Stonehenge.  It was in junior high that my mother pulled me out of school for two weeks gallivanting around England.  That first passport changed me forever and very firmly planted my feet in the shoes of a life-long traveler and adventurer.  I owe my trip across the pond to a man whose abuse pushed my mother to take drastic measures of escape.

I also may owe my love of travel to my mother.  She is an artist who sees the whole world as inspiration for her colorful canvases.  I cannot paint, but I do know my way around a camera.  It’s with the eye of a photographer that I continue to travel and have finally learned to do so not because of, or in spite of men; but because for me, to not travel is to not live.  Traveling is now my way of life and love is no longer defined only romantically.

If you’re interested in becoming a contributor or guest blogging for A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please feel free to contact me.

About Kirsten

Kirsten Alana is a photographer and travel writer currently in the Midwest who is planning a late 2010 move to the East or West coast. She always has a quote ready and waiting to share. She’s an avid Jane Austen fan, adventure & experience junkie, Francophile, passionate fan of Mexico, Apple and Canon geek, New Englander by birth and the daughter of an artist. Kirsten also loves to support charities and her current favorite is “Charity:Water”.

Jersey Shore, More Than Fist Pumps

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

Contributed by @kirsten_al

Jersey Shore

Like many people who are either from or have lived in the Midwest for a long time (I fall into the latter group), I left for a recent trip to The Jersey Shore with little knowledge of the place other than what I picked up from reality TV.  I’ve never watched a full episode but I know where the “fist pump” in current pop culture comes from and I know that the term “guido” isn’t a reference to an Italian mob boss, someone who I worked for during my days in real estate development!

After 3 days in Sea Bright, Monmouth Beach and Long Branch, I can tell you unequivocally that there is more to the Jersey Shore than fist pumps and guidos.  The people I met were not only intelligent but warm and friendly and it seemed to me that family was a priority, not fake melodrama!

Jersey Shore

Surfing is popular along this stretch of the Atlantic Ocean and I even met a guy who crafts his own surfboards.  If you’re looking for a great beach, there are many.  While most of the best beaches are private, you can find quite a few options for public access to the water along Ocean Avenue.  The stretch of sand we settled on was in Monmouth Beach. The water was clear and the beach wasn’t crowded on a Saturday afternoon.  The waves were large enough to satisfy beginning surfers to those who are more experienced. A wet suit in June is a must. The water is cold till August.

Stop by Tasti D-Lite on Ocean Avenue between Brighton and Montgomery in Long Branch for dessert. It’s been featured in various films and television shows like Sex & The City.  The Italian lemon ice may have been the best I’ve ever had.  Next door you will find the quintessential greasy beach food stand: The Windmill. It’s hailed as a true Jersey Shore landmark with the best hot dogs and fries on the eastern shore (or so I’m told).  A great non-chain coffee shop is The Inkwell off of 2nd Avenue close to where Cedar and Ocean intersect.

I’m an architecture junkie so I always love looking at homes and public buildings.  I’m fascinated by the appearance of a place.  From Sea Bright to Monmouth, whether large or small, every home has a distinctive character.  The landmark at Monmouth University features breathtaking examples of both American and European architecture.  Apparently, it also plays host to many of the area’s best cultural events – like a recent series in cooperation with The Metropolitan Opera!

I’ll be moving to New York City soon and I can imagine myself escaping to The Jersey Shore again.  Next time though, I’ll go when the water is warmer!

If you’re interested in becoming a contributor or guest blogging for A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please feel free to contact me.

About Kirsten

Kirsten Alana is a photographer and travel writer currently in the Midwest who is planning a late 2010 move to the East or West coast. She always has a quote ready and waiting to share. She’s an avid Jane Austen fan, adventure & experience junkie, Francophile, passionate fan of Mexico, Apple and Canon geek, New Englander by birth and the daughter of an artist. Kirsten also loves to support charities and her current favorite is “Charity:Water”.

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A Francophile In A French Bakery

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

Contributed by @kirsten_al

For as long as I can remember I’ve been a complete Francophile.  On a recent trip to Charlotte, North Carolina I discovered that not only is there a technical term for people like me, there is also a Francophile mecca that’s opened 24 hours a day.

Amelie’s Bakery & Café is located in NoDa, an art district with a plethora of good food and unique art. Amelie’s is a French pastry shop and café with free internet, an amazing selection of sugary sweets, an eclectic clientele and gorgeous décor featuring many Robert Doisneau photographs. Designed by Brenda Ische of Ische Interiors, Amelia’s has a truly fabulous atmosphere.

During my visit I witnessed people ranging from ages five to 75.  The common denominator was that every person there seemed to have a distinct personal style.  Most were typing away on Apple laptops, reading a book or engaging in friendly debate with a friend.  I didn’t want to just stay and eat. I wanted to move in!  I walked out with two boxes of sweet French pastries that rocked my world and made my week. In between picking my jaw up off the floor, I also took a few photographs!  The salted caramel brownie was my favorite sweet; though the traditional Palmiers were quite thrilling as were the Eclairs.

I’d venture to say that anyone could find something to love at Amelie’s.  Even if you don’t feel you fit into any of the above categories – give it a try the next time you are in Charlotte.  A trip to Amelie’s is cheaper than a trip to Paris. No matter how many boxes of pastries you walk out with, your stomach will thank you!

If you’re interested in becoming a contributor or guest blogging for A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please feel free to contact me.

About Kirsten

Kirsten Alana is a photographer and travel writer currently in the Midwest who is planning a late 2010 move to the East or West coast. She always has a quote ready and waiting to share. She’s an avid Jane Austen fan, adventure & experience junkie, Francophile, passionate fan of Mexico, Apple and Canon geek, New Englander by birth and the daughter of an artist. Kirsten also loves to support charities and her current favorite is “Charity:Water”.

Beer and Pizza in Savannah

Monday, May 24th, 2010

Contributed by @kirsten_al

As an American, I’m certainly not immune to the love of beer and pizza.  During my recent trip to Savannah, I was overwhelmed with happiness when I discovered that the city had so much of both to offer.  As an added bonus, a To-Go cup policy allowed pedestrians to drink alcoholic beverages in public as long as it was in a 16 ounce plastic cup!  What can I say to strolling through one of Savannah’s 22 public squares with a slice in one hand and a beer in the other? Yes, please!

After four days in Savannah, I ended up with two favorite pizza places: Vinnie Van GoGo, located in the touristy City Market area but retains all the charm of a classic hole-in-the-wall pizzeria, and Mellow Mushroom, a place farther back from the river on shady West Liberty Street.

At Vinnie’s I was enticed by the ability to customize any slice of pizza.  Instead of having to order a whole pie, I could order by the slice and enjoy each slice with a different topping.  Vinnie’s has a good beer selection and features both indoor and outdoor seating.

Mellow Mushroom offered amazing pizza but I also devoured the best Caesar salad I’ve ever eaten. It’s been a few weeks and I’m still craving it! Mushroom has an extensive beer selection on tap and an even more extensive collection on bottles.  As the name befits, the vibe is mellow, artistic and evocative of the period that produced “Yellow Submarine” by The Beatles.  There’s a saying at the Mushroom, “Happiness is expressed in pizza.”  I couldn’t agree more!

To complete my experience of eating and drinking my way through Savannah, I asked my pedicab driver (a student at SCAD) to recommend a bar loved by locals.  He enthusiastically drove me to a Scottish Pub, Molly MacPherson’s.  Besides an extensive beer selection, Molly’s also offers the largest selection of Scottish Malt Whiskey on the East Coast. It features at least one whiskey from every producing region in Scotland.  The vibe at Molly’s makes it an enjoyable place to spend the evening. Even dessert was unique – a sticky toffee pudding to rival all my usual dessert favorites.  I went back a second time just for the pudding!

If you’re interested in becoming a contributor or guest blogging for A Pair of Panties & Boxers, please feel free to contact me.

About Kirsten

Kirsten Alana is a photographer and travel writer currently in the Midwest who is planning a late 2010 move to the East or West coast. She always has a quote ready and waiting to share. She’s an avid Jane Austen fan, adventure & experience junkie, Francophile, passionate fan of Mexico, Apple and Canon geek, New Englander by birth and the daughter of an artist. Kirsten also loves to support charities and her current favorite is “Charity:Water”.

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“A Map For Saturday” Review

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Guest post by @kirsten_al

Kirsten Alana, winner of the “A Map For Saturday” DVD, shares her review of Brooke-Silva Braga’s around-the-world documentary.

A Map For Saturday

“A Map for Saturday” tells the story of Brook Silva-Braga’s year spent traveling the world, living out of a backpack in 2005. The name comes from a feeling that Brook says you find, living this kind of lifestyle. He describes it as the feeling that it’s always Saturday – not really a vacation but, still, you don’t have to go back to work tomorrow.

It starts out with a momentum that I think would get anyone excited, certainly anyone who enjoys traveling. There’s a definite “YES!” knot in my chest when one traveler says in the first few minutes “Maybe in 50-60 years I’m dead. I want to say, I had a good life.” The quick montage that follows makes me even more excited about the stories that are to come.

Not long after Brook is dropped off at the airport to begin his journey, he says, “So this is that moment where I’ve just said goodbye to everyone and it’s just starting to hit me that I’ll spend the next year without really anyone…that I know”. It seemed to me that if he had a moment of doubt in his whole journey that was the moment. When he lands in Sydney, his first stop, he has a momentary lapse of courage when he realizes the full magnitude of what his journey means. He arrives with no place to stay. It is a sunny, beautiful day in Australia, yet still there is a small fear of the unknown.

Brook starts out by honestly representing the rigors of backpacking round the world, then transitions into the joys. He returns again, before the documentary ends, to the problems that can be experienced partaking in this form of travel. Yet there wasn’t a single experience Brook encountered that I would turn down. Another quote that really resonated with me is, “In the span of a week, this whole experience has gone from very foreign and kind of intimidating to not only comfortable and enjoyable but really kind of great.” Even when Brook is getting ripped off by travel agents in India, encountering filthy bathrooms as the norm in Asia and friends are getting things stolen in Rio – I found myself thinking; it is all part of the experience. One unknown traveler said it best, “but that’s a backpacker’s life…”. All these things are made more bearable by a perk of backpacking around the world: the friends you make along the way. Brook still keeps in touch with many people he met in 2005 and while some people faded from his life as quick as a sunset, it seems everyone he met made some kind of positive impact on him.

Even if this type of lifestyle does not appeal to you at all, the scenery in the film might. From Angkor Wat to the Taj Mahal, to the beaches of Jericoacoara – there isn’t a shortage of beautiful vistas to marvel at. There’s also a focus on giving back through service while on the road. Brook spends some time in the Phi Phi Islands, site of the devastating tsunami in 2004 that practically leveled parts of Thailand. He and fellow travelers spend time rebuilding and helping locals in any way they can. It’s this chapter of the story that nearly brings me to tears – since this is what I long to do on a round the world journey.

But it’s Brook’s footage of national flags from the countries he traveled to at the closing of the film that finally does make cry. As I saw one waving flag after another, I felt that deep need in the pit of my stomach to pack a bag and go. I realized how few countries I’ve actually been to, in comparison to how many there are to see. I found myself with a need to get up and go so great that I just couldn’t hold back the tears. I found myself researching proper RTW backpacks all night long. I’ll be buying one soon and when I do, I’m armed with the realistic knowledge that living out of a backpack represents giving up a lot of the material comforts I used to find so reassuring. But it’s that giving up of material comforts that may just lead to the most positively life-changing experiences I will ever have. “A Map for Saturday” reminded me of this simple truth and is, in my opinion, the best film made about this style of international travel.

About Kirsten

Kirsten Alana is a photographer and travel writer currently in the Midwest who is planning a late 2010 move to the East or West coast. She always has a quote ready and waiting to share. She’s an avid Jane Austen fan, adventure & experience junkie, Francophile, passionate fan of Mexico, Apple and Canon geek, New Englander by birth and the daughter of an artist. Kirsten also loves to support charities and her current favorite is “Charity:Water”.

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