Posts Tagged ‘Nepal’

VolunTEARS: A Tale of Woe From a Traveling Do-Gooder

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

Guest post by @connvoyage

If you have a personal story, volunteer resources, tips and advice you’d like to share for Do Good Thursday, please email me at monica@apairofpantiesandboxers.com.

2010 was going to be my year of giving back. 2009 had been nothing short of amazing for me: living in a posh home in Istanbul, yacht trips on the Mediterranean, lazy mornings in London coffee houses, sleeping in a cave in the remote mountains of Petra under the star-lit night sky… My life has been amazing and as I started planning my Asia trip for 2010, I just knew that I had to give something back to this world that had given me such a privileged and wonderful life. I was going to volunteer abroad!

After weeks of research and contacting numerous organizations, I decided to help a group in Nepal with sustainable development for the country. Dozens of confirmation emails followed and I was feeling good about my decision. Fast forward a few months when I finally arrived into Katmandu and I found myself furious, upset, disappointed and crying, feeling cheated, used and exploited. As it turned out, I had fallen victim to a volunteer scam, which, unfortunately, is not uncommon. A growing number of international volunteers have found their volunteer experiences to be less than what they expected, including not having work to do when they arrived or finding out that their “program fees” did not go directly to the organization’s work.

Lucky for me, I was able to see through the lies immediately and didn’t lose any money (aside from my travel expenses) but many international volunteers do end up scammed out of money. Or worse, scammed out of their good intentions of helping others. Volunteering abroad can offer many amazing experiences, but it is important to understand that in developing countries where charity work can offer a sizeable income from well-intentioned donors, there is a lot of room for corruption and deceit.

Don’t be discouraged, there are A LOT of organizations out there that are doing good things! Just be smart, take some precautions and do your research. The experiences you will gain from volunteering abroad will offer you a changed perspective and a wonderful new outlook on life!

Some useful advice for anyone looking into volunteering abroad:

1. Always check for references

The organization’s website may look legitimate and they may even have a government-approved label of being a “charity organization,” but ALWAYS CHECK REFERENCES. Ask for emails of past volunteers and contact them to get a sense of what the volunteer experience will be. Don’t be shy to ask about the living arrangements as well!

2. Financial disclosure

The organization should be able to provide you with a financial break-down of their spendings. Makes sure that a majority of the money the organization makes from fundraising, donations, and your program fees goes back toward the organization and its programs.

3. Location, location, location

Do research to get a full sense of where exactly the volunteer organization is located as many cannot afford rent in the city center. Will there be things to do and places of interest to visit during your time off? Is there easy access to transportation to get around? You will be spending a significant amount of time in a foreign place and you don’t want to be bored while you’re there!

4. Word of mouth

Ask your friends and family if they, or anyone they know, have traveled abroad and done some volunteering. Travel forums and blogs are another good source of finding good volunteer organizations. Knowing someone who has had first-hand experience will give you a better sense of what to expect and can almost guarantee that you won’t have a negative experience.

5. Follow your instinct

If at any time, you get a I’m-not-so-sure-about-this feeling in your stomach, trust yourself and find another organization. You should feel 100% positive that your volunteer experience is going to be worth your time and efforts. If you don’t, keep searching until you do. After I left Nepal, I found another volunteer organization to work for, this time in Thailand. The three months I spent in Thailand has been one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences in my life. Even though I’d had a bad experience volunteering abroad, I am still looking forward to more volunteer projects in the future. I’m just going to be a bit smarter this time around.

* If you’d like to read my blog about the Nepal volunteer scam, go to: http://connvoyage.blogspot.com/2010/04/lies-lies-lies-or-volunteering-in-nepal.html

Connie Hum

Connie HumConnie Hum is a bit of a loose canon. She gets an idea in her head and she just goes with it. After making the decision to live the life she’s always wanted, Connie left her amazing apartment in New York City and job at an international consulting firm in February 2009. Since that time, she’s lived in Istanbul, sailed in the Mediterranean, slept in a Bedouin cave in the mountains of Petra, bellydanced her way through Cairo, drank afternoon tea in London, danced with young Buddhist monks in Burma, learned the art of Vipassana meditation in an ashram in India, trekked the Himalayan mountain range in Nepal and sunbathed in the gorgeous beaches of Thailand. And this is only the beginning! You can follow her travel (mis)adventures on www.connvoyage.com or on Twitter at @connvoyage.

Temples From Europe To Asia

Friday, May 21st, 2010

Temples. Temples. Temples. What can I say about temples? I don’t know. Let’s just look at pretty pictures of temples instead.

Pura Luhur, Uluwatu

The silhouette of Pura Luhur sitting on a cliff overlooking the sea. Uluwatu, Bali, right after the sunset

Temple of Debod, Madrid

The illuminated Temple of Debod at dusk in Parque del Oeste, Madrid. This temple was originally built in Egypt around 2nd century BC, and then in 1968 it was donated to Spain and rebuilt in Madrid.

Temple of Poseidon, Greece

The ancient Greek temple of Poseidon, Cape Sounion, Greece. Built around 440 BC.

Dina from Vagabond Quest

Ryan and Dina are a couple of permanent travelers vagabonding around the world. Ryan is a software guy from Canada, and Dina is a chemist from Java, Indonesia. They met in Japan and then lived in Ontario, Canada. In April 2009, they closed their home and since then have been living on the road with their 2 backpacks. They focus on cheap travel and ways to get more travel enjoyment for less cash. In their blog “Vagabond Quest“, they share their stories and recommendations. Follow them on Twitter @VagabondQuest.

Angkor Wat, Cambodia

We often see from the other side of the lens and think the photographer was in solitude. Once I shot my sunrise for Angkor Wat I decided to shoot the reality.

Ayngelina

Ayngelina left her job, apartment, boyfriend and friends to travel solo throughout Central and South America. You can read about her adventures at Bacon is Magic, as she eats her way through Central and South America. You can follow her on Twitter @Ayngelina.

Angkor Wat, Cambodia

The temples and ruins of the UNESCO World Heritage Site of Angkor Wat fascinate travelers as a look into the past, but Angkor Wat is still very much a modern sacred site as well. Pictured is a New Year celebration within the temple complex.

Kevin Revolinski

Kevin Revolinski is the author of The Yogurt Man Cometh: Tales of an American Teacher in Turkey and the Bangkok expert for NileGuide.com. His website and blog are at The Mad Traveler Online.

My Son, Vietnam

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Dave Dean

Dave was born and raised in small town New Zealand providing  him with the perfect beginnings for a lifelong travel addiction. After graduating from university with a degree in History and Political Science he packed his meager belongings into a backpack and headed for London. The subsequent years have seen him traveling through thirty-something countries and watching my ‘must see’ list grow larger almost as quickly as I’ve watched my bank balance grow smaller. Check out Dave’s blog, What’s Dave Doing, and follow him on Twitter @driftingkiwi.

Rome, Italy

The Temple of Antoninus and Faustina, built in the 2nd Century AD, was converted into a church in the Middle Age and is thus a wonderful example of the layers of History.

The Temple of Venus Genetrix was dedicated to the goddess of motherhood and domesticity by Julius Caesar in 46 BC.

Simon Los Roques

Simon is ‘wild about travel’ and as soon as possible she packs a few things and goes. Born in Italy, growing up in a small village in the Swiss mountains and at 18 back to Italy, in Milan, she remained a nature lover. Simon loves adventure travel and wilderness, and she is wild about scuba diving, hiking and skiing. She started blogging for fun, while she was jobless, but soon got passionate and continues writing her ‘Travel tales by a Travel Addict’.

Visit Simon’s blog at Wild About Travel and follow her on Twitter.

Angkor Wat, Cambodia

Angkor is a location that lends itself to black and white pictures, I think. The contrasts of the landscape to the ruins seem to show up better in that format. Plus, I think it gives a better image of the age of everything.

Pre Rup, Cambodia

Pre Rup, which is one of the oldest of the temples in the main Angkor Wat area. A nightly traditional is climbing those steps to the top and watching sunset from up there. It's wonderfully peaceful.

Michael Hodson

Michael just completed a sixteen month, round-the-world trip without taking a single plane.  His blog — One Lap, No Jetlag — is at www.mobilelawyer.blogspot.com and you can Twitter him at @mobilelawyer.

Phenom Penh, Cambodia

Royal Temple

Matt Preston

Matt Preston is an English travel photographer and co-founder of Travel With Mate. He has also created a book entitled “Portraits of Asia.”  Matt is currently living in Sydney, Australia before going to Borneo.

Beijing, China

The Hall of Prayer for Good Harvests at the Temple of Heaven

Prayer Cards tied to a bridge at the Confucian Temple

Burning incense and praying at the Lama Temple

Emily Hyndman

Emily Hyndman is a recent college graduate who never leaves home without her camera. A recent trip to Beijing left her with a desire to explore Asia. A big fan of slow travel, Emily hopes to eventually live and work abroad. Until that day comes, she enjoys exploring and living in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, starting with her new home in Seattle, WA. You can follow her on Twitter @eehyndman.

New Delhi, India

Baha'i Temple

Lumbini, Nepal

Mayadevi Temple - Birthplace of Buddha

Sravastlup, India

Myanmar Monastery

Aye, Jack & Emma

These pictures were taken during a mother-daughter Buddhist Pilgrimage to India and Nepal in early 2008.  Follow this fabulous family of three on their inspiring blog Got Passport: Will Travel. Will Serve and follow them on Twitter @gotpassport as they prepare to move to Chiang Mai, Thailand this summer.

Kiyomizu-dera, Kyoto, Japan

This UNESCO World Heritage Site is a Buddhist temple complex consisting of over 30 beautiful, old buildings that rest on a hillside full of trees and natural springs.

Java, Indonesia

Prambanan temple complex near Jogjakarta on the island of Java, Indonesia. These Hindu temples date from the 9th century and are a UNESCO World Heritage Site.

Bali, Indonesia

This temple is known for its spectacular location as it rests on a cliff about 70 meters above the ocean.

Jenna Francisco

Jenna works as a professor in Sacramento, California, but loves to get away whenever she can.  She studied and lived abroad and has traveled extensively through Europe.  She has a multi-cultural family and spends time every year visiting family either in Brazil or Indonesia, or both.  As the mother of a toddler, she is learning new ways to travel and looks forward to sharing her adventures with others.  Check out her blog at Adventures of a 21st Century Family.

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Inspirational Reading: Leaving Microsoft To Change The World

Sunday, February 21st, 2010

Great books are books that take me out of my element. Books that make me miss my stop. Books that make me wish my 1+ hour commute was just a little bit longer. Books like John Wood’s “Leaving Microsoft To Change The World.” I’ve been reading it every morning for the past 2 weeks and I wait a dreadfully long 10 hours before I can immerse myself in it again.

John writes about his transition from a six-figure Microsoft exec to an unpaid non-profit entrepreneur. Well…it was more of a dive than a transition and all he needed to take that dive was a little dose of reality – in Nepal. But that’s the beauty of traveling and it’s what traveling is. It’s reality. His book is not so much about his travels around the world but about his travels through life.

Leaving Microsoft To Change The WorldHere’s the synopsis:

In 1998, John Wood was a rising executive at Microsoft when he took a vacation that changed his life. What started as a trekking holiday in Nepal became a spiritual journey and then a mission: to change the world one book and one child at a time by setting up libraries in the developing world. He was soon driven to leave his career with only a loose vision of the change he wanted to bring to the world.

John made the unlikely marriage between Microsoft business practices and the world of non-profits to create Room to Read, an organization that has created a network of over 7,500 libraries and 830 schools throughout rural and poor communities in Asia and Africa.

The organization is now one of the fastest growing, most effective, and award-winning non-profits of the last decade. John has been recognized in the worldwide media as a “21st century Andrew Carnegie,” building a public library infrastructure to help the developing world break the cycle of poverty through the lifelong gift of education.

I use to want the corner office. Now, I want the world. I can only assume John use to want the corner office too. He worked in the corporate world for almost 10 years before pursuing his passion in philanthropy. I just wish I don’t have to wait that long before I pursue mine. Reading his story encouraged me to tough it out.

It’s difficult to have ambitions and not be able to execute them. Most of the time, I have scenarios in my head of what I could be doing instead. Since reading John’s book, I’ve decided that I’m going to raise money to build at least 6 schools in rural China. Each school will be in honor of my grandparents and parents because education has always been so deeply ingrained in my family. My maternal grandparents are retired educators.  Unfortunately, Room To Read is currently not operating in China. Hopefully by the time I’ve raised enough funds to start building my first school, Room To Read would have expanded into China.

Have you read anything inspirational lately? Please recommend it. I’m always looking for some mental stimulation.

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Prayer Flags

Sunday, January 31st, 2010

Prayer flags

Prayer flags remind me of Nepal, Tibet, India and Bhutan. Places I’ve only seen in my dreams. They remind of me blue skies, snow-capped mountains and crisp cool air. Most of all, they remind me of serenity. There is this misconception that these flags carry prayers to the gods when the wind blows. In actuality, these flags carry prayers of wisdom, peace, harmony, and compassion to the all living and spiritual beings – people, plants, animals, water and air.

Prayer flags are colorful square or rectangular pieces of cloth that are usually hung along mountain ridges and high peaks. They are sacred and are never to be placed on the ground or to be used in clothing. They are either hung diagonally from the floor to the top of a temple or monastery or they are hung vertically along a pole. Prayer flags come in a set of five colors; each representing an elements. Blue for the sky. White for the air and wind. Red for fire. Green for water. Yellow for earth. They are hung in that order.

The best time to hang new prayer flags are in the mornings on a sunny and windy day. Hanging them in high places allows the winds to carry the prayer and blessing away. When the images fade from the exposure to the sun and wind, it symbolizes that the prayers have become a permanent part of the universe. New flags are hung every year to acknowledge that all beings are part of something bigger than the world we live in.

Namaste

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